Sweetie, I respect your opinion now. But, you're 19. You may change your mind when you get to be in your mid 30s and become an invisible member of society, as many women become.

I'm just saying. When I was 19 and hotter than hell, stacked with a flat belly, had not a line on my face and didn't need to cover gray hair with dye, I never thought I'd think the way I do now, either.

I'm glad you are waiting until after you have your kids to have the reduction. I'm a Lactation Consultant, and have worked with women who made this choice too young. Breast reduction causes irreparable damage to the ducts in the breast that usually lead to inability to produce adequate supply. You've made the best choice in waiting.

Do what you want and don't worry about what others think. If that means getting work done, do it. If it means not getting it done, do that too.

Surgery scares me for any reason, and I would be too worried to do anything elective.