Most of them are cheating to me

Most of them in my eyes.

Anything that gives you that bad gut feeling is cheating. Everyone has a different definition, it all depends on what you and your partner have agreed on.

I am amazed at how many chose "having feelings that are more than friends with another" as an option. Maybe I'm not interpreting the response the same way, but the way I see it, I can't control my emotions that way. I can't help it if I develop feelings for someone, but what I can do is control how I respond to those feelings and what actions I take because of them. So in my mind, it's not cheating to develop feelings for someone else. Cheating would come into play only if you actually acted on those feelings.