I'm suspecting that most people's first time is far from being as sexy and romantic as Hollywood and cinemax makes it out to be. With inexperiance, jitters, and the fear most all of us had instilled in us by adults, I'm wondering how was your first time? Was it the best you ever had, was it incomfortable or was it just plain traumatic?

Think about it verses the sex life you've had since. less

Ugh...mine would fall under the bad/ugly (maybe tragic?) category. It didn't hurt or anything. I was 19 and I'd already been masturbating for several years before this, so I sort of knew what to expect. My boyfriend at the time was an older man, and he just sort of lost interest halfway through. We were in a hotel room and he got up right in the middle of having intercourse. He went to the bathroom for a minute, and when he came back he just sat on the end of the bed and turned the tv on to CNN. I sat there staring at him for a minute before I asked what he was doing. He said, "Well, I don't have cable tv at home, so I never get to watch this." I was pretty devastated. I couldn't compete with Wolf Blitzer, apparently.

I've never told that story before. It's too weird and embarrassing. less