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How Was Your First Time?

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Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I'm suspecting that most people's first time is far from being as sexy and romantic as Hollywood and cinemax makes it out to be. With inexperiance, jitters, and the fear most all of us had instilled in us by adults, I'm wondering how was your first time? Was it the best you ever had, was it incomfortable or was it just plain traumatic?

Think about it verses the sex life you've had since.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
The Best
6  (7%)
The Good
39  (48%)
The Bad
21  (26%)
The Ugly
15  (19%)
Total votes: 81
Poll is closed
09/02/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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09/02/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I thought it was enjoyable pretty sure she did too
09/02/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
None of the above. It was just sort of meh to me. I do remember thinking "This is what everyone is so excited about?" Fortunately I've had better sex since then.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
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Originally posted by Taylor
None of the above. It was just sort of meh to me. I do remember thinking "This is what everyone is so excited about?" Fortunately I've had better sex since then.
same here..
09/02/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
painful , didn't enjoy at all.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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Painful and terrible. My first boyfriend had a lot of trouble orgasming (it usually took him 45 minutes from intercourse) so it was a long, painful experience! My first with my current boyfriend was pretty nice! Now it's amazing, though!
09/02/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
It was good, not mind-blowing, nobody got off, but it felt good to both of us, nobody got hurt, and we both enjoyed it and had fun. Not bad for a pair of virgins.
09/02/2011
Contributor: PussyPurr PussyPurr
I was thirteen, it was with a guy I had just met, and I remember screaming and jumping off the bed when he first tried to penetrate me. So yeah, pretty bad...
09/02/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We were both 16 and has been dating/making out for quite some time. We were both ready and it was beautiful. A sunny summer day along a secluded section of a stream. I'll never forget it.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Nothing special. Didn't get anything out of it. I think it was kind of a few times in and out and then we called it quits.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
None of the above. It wasn't really good or bad, just mediocre.
09/02/2011
Contributor: guard083 guard083
It was good I enjoyed it
09/03/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
it was different then the sex we have now, but great in a different way.
09/03/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
I'm suspecting that most people's first time is far from being as sexy and romantic as Hollywood and cinemax makes it out to be. With inexperiance, jitters, and the fear most all of us had instilled in us by adults, I'm wondering how was ... more
Honestly couldent have been a better situation. The best part of it was it was completely unexpected. I always figured I would have to do some planning on how that was going to come about. She actually took control and it was awesome.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
it was pretty horrendous. he didn't know what he was doing and nor did i. it's a memory best buried lol
09/03/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Nice guy, wouldn't really change much about it. Was kind of painful and awkward though, but it was sweet. It was my first and his.
09/03/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
Mine was actually pretty good. I was a bit older my first time, about 22, so the guy I was with knew what he was doing. It was slightly painful at first, but after the initial penetration it was pretty enjoyable.
09/03/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
It was pretty fantastic: some of my fears were realized (it was painful, he had trouble getting in because I was so tight, and I did bleed), but it was by no means traumatic and perhaps one of THE most intimate moments we've ever had. My man is older and experienced, and he was extremely careful, patient and nurturing throughout the whole thing. I was also 25, so I already knew the pleasure points of my body as well as had the confidence to say "stop" when he went too far.
09/04/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
It wasn't a nightmere, but it wasn't anything to write home about. more like "...this is it?!". Of course, I figured out it gets better
11/20/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
It was good I guess... It wasn't bad or ugly, but it wasn't mind-blowing either. Maybe a "meh" option would have been good lol
11/20/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
I'm suspecting that most people's first time is far from being as sexy and romantic as Hollywood and cinemax makes it out to be. With inexperiance, jitters, and the fear most all of us had instilled in us by adults, I'm wondering how was ... more
we didnt even no what we were doing!!we were young and did it on a dare...stupid!
11/20/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
None of the above, it was sort of boring. My mind: 'Jeeze, this it what sex is like? I get a better time from my own hands.' It got a bit better later on, but what did I expect from both of us being virgins? (It got even better when I fooled around with a guy that had a thick (6in circ.) one and read litererotica. He certainly knew what to do for the most part.)
11/20/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
It was silly. I was young, we were nervous and in love, it was a ridiculous situation. I enjoyed it, although it wasn't particularly physically pleasurable
11/20/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
It was only painful for a second but it was still awful.
11/20/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
It's not that I didn't like it, I just wondered when he'd be done, it seemed like it took forever.
11/22/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
awkward as hell
11/22/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
It was not in any way a good time.....horrendous, more like it. It was on our honeymoon and I was so freaking tight and he was in like 2 seconds when I started crying uncontrollably. He stopped, and I curled up and cried for about 30 minutes.

LUCKILY, things have gotten SO FREAKIN' MUCH BETTER.
11/22/2011
Contributor: Chabak Chabak
the first time in school days I had
12/12/2011
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
my first time was pretty good
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