My boo and I are both in parental living situations where his family is extremely strict to where I can only be downstairs (his room is upstairs) and my mom is home 85% of the day. She knows I am sexually active, but I don't know if she knows I am with my current boyfriend. That being said, the only place we can really do anything is in my car, and we have figured out that my car is one of the most uncomfortable places to do that sort of thing. The only other time we can is when his family leaves town (like his week ) or when I know my mom will be gone for an extended period of time.
How often do you have sex?
02/14/2011
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I would suppose I'm the typical guy. I have a huge sex drive.I wish it could be several times a day. With the baby here now and all the other kids and stress, it has taken a toll on my wife. These days when it happens, it's like christmas all over again. I hope she doesn't read this!
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
Typically, how often do you have sex with your partner? Feel free to explain.
02/14/2011
It varies for us. Sometimes it's multiple times a day for a couple weeks. Sometimes it's a couple times a week. Just depends on everything else we do
02/14/2011
I'll say once a week is the minimum - we've done it more than once though.
02/14/2011
Usually once or twice a week. We both want more, but I am only home two days a week, and it makes it difficult with everything else that we have to do.
02/14/2011
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If we miss a day or so, sometimes it's really intense. It depends. We tend to not be able to wait, unless one of us isn't feeling well or something. We don't have the control to plan waiting any time.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
I've always found that spreading the sex out increases its intensity
If for some reason (it hasn't happened in a while) I go more than week, I lose my mind at first and then I start to see my drive dip nearing the 7 day mark. So, for us, more is better.
02/14/2011
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Oh, a baby? Congratulations!
Originally posted by
markeagleone
I would suppose I'm the typical guy. I have a huge sex drive.I wish it could be several times a day. With the baby here now and all the other kids and stress, it has taken a toll on my wife. These days when it happens, it's like christmas all
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I would suppose I'm the typical guy. I have a huge sex drive.I wish it could be several times a day. With the baby here now and all the other kids and stress, it has taken a toll on my wife. These days when it happens, it's like christmas all over again. I hope she doesn't read this!
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But, yeah, they are murder on your sex life. Don't worry, it will get better when the baby gets to about a year old. At least that's what we found with all of ours. At about 3 there is an other spike and when they really independent (say 8 or 9) there is an other spike, where you have more time for each other.
But, that first year of a baby's life, Mama's mind is "Keep this baby alive and happy." Not so much of our thoughts are in the sex department, not even me. My Man was terribly neglected the first year or so of our baby's lives. I tried to make it up with blow jobs at least 3 or 4 times a week (I didn't want my breasts touched or even brushed up against) and/or sex at least 2 or 3 times a week, but it got better for sex when the baby got more independent.
I think we went 2 weeks once when I was on Depo Provera, though. I didn't even realize it. That stuff kills sex drive for me more than babies do.
02/14/2011
I'm still a vaginal virgin, so there is no option for not yet
02/14/2011
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I find the same holds true for us!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
I actually find the opposite! If I wait and don't maintain my high sex drive it seems to dwindle and lose intensity.
02/14/2011
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"If for some reason (it hasn't happened in a while) I go more than week, I lose my mind at first and then I start to see my drive dip nearing the 7 day mark. So, for us, more is better."
Originally posted by
P'Gell
If we miss a day or so, sometimes it's really intense. It depends. We tend to not be able to wait, unless one of us isn't feeling well or something. We don't have the control to plan waiting any time.
If for some reason (it ... more
If for some reason (it ... more
If we miss a day or so, sometimes it's really intense. It depends. We tend to not be able to wait, unless one of us isn't feeling well or something. We don't have the control to plan waiting any time.
If for some reason (it hasn't happened in a while) I go more than week, I lose my mind at first and then I start to see my drive dip nearing the 7 day mark. So, for us, more is better. less
If for some reason (it hasn't happened in a while) I go more than week, I lose my mind at first and then I start to see my drive dip nearing the 7 day mark. So, for us, more is better. less
Same here!
02/14/2011
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That's interesting. I guess that's another poll question I could post.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
I've always found that spreading the sex out increases its intensity
02/14/2011
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haha
Originally posted by
markeagleone
I would suppose I'm the typical guy. I have a huge sex drive.I wish it could be several times a day. With the baby here now and all the other kids and stress, it has taken a toll on my wife. These days when it happens, it's like christmas all
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I would suppose I'm the typical guy. I have a huge sex drive.I wish it could be several times a day. With the baby here now and all the other kids and stress, it has taken a toll on my wife. These days when it happens, it's like christmas all over again. I hope she doesn't read this!
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02/14/2011
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That's true. Whoops, I should've added that.
Originally posted by
girl next door
I'm still a vaginal virgin, so there is no option for not yet
02/14/2011
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Oh yeah? That stinks. But that's great that you have a free week. You must be really excited!
Originally posted by
❦Angel Of Music❦
My boo and I are both in parental living situations where his family is extremely strict to where I can only be downstairs (his room is upstairs) and my mom is home 85% of the day. She knows I am sexually active, but I don't know if she knows I
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My boo and I are both in parental living situations where his family is extremely strict to where I can only be downstairs (his room is upstairs) and my mom is home 85% of the day. She knows I am sexually active, but I don't know if she knows I am with my current boyfriend. That being said, the only place we can really do anything is in my car, and we have figured out that my car is one of the most uncomfortable places to do that sort of thing. The only other time we can is when his family leaves town (like his week ) or when I know my mom will be gone for an extended period of time.
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02/14/2011
We're both really busy but we try for once or twice a week. Of course my boyfriend always wants more and I wouldn't be opposed to it if our schedules weren't so full... I find the more often I do it, the more I want it, but if we wait too long, my libido goes down like crazy.
02/14/2011
2 - 3 times a week would be around how often we have sex, Sometimes more sometimes less. My partner things the throat is cut if he has to wait for a week or more....not that that happens often at all.
02/19/2011
Average is probably once or twice a week, but sometimes more. I like it this way.
02/19/2011
We have sex probably four times a week. That's all he's up for. His drive is lower than mine.
09/23/2011
In relationships, I usually go for sex at least once a day unless one of us is sick.
01/26/2012
Generally it's about once a week. We sometimes do other things like blowjobs and such, but we don't have actual sex that often.
01/26/2012
once or twice a week.
01/26/2012
Several times a week.
03/10/2012
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I second that notion !
Originally posted by
firekitten
There should have been a "not enough" option.
03/10/2012
Not nearly enough. But hey we are trying to work on it.
03/10/2012
Since becoming empty-nesters things have gotten much hotter around here!
We average about 13-15x per month.
I find that in my mid 60s, that's pretty much all I can handle.
We average about 13-15x per month.
I find that in my mid 60s, that's pretty much all I can handle.
12/08/2018
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Busting out the moves now, when you're finally by yourselves? That's great, Gunsmoke, so happy for you!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Since becoming empty-nesters things have gotten much hotter around here!
We average about 13-15x per month.
I find that in my mid 60s, that's pretty much all I can handle.
We average about 13-15x per month.
I find that in my mid 60s, that's pretty much all I can handle.
I only had sex a couple times a day when I first started having sex and couldn't get enough, always hungry.
Now it came down to several times a week and we're both very satisfied with the schedule.
12/10/2018
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My husband and I have sex maybe 2 or 3 times a week. I would love to have sex multiple times a day, but he doesn't have as high of a sex drive as me!
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
Typically, how often do you have sex with your partner? Feel free to explain.
10/27/2019
it has been several months with no one's fault except my broken brain or body.
10/31/2019
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