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Contributor: Valyn Valyn
Sammi said, in How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups., "Yah, I answered for two-person sex as well. Maybe we should have a masturbation poll "

So, here it is! How often do you do it? Care to share how? With partners doesn't count, just you with you alone (okay, maybe you with some toys )!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Every day!
106  (31%)
Never!
4  (1%)
Once or twice in my life
2  (1%)
Once or twice a week
96  (28%)
About 5 times a week
65  (19%)
Once or twice a month
15  (4%)
7 - 14 times a month
15  (4%)
15 - 25 times a month
5  (1%)
25 - 30 times a month
6  (2%)
Other (Please explain)
25  (7%)
Total votes: 339
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
I chose other... on average, I'd say every other day. So 3.5 times a week.
07/06/2009
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
Quote:
Originally posted by Epiphora
I chose other... on average, I'd say every other day. So 3.5 times a week.
...which would fall into the 7-14 times a month bracket?
07/06/2009
Contributor: Laccaria Laccaria
I voted other because I go thorough periods where I couldn't care less and periods where I can't get enough. Also, my partner lives in a different states most of the time, so sometimes I am getting lots of sex and sometimes I am getting none. Basically, my masturbation habits are erratic.
07/07/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I'm also an "other". It's a complicated formula of number of times I get sex with a partner, hormone levels, and stress. When I was without a sexual partner for a few months I masturbated 2 or 3 times a day though.
07/18/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I voted five times a week. But I am not that scheduled. Some days I feel so horny that I masturbate three times. If I have partner sex, masturbation is part of foreplay for me but I see this as just foreplay.
If I am busy or tired, I just don't think about it. Guess I really can't say.
07/18/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I chose every day, although that's a bit off. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood. But when I do masturbate, I usually do it two, maybe even three times a day, so it tends to pan out to 7-10 times a week or so.
07/18/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
I wasn't really sure how to vote on this. I didn't know if it meant how many sessions or how many times I climaxed. I usually do it about every other day, depending, but sometimes like most Saturdays when my husband is working and when I have the time to just lie back with some porn on the tube and a good erotic book at the ready, I may do about three orgasms inside of an hour, and I count that as one session, and those are terrific.
07/21/2009
Contributor: Undressed Reviews Undressed Reviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Valyn
Sammi said, in How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups., "Yah, I answered for two-person sex as well. Maybe we should have a masturbation poll "

So, here it is! How often do you do it? Care to share how? With ... more
Now that I am living with a partner that I have excellent sex with on an almost daily basis, I don't masturbate alone as often. Probably two or three times a week.

When I'm alone or dating various individuals? Pretty much everyday. With toys, of course!
07/26/2009
Contributor: solosailor solosailor
I also gave my average. Considering the fact that I sometimes have morning and evening play, and on other days go without or with a partner it probably averages out to daily.
08/13/2009
Contributor: Envy Envy
It used to be about 3 times a week, mostly due to the fact i work 4 days out of the week and get home when dad is home, and no way in hell will I do anythign with him home, I never get a moment's peace. Plus my bc pills have finally taken away all my libido, now I'm not even in the mood for that or anything, it's horrible. So I haven't done anything now for about a week or so, and it's still dead as ever.
08/13/2009
Contributor: Alluring_Irony Alluring_Irony
I do about everyday.... sometime twice a day... I'm a nymphomaniac, so I do it before my hubby comes home.. we have sex... couple hours later I do it again. We have sex again, then before I go to sleep I do it again...
08/14/2009
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
I really go in spurts depending on stress, tiredness, how much sex I've been getting, etc. There are some times I'll masturbate several times a day, and then I won't touch myself for weeks at a time. It also seems like when I am getting more sex, then I masturbate more. When I'm not, I just seem to kind of shut off sexually. Convenient if I don't have a partner, but rather annoying at the same time!
08/17/2009
Contributor: sandman sandman
Quote:
Originally posted by Valyn
Sammi said, in How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups., "Yah, I answered for two-person sex as well. Maybe we should have a masturbation poll "

So, here it is! How often do you do it? Care to share how? With ... more
It all depends on my work schedule. Sometimes I'm home all day for 5 days straight days and that'll up how often I masturbate. Being home that long lends to a lot of time on my hands, and you know what they say about idle hands....
08/30/2009
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
Maybe once or twice a month, now that I live with my partner and have sex regularly... but when I'm on my own I'd say 4 or 5 times a week sounds about right.
11/04/2009
Contributor: Heather Heather
O.k. so the whole solo thing is new to me but really a couple times a day! How do you find the time? And after the other poll about numbers of toys used and some of those posts with people using up to 3 toys per session! Yes I can see those of you without a partner or a husband overseas o.k. but a couple times per day. HOW? Am I the only one after I climax I'm toast. The house could catch on fire and I don't care. I hate sex in the a.m. for that reason. I get nothing done all morning and drink a pot of coffee every a.m. I wish I was you. I'm sure all of you have a much stronger sex drive becuase of this. That's it! Kids bedtime is now being changed to 6pm, they don't need dinner! HA HA.
11/06/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
Only when I'm having phone sex or webcam sex with my little girl. I never was interested in it, I much more prefer having actual sex.
11/06/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Valyn
Sammi said, in How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups., "Yah, I answered for two-person sex as well. Maybe we should have a masturbation poll "

So, here it is! How often do you do it? Care to share how? With ... more
i'll admit - i use to do it almost ever day - sometimes several times in one day. but having a great partner and getting a little older and i'm down to a couple times per week.
11/06/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Heather
O.k. so the whole solo thing is new to me but really a couple times a day! How do you find the time? And after the other poll about numbers of toys used and some of those posts with people using up to 3 toys per session! Yes I can see those of you ... more
Discovery is an ongoing process. I "discovered" the pleasure of my body at about 12 yrs old and sort of grew from there. I since discovered the high of multi-orgasms that I desire and need more prior to the "final", with or w/o a partner.
Masturbation with toys has provided me with a tremendous sense of satisfaction and comfort that I always want to explore.
Masturbation prior to sleep is so relaxing and a quickie in the am, gets me going but I still need my coffee.
11/07/2009
Contributor: ~miss.heather~ ~miss.heather~
I had to laugh at the option to vote "once or twice in my life".....
11/21/2009
Contributor: tnboater tnboater
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
Discovery is an ongoing process. I "discovered" the pleasure of my body at about 12 yrs old and sort of grew from there. I since discovered the high of multi-orgasms that I desire and need more prior to the "final", with or w/o a ... more
And I have been masterbating since I was about 9 yrs. old. It is by far the best feeling stress reliever, it is redily available, and it's free. Although I must say that a hand job by a woman, preferrably nude, ( me being a man ) is about a hundred times better.
11/22/2009
Contributor: Daddy'sPuppy Daddy'sPuppy
My records 12 times in one day. but usually its like 4 or 5
12/06/2009
Contributor: Valyn Valyn
Quote:
Originally posted by ~miss.heather~
I had to laugh at the option to vote "once or twice in my life".....
Hey, you never know! I didn't expect to see any votes for that one though, not on this site! Still at zero!
12/06/2009
Contributor: DELETED DELETED
I like to masturbate late at night. I play with my ass and pussy way too much!!
12/06/2009
Contributor: Holly Hox Holly Hox
varies for me really. depends on how much actual sex I am getting, etc. Sometimes a couple times a day, and sometimes only a couple times a week. It is always changing!
01/02/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
Have to get rid of the "morning wood".
01/02/2010
Contributor: SexyTigerX SexyTigerX
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I voted five times a week. But I am not that scheduled. Some days I feel so horny that I masturbate three times. If I have partner sex, masturbation is part of foreplay for me but I see this as just foreplay.
If I am busy or tired, I just ... more
I voted every day. More like 14 times a week. Like Liz2 some days I'm so horny I masturbate three or four times a day. Usually after a really good morning workout in my basement gym. That aways seems to make me very horny. Also, at night I read my erotic books and then masturbate before going to sleep. A girls gotta have fun!
01/24/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by deceased
Have to get rid of the "morning wood".
How I miss having a man with morning wood. I would be the one to take care of that.
01/24/2010
Contributor: Wild at Heart Wild at Heart
I used not to be so into it but when I got my toys, it was only the beginning. I voted everyday because it is typically everyday or night. Most mornings, and nearly every night. It puts me in a better mood.
01/26/2010
Contributor: Domineight Domineight
So weird! i was trying to make this survey just yesterday and kept having weird glitches making the poll. Fate knew you were doing the same thing at the same time!
01/27/2010