It is a must for my wife and myself to have extended foreplay.
How important is foreplay in your relationship?
07/13/2010
We don't divide sex up into "foreplay" and "intercourse." We do everything at every stage (although I have to be wet for penetration, so some oral is helpful.) We could be fucking for 20 minutes and decide that one or both of us needs some oral or manual stim, we use toys all during sex, or not at all, we often have oral sex after one of us has already had an orgasm, and certainly after I've only had one or so.
There's no dividing line for us, it's all just "sex play" and sometimes we don't even "get around" to PIV sex.
Everybody is different.
But, yeah. I better get some oral, he occasionally VERY occasionally can go without getting head, if we're having a quickie, but I won't do without it. But, we don't use the word "foreplay" in our house. From the first grab or kiss to the panting afterword and cleaning the toy part, it's all PLAY!
There's no dividing line for us, it's all just "sex play" and sometimes we don't even "get around" to PIV sex.
Everybody is different.
But, yeah. I better get some oral, he occasionally VERY occasionally can go without getting head, if we're having a quickie, but I won't do without it. But, we don't use the word "foreplay" in our house. From the first grab or kiss to the panting afterword and cleaning the toy part, it's all PLAY!
07/14/2010
I've learned just recently that I as the guy actually need some foreplay because if there's not a enough foreplay than I start having ED issues. My wife likes to jump into things real quick since we're usually not getting around to having sex until pretty late but it's not NEARLY as good without it.
07/20/2010
Foreplay for us, means the simple flirting, grabbing ,whispers and kisses long before the clothes start coming off; sometimes hours before they come off. It is a must only because that is how we show our desire for each other. Knowing that we are enjoying the seduction is a major turn on. It leads to amazing sex and intimacy.
02/11/2011
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Same here. If the clothes or just some of them are off and there is any kind of stimulation happening, it is sex play in our book.
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P'Gell
We don't divide sex up into "foreplay" and "intercourse." We do everything at every stage (although I have to be wet for penetration, so some oral is helpful.) We could be fucking for 20 minutes and decide that one or both of
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We don't divide sex up into "foreplay" and "intercourse." We do everything at every stage (although I have to be wet for penetration, so some oral is helpful.) We could be fucking for 20 minutes and decide that one or both of us needs some oral or manual stim, we use toys all during sex, or not at all, we often have oral sex after one of us has already had an orgasm, and certainly after I've only had one or so.
There's no dividing line for us, it's all just "sex play" and sometimes we don't even "get around" to PIV sex.
Everybody is different.
But, yeah. I better get some oral, he occasionally VERY occasionally can go without getting head, if we're having a quickie, but I won't do without it. But, we don't use the word "foreplay" in our house. From the first grab or kiss to the panting afterword and cleaning the toy part, it's all PLAY! less
There's no dividing line for us, it's all just "sex play" and sometimes we don't even "get around" to PIV sex.
Everybody is different.
But, yeah. I better get some oral, he occasionally VERY occasionally can go without getting head, if we're having a quickie, but I won't do without it. But, we don't use the word "foreplay" in our house. From the first grab or kiss to the panting afterword and cleaning the toy part, it's all PLAY! less
02/11/2011
We both crave intimacy, so it's a staple. It's not sex without it!
02/16/2011
Time is certainly a factor but foreplay is super excellent so if there is any time available for it at all, it's happening.
02/16/2011
It's a must for me. it doesn't take much because I'm pretty easy to arouse, though.
02/17/2011
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We love it, but if there's no time we don't or sometimes a quickie is just fun too!
Originally posted by
spicywife
I'm interested in learning how important foreplay is, especially in comparison to females versus males. If your situation doesn't match one on the list, then comment and let me know! Thanks!
02/17/2011
Depends what I'm in the mood for, really.
02/17/2011
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Depends on the time and place. It is always nice though! I like when it builds up all day!
Originally posted by
spicywife
I'm interested in learning how important foreplay is, especially in comparison to females versus males. If your situation doesn't match one on the list, then comment and let me know! Thanks!
02/17/2011
depends on time
02/17/2011
For me, it depends on my mood and how turned on I am. I don't always need it, sometimes I'm just ready to go. Other times I need a fair amount of foreplay first.
05/31/2011
foreplay
08/20/2011
Mostly, we have quite a bit of foreplay when we make love. Sometimes we try to have a quickie but we're not very good at giving up the foreplay. We do have times when I will make him cum or he will me, and that's all we do for then, if one of us is especially horny. We always repay the favor later.
06/06/2013
Foreplay normally focuses on my wife but I appreciate it most of the time, not all the time.
06/11/2013
I like it but I don't have to have it every time
06/12/2013
There are times that we'll skip foreplay a bit, but for the most part, foreplay is definitely a must!!
06/12/2013
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