How do you feel about your exes keeping you in their "Spank Bank"?

Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
They can do what they like, I'd prefer not to know about it
02/28/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
I LOVE seeing old exs or guys that wouldnt give me the time of day purchase memberships to my sites. I giggle and go "yea, eat your heart out!" ^_^
04/22/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Depends a lot on why she had the image of me. If it was something clean, that's different, but I'd hope we'd both erase anything naughty after the breakup, for both sides sake.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I'd be so flattered if I found that out it would be the best part of my day.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Various Various
Doesn't bother me at all.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I don't have any exes. But I'd be pretty uncomfortable if they still did that. :/
04/22/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
creeped a bit
04/22/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I would be completely indifferent. What is the stretch? If he is an ex and would have racy to kinky pictures, obviously you were his fantasy and he was yours at one point in time. Obviously you had sex and be honest, a random thought will still pop into your head about a unique sexual experience with different exes. That does not mean you actually are fantasizing, it is just a random thread.

So he still masturbates to pictures of you...it could be worse. At least masturbation is a solitary fantasy that is not much different than looking at a pinup. I honestly would not care one bit.

My husband's ex did fantasize about him. And talk about it to other people like it might just happen someday. Usually it was no big deal, but occasionally I just got tired of the situation.

There was also more blatant attempts for breaking my husband and I up...I finally told her that I was seriously flattered to be worth that much of her time and trouble. And that my husband and I were both very flattered and appreciated the ego boost her fantasizing was giving us. After all, if he would have still wanted her he would never have fucked around on her, divorced her and also married someone else, (me). There was a lot more, but you get the gist. Yeah.....I can be a catty bitch when I get fed up with a situation.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
Nope its done its over get me out of your head....not that its easy i mean i am pretty damn sexy lol
04/22/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I don't think that it's an issue if I don't know about it. But if I were told I guess I wouldn't really care either way about it.
04/23/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
it wouldn't be a bad thing, kinda flattering in a creepy sorta way
05/08/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Shay
Over at The S Spot (link), we've been talking about how we'd feel, knowing that an ex is using our image as masturbation fodder. OR how we'd feel after finding out that a partner's ex was doing the same.
Indifferent. It's an ex, and people are bound to fantasize about both you and your partner in most cases. It's something that can't be controlled, so no worries about it!
05/08/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Red
I think it's unreasonable to think you have any say about how someone else masturbates. And given that I feel it's an issue that's out of my hands (if I knowingly gave them or let them take photos...), why bother being anything but ... more
That's an awesome attitude to have about it!
05/08/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
That's a tough one, when the occurs it makes it difficult for both Souls to move on to the next relationship.
05/08/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
A combination of creeped out and amused.
05/09/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Shay
Over at The S Spot (link), we've been talking about how we'd feel, knowing that an ex is using our image as masturbation fodder. OR how we'd feel after finding out that a partner's ex was doing the same.
Does not matter to me...let them think what they want.
12/30/2012