I tried one once. It was not a good experience and I don't think I will ever try it again. I felt hurt and jealous afterwards and it took a long time before I felt like I could trust our relationship again.
Have you participated in a three way?
09/06/2012
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I'd love to have a 3-some with two guys, but I can't get a guy to agree to it, lol.
Originally posted by
Bethy Cassatt
And any advice?
09/06/2012
yeah it was pretty fun
09/06/2012
nope, and I never would.
09/07/2012
I had a friend who we used to get together for some great sex, one night while at the club (bar). she met a friend who was a knockout, and was going to get married in a few days I did not know that they had a relationship, but I was invited to spend the night with them, what a night, it got so good we spent another night together,
09/07/2012
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I haven't, but would like to.
Originally posted by
Bethy Cassatt
And any advice?
09/07/2012
my bf and i have talked about it because he wants to have a three way with another girl because im bi curious i wouldn't really mind but he wants me to find someone and i dont know anyone whod be willing but where he has friend who have come out and said hey we'll do it he doest wanna talk about it so i really dont think its fair that he want me to share him with another girl but he wont share me with a guy
09/07/2012
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Nope and never will, I don't share and neither does my husband.
Originally posted by
SMichelle
I have.. on a few occasions, yes.
BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually ... more
BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually ... more
I have.. on a few occasions, yes.
BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually help our relationship. We separated for reasons completely unrelated to the threeway, a year or so after the threeway happened. less
BecksMama -- I disagree that someone always gets hurt. I've participated in a few threeways, and no one has ever gotten hurt. My last threeway was with an ex -- and the threeway really seemed to actually help our relationship. We separated for reasons completely unrelated to the threeway, a year or so after the threeway happened. less
09/07/2012
Have and will continue to do so.
09/07/2012
Yep! I'm in a polyamorous relationship, though, so we all know each other pretty well and talk about our comfort and limits a lot. It really works best if you're with communicative, friendly people who you really trust.
09/09/2012
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Well said Valerie! (BTW, do I know you from Wordpress?)
Originally posted by
ValerieRayne
I've had tons of MMF threesomes and have attempted 2 MFF threesomes. With me, a girl and another guy, I tend to get way to jealous and insecure, so though it is a massive fantasy of mine, I have decided to just leave that one lie.
The MMF ... more
The MMF ... more
I've had tons of MMF threesomes and have attempted 2 MFF threesomes. With me, a girl and another guy, I tend to get way to jealous and insecure, so though it is a massive fantasy of mine, I have decided to just leave that one lie.
The MMF threesomes were all fun. The only time I ever didn't have fun was when the other guy, who wasn't my boyfriend, thought that that one time now meant that I always wanted to hook up with him, which I definitely didn't.
Really, I could go on and on with advice but the only advice that matters is that all parties involved are completely comfortable with it. Back in those days, we had a rule that only boyfriend could penetrate vaginally, though that rule changed over the years. Be sure to set clear and defined boundaries before going into it.
If you don't want your guy eating someone else out, or something about it doesn't make you comfortable, absolutely open your mouth about it. You're already taking a wonderful step in considering the threesome prior to jumping right into it. Get your mind-juices flowing about the threesome so that you can be prepared when you're in it to deal with any situations that may arise.
Absolutely communicate to the best of your ability, if not better. Threesomes have been known to ruin seemingly great relationships. If you're unsure, insecure, jealous or any other negative emotion, speak up about it. Let your partner know that the size of her boobs makes you insecure or the size of his cock scares you. Don't ever stop communicating, especially during the threesome. Practice visual and body cues so that you don't have to use your words. And beat your partner up if they don't communicate with you back. It's absolutely imperative!
In summary, the two main things you should take from this is that a threesome needs to have CONSENT and COMMUNICATION to be anything that anyone is going to enjoy. After that, things just tend to fall into place. less
The MMF threesomes were all fun. The only time I ever didn't have fun was when the other guy, who wasn't my boyfriend, thought that that one time now meant that I always wanted to hook up with him, which I definitely didn't.
Really, I could go on and on with advice but the only advice that matters is that all parties involved are completely comfortable with it. Back in those days, we had a rule that only boyfriend could penetrate vaginally, though that rule changed over the years. Be sure to set clear and defined boundaries before going into it.
If you don't want your guy eating someone else out, or something about it doesn't make you comfortable, absolutely open your mouth about it. You're already taking a wonderful step in considering the threesome prior to jumping right into it. Get your mind-juices flowing about the threesome so that you can be prepared when you're in it to deal with any situations that may arise.
Absolutely communicate to the best of your ability, if not better. Threesomes have been known to ruin seemingly great relationships. If you're unsure, insecure, jealous or any other negative emotion, speak up about it. Let your partner know that the size of her boobs makes you insecure or the size of his cock scares you. Don't ever stop communicating, especially during the threesome. Practice visual and body cues so that you don't have to use your words. And beat your partner up if they don't communicate with you back. It's absolutely imperative!
In summary, the two main things you should take from this is that a threesome needs to have CONSENT and COMMUNICATION to be anything that anyone is going to enjoy. After that, things just tend to fall into place. less
09/12/2012
Yeh...quite a few actually! MFM is the best from my point of view, but I've had a couple of really sensual FMF threesomes, it all depends on the setting, the mood and most importantly, the third party!
09/12/2012
I haven't. I've thought about it though.
09/12/2012
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If it's MMF, get some DP action. Then report back to me as to how it was, since it is one on my never lived out fantasies!!
Originally posted by
Bethy Cassatt
And any advice?
09/12/2012
I recommend trying it when you're single, or being the third brought in. If you're a couple bringing in a third there's more room for drama. Communication is key. If you want boundaries set them beforehand, and make sure everyone understands and agrees. Good luck!
09/14/2012
Yes but only once! Don't think I will ever again though.
09/14/2012
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