Years ago, my fiancee told me that her pussy was a muscle, that the more she used it the tighter and stronger it would become. She couldn't remember who told her that (probably one of her former boyfriends), but she put that advice to good use. She does have an incredibly tight pussy.

Well, there appears to scientific evidence that supports previous research that had found sex is very healthy for women:

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So, ladies, get busy for longer and healthier lives ;-)

Hi Leil,

Please allow me to clarify.

As we all know, the 'net is replete with myths, urban legends, fake news, propaganda, and all manner of info that isn't true. For the most part, who cares? However, when info is about health, posters are obligated to support what they're posting as factual by posting links of scientific proof like I did about the very real dangers of breaks in skin. We don't have to watch "Monsters Inside Me" to know that various opportunistic pathogens and parasites seize advantages to invade hosts.

As to masturbation, we have all been exposed to myths and urban legends. In contrast, I have yet to be exposed to any scientific research that has indicated that masturbation, male and female, present any medical risks.

My fiancee and I established open and candid sexual conversations very early in our dating relationship. One of of her first personal revelations was that she has always loved sex, and she, in essence, craved euphoric sex. She had assured that I knew that to her, euphoric sex was better than any drug. About a week later, she brought up mutual masturbation. By the way she said what she said, she obviously had a lot of experience with mutual masturbation. She had previously told me that while she was extremely sexually active when she was in college, she went off the pill because it caused her to gain weight. Hence, my inference was mutual masturbation was for her and her sex partners a birth control method. She did add that almost always mutual masturbation would end with her getting herself off and her boyfriends' dicks inside of her mouth ;-)

My fiancee told me she has masturbated just about every day since puberty. She's masturbated before dates that she knew would end in sex, and after sex. She is well aware of euphoria created by chemicals released by her brain during orgasm. She has told me that orgasms cause her to become more horny. She assured me that there were no known harmful consequences from masturbation. The confidence with which she assured me of no known medical consequences associated with masturbation appeared to have been based upon scientific research to which she was privy.

My fiancee knows she can sexually stimulate me by masturbating in front of me. I love watching her masturbate, with her fingers and with her various sex toys. I have many videos of her masturbating.

Masturbation is a personal decision. However, people should know medical facts as opposed to opinions, beliefs, myths, urban legends, etc so that they can make informed decisions about their private desires.

I have no horse in this race. I do not care who does and doesn't masturbate. However, I do believe that social decorum requires that posters who desire that their posts be interpreted as factual post links to scientific research that support their info, especially on a sex forum where consequences of bad advice can become catastrophic.

LOL...well, if there were any unhealthy side effects from masturbation; I’d be one unhealthy bastard in the hospital right now ! I think it’s unhealthy not to! It builds stamina and is a great time to explore and experiment with yourself.

I just caught back up to this conversation. I think the point that Croc was trying to make and one that Leil@ was making for both of you is that what one person experiences cant be dismissed by another person just because they haven't experienced it. And that person has the right to talk about it just as much as any other person on this discussion without being made fun of or harassed or told it doesn't exist because everybody has free speech. We don't have to be such asses about it just because we don't believe what somebody else believes or personally experiences in their lives. If I said that my leg turned blue and I was the only person on the planet that it happened to but there was no explanation for it and no diagnosis for it and the doctors didn't have a reason for it so it couldn't be explained, it doesn't mean that my leg isn't blue. And nobody on this discussion can tell me that my leg isn't blue just because you cant find any medical disorder or proof for it turning blue or because it sounds stupid to you and its never happened to you before so it couldn't possibly be a real thing. Same thing. You cant possibly know everything.