In response to Vaginal Fisting only (no experience with Anal Fisting):
I absolutely love it. It had been a fantasy for a very long time of mine but until my current partner, I hadn't had it fulfilled - he's had experience giving before so he knows the right... er... "technique" so to speak. It took us quite a few sessions to figure out what worked for us, went slowly, and one night everything just sort of fell into place.
It feels amazing and he seriously gets off on doing it to me. Go slow, lots of lube, don't get frustrated, and RELAX. Eventually it'll happen - or not! The fun is in the experimentation leading up to it as well as that "oh god it's happening!" moment.
I absolutely love it. It had been a fantasy for a very long time of mine but until my current partner, I hadn't had it fulfilled - he's had experience giving before so he knows the right... er... "technique" so to speak. It took us quite a few sessions to figure out what worked for us, went slowly, and one night everything just sort of fell into place.
It feels amazing and he seriously gets off on doing it to me. Go slow, lots of lube, don't get frustrated, and RELAX. Eventually it'll happen - or not! The fun is in the experimentation leading up to it as well as that "oh god it's happening!" moment.