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Contributor: Sir Sir
I love using those words. Calling someone my dirty whore or disgusting slut turns me on to no end.

I do not use them in daily speech, though, which is why I said that it depends on the situation. I only call my partners such names.
06/08/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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I just want to find out how do you feel about these (Hard sex words):
Asshole, Bitch, Whore, Slut, Jerk, Nasty
that some couples may use during some Sex sessions.

I and my wife feel that any ... more
My guys call me Lady, Love and Lover...and then they will call me Bitch, Whore, Cunt ect. just to see my reaction. Personally, I love it but I will knock teeth out if anyone else says these things, so would they actually. The worst thing someone can call me is a liar. That touches on my totally dysfunctional early childhood.
06/08/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
I don't have a problem with them when used during sex
08/23/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Because he never uses the words, it would seem harsh. If he introduced it as wanting to talk dirty during sex only, I would be open to trying it out.
08/23/2011
Contributor: jg19 jg19
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Originally posted by Kaltir
I'm not ok with my partner ever calling me any names, or talking down to me, unless we're both very obviously joking, and just harassing one another.
Well my wife and i dont use those words on each other. But i could see other people using them during rough sex play so offensive and inoffensive at the same time?
08/23/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Moein
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I just want to find out how do you feel about these (Hard sex words):
Asshole, Bitch, Whore, Slut, Jerk, Nasty
that some couples may use during some Sex sessions.

I and my wife feel that any ... more
We never use such words with each other...sexually or other. I know people do enjoy it and "more power to them". Not for us. We cannot even stand porn when it has such words in it..and we are NO prudes.

I don't honestly understand why calling your loved one nasty and degrading things would be a "turn on" in any way. Makes ZERO sense to either of us.

ONE exception to your list....the term "NASTY" is not like the others, in that you can say "I'm a nasty girl", or "I'm feeling really nasty tonight" and that is not an insult in any way. There is NO way I can think of to call me a Bitch or SLUT that is not an insult.

Sorry...we may be in the minority on this, but it is NOT our "cup of tea".
08/23/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
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Originally posted by magicmac
Personally, I find those words insulting no matter what context they're used in. But that's just me.
I agree.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Genderqueer. Call me a slut or a whore in bed and I'm fine with it. Crave it, even.

Outside of bed, I'll frequently call my partner an ass or a bitch, or a jerk or a tosser or... lots of things. We're rough and tumble with each other. It actually makes people who don't know us think we're fighting, which amuses the hell out of us both.
08/23/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Moein
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this one

I just want to find out how do you feel about these (Hard sex words):
Asshole, Bitch, Whore, Slut, Jerk, Nasty
that some couples may use during some Sex sessions.

I and my wife feel that any ... more
I don't like thinking of my wife as a porn star and that's where I hear those words being used. So not into those words at all.
08/23/2011