The New Intimacy

Do you look each other in the eye when having intercourse (assuming the position allows)? How about during oral sex?

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Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Quote:
Originally posted by Zombirella
I keep my eyes open most of the time, might close them briefly. But I feel comfortable with him, more than I have with anyone ever and I love to look at him. I really like eye contact, it's just...hot!
Yes! Eye contact is sooo hot! I tend to keep my eyes open but they close when things get unbearably hot. hahaha
06/26/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
I guess I keep my eyes closed a lot with only peeking...doesn't this negate the purpose of blindfolds?
06/26/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I'm very much into eye contact, and being present. I wouldn't want to have sex any other way.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I'm a fan of eye contact during sex and keep my eyes open as much as possible. With oral, the angles don't work very often, so trying to make eye contact would just be awkward.
06/26/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We always look each other in the eye if in the right position to do so, and if I am giving him oral, I WANT him to watch me, and I look right into his eyes...and let him KNOW I am having a wonderful time.

I don't get the "close the ... more
Open. Great question
06/26/2012
Contributor: PeachCandy PeachCandy
My hubby and I are both very visual - so eyes are open most of the time
06/26/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
My eyes are always open.
06/26/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
my eyes are always open
06/26/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
Sometimes my eyes are open and sometime they are closed, there really isn't more of one then the other.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I chose other because my eyes are open but,I don't look the person in the eyes.
06/26/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Open, it's nice to watch her face and get better feedback
06/27/2012
Contributor: foxxyluv foxxyluv
During oral sex my eyes are closed as I'm concentrating on what I'm doing. However; during intercourse I range from my eyes being closed to very little eye contact. Through my background and nature I view that eye contact is a 'challenge' against another. Some of my partners enjoy eye contact so I try my best on doing so but it's not for long. I also have a habit of having my eye's open but 'staring into space' during intercourse, this is because I have synesthesia and I'm watching the colors. I have my eyes closed for most of the time because my synesthesia can become intense sometimes.
06/29/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Missmarc
Sometimes they are open, sometimes they are closed.
Same for us. I would say they are mostly closed though for the wife, she enjoys concentrating on the feelings. I guess I am about 50/50.
06/29/2012
Contributor: Sureshot Sureshot
Both, dependent on situation
06/29/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Depends. I tend to keep my eyes open, and if he does something really nice, they close on their own.
07/23/2012
Contributor: seeweed seeweed
I'm a man and voted eyes open during oral and intercourse. Of course, I really alternate between eyes opened and closed but my eyes are open the majority of the time.

I love watching my girl enjoying herself as well as watching her when she's pleasuring me.
07/29/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
My eyes are always open. We love making eye contact during sex.
07/29/2012
Contributor: giggles26 giggles26
we look aat each other during intercourse
07/30/2012