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Do you look each other in the eye when having intercourse (assuming the position allows)? How about during oral sex?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We always look each other in the eye if in the right position to do so, and if I am giving him oral, I WANT him to watch me, and I look right into his eyes...and let him KNOW I am having a wonderful time.

I don't get the "close the eyes" thing, but his past lovers all did that.

SO...do YOU keep eyes wide open or closed shut???
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Im a woman and my eyes are OPEN during oral
Calla , bayosgirl , (k)InkyIvy , Ryuson , pootpootpoot , Missmarc , Terri69 , Ghost , OhMy! , Double Analysis , Femme Mystique , Rossie , K101 , Zombirella , animepanda89 , mpfm , Bignuf , unfulfilled , xOhxSoxScandalousx , indiechick , PeachCandy , TrophyWife , BG529 , YvetteJeannine , potstickers
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Im a woman and my eyes are OPEN during intercourse
Calla , bayosgirl , (k)InkyIvy , Ryuson , pootpootpoot , Terri69 , Ghost , padmeamidala , Cora Jane , OhMy! , Double Analysis , Femme Mystique , amazon , K101 , Zombirella , DeliciousSurprise , animepanda89 , PropertyOfPotter , mpfm , Bignuf , unfulfilled , xOhxSoxScandalousx , indiechick , PeachCandy , TrophyWife , BG529 , YvetteJeannine , wetone123 , potstickers
29
Im a woman and my eyes are CLOSED during oral
Geogeo , pirata , - Kira - , padmeamidala , Cora Jane , Rey , Girly Juice , PropertyOfPotter , Talena , Squeaky , mistressg , foxxyluv , wetone123
13
Im a woman and my eyes are CLOSED during intercourse
Geogeo , pirata , HarlequinBunnie , - Kira - , Girly Juice , DeliciousSurprise , Talena , Squeaky , foxxyluv
9
I'm a man and my eyes are OPEN during oral
ejrbrndps , (k)InkyIvy , Teaser , redstars , Kendrir , EvilHomer , rockblenny , G&L , OhMy! , Incendiaire , BlooJay , Life's Little Secrets , gsfanatic , FHeemz , raglin , seeweed
16
I'm a man and my eyes are OPEN during intercourse
ejrbrndps , (k)InkyIvy , redstars , Kendrir , EvilHomer , rockblenny , G&L , OhMy! , Incendiaire , BlooJay , Life's Little Secrets , gsfanatic , FHeemz , raglin , seeweed
15
I'm a man and my eyes are CLOSED during oral
I'm a man and my eyes are CLOSED during intercourse
Teaser
1
Other???
TheirPet , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , pootpootpoot , Missmarc , Greenleaf , amazon , Rossie , Gunsmoke , DeliciousSurprise , Talena , Pixel , Love Obsessed , mistressg , ToyTimeTim , Sureshot , cryinglightning86
16
Total votes: 124 (64 voters)
Poll is closed
06/25/2012
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I tend to keep my eyes open.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Calla Calla
I keep my eyes open and make eye contact during sex when we're facing each other. I also keep my eyes open while giving oral, and I might glance up every now and then, but I usually don't make eye contact because I find the angle to look up at him uncomfortable for my neck.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Eye contact is way too intimate for me.
06/25/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I alternate between open and closed.
06/25/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I got my husband's answers also. We both mainly keep our eyes open during oral and intercourse, though we'll occasionally shut them.
06/25/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
mine are normally shut, just because feels good tends to equal closed eyes to me lol
06/25/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
My eyes are mostly open during oral. I just love to watch her reactions, but I usually can't see her eyes unless her head is on a couple of pillows. During intercourse, my eyes are mostly closed, but if I think about it, I'll ask her to look at me so I can look into her eyes. Very intense!
06/25/2012
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We always look each other in the eye if in the right position to do so, and if I am giving him oral, I WANT him to watch me, and I look right into his eyes...and let him KNOW I am having a wonderful time.

I don't get the "close the ... more
I have issues with oral so I don't do it unless the mood is right and my eyes are closed during sex. Once upon a time way back in the beginning we has sex with our eyes open looking into each others eyes but now we don't. We have both gained weight over the years so we don't look very much. Hopefully that will change now that we are both loosing that weight. Hopefully the E.D. will improve too. God I hope so.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
I almost always keep mine open during oral, and "most of the time" during intercourse. Eye contact isn't always made, but there *is* something I love about watching reactions if they're genuine and the person is into it
06/25/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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We do both, but not constantly during oral because it's a bit hard to keep my head at an angle where I can perform oral and have my eyes forward.
06/25/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I do them both. Just depends on the time and what position we are in.
06/25/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I keep my eyes closed. I learned a long time ago that I'm easily distracted, even during sex. If my eyes are open I'll end up looking at stuff in the room or the TV or something and it won't feel as good and I can't orgasm. If I close my eyes all I'm focused on is the sensation so I orgasm much more easily. Thus, eyes closed.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I keep my eyes closed. I learned a long time ago that I'm easily distracted, even during sex. If my eyes are open I'll end up looking at stuff in the room or the TV or something and it won't feel as good and I can't orgasm. If I ... more
^this.
06/25/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
My eyes are always open. For my partner, his eyes are generally closed during oral or missionary, but I chose 'other' for him because he likes to have his eyes open during doggy-style so he can look at my ass, pull my hair, etc. So, eye contact doesn't happen often, but at least one of us always has our eyes open.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We always look each other in the eye if in the right position to do so, and if I am giving him oral, I WANT him to watch me, and I look right into his eyes...and let him KNOW I am having a wonderful time.

I don't get the "close the ... more
Sometimes they are open, sometimes they are closed.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
My eyes are mostly open but I guess I do close them now and then...
06/25/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Female and... both? Depends on lighting and mood.
06/25/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
I keep them open cause I enjoy watching.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
I love to make eye contact during intercourse, but I tend to have my eyes closed during oral. I don't know why, I've never given it much thought before. I think I'm gonna have to try eye contact during oral as well now.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
I usually love the intimacy of eye contact, but when I'm doing other things, like neck kissing and etc, it's a different story.
06/25/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Off and on. Depends on the moment.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I keep them open during oral, but sometimes open or closed during intercourse.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're not fixated on this. Sometimes opened - sometimes closed - whatever feels right at the time.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
love to see my partners eyes open during oral
06/26/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We always look each other in the eye if in the right position to do so, and if I am giving him oral, I WANT him to watch me, and I look right into his eyes...and let him KNOW I am having a wonderful time.

I don't get the "close the ... more
My eyes are never closed during anything sexual. If my eyes ever close, it's because I'm going to sleep. I don't hold them open while GIVING oral, but only because that type of motion would make me sea sick. Lol. While he's giving me oral, he looks me in the eyes quite often and I look back. Same with sex.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I keep my eyes open most of the time, might close them briefly. But I feel comfortable with him, more than I have with anyone ever and I love to look at him. I really like eye contact, it's just...hot!
06/26/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I keep my eyes open when we're making love and they're usually closed during oral. When I'm giving, I'll look up at him when I can 'cause I know he likes that, but when I'm receiving, I don't often look at him...it's all about focus!
06/26/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I keep my eyes closed. I learned a long time ago that I'm easily distracted, even during sex. If my eyes are open I'll end up looking at stuff in the room or the TV or something and it won't feel as good and I can't orgasm. If I ... more
That is actually why we put porn on our bedroom TV and have mirrors (nice, tasteful looking ones...but BIG) all over!!!!
06/26/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My eyes are always open.
06/26/2012