Not something that would turn me on

Agreed

Actually, it is NOT illegal for a woman to be aroused during lactation. The case you are talking about was a lot more than just "telling a friend." CPS was told some untrue things by a baby sitter, who wanted the kid for her own, also the family had other contacts with CPS, unrelated to the lactation. The child (who was not actually removed due to the lactation, but people were told this was so) was returned after a short period of time.

Many women occasionally get a slight uncomfortable feeling during one minute or an other in her years of lactation. Most simply remove the baby, leave the room for a few minutes and the feeling goes away. Most women do not indulge in it and most are embarrassed that it happened, if even for a second. Usually it is when something similar to sexual arousal happens, and most of the way a baby nurses is NOT the way one is stimulated sexually on the breasts, so it's not terribly common to be too distraught about it.

The thread was about inducing lactation for the purposes of sex without a baby being present, and I think enough reasons why NOT to do that were presented clearly enough.

I don't think it's either sexy or gross

Not something I would be turned on by or expect my man to be. I'd probably be self conscious about it whenever I do get pregnant and it happens to me.

I have gotten into the fetish of milking long ago and I am really into it. Not so much in a way that I dress as a baby or anything freaky, but I love lady milk, I love spraying it on me if I am lucky enough to ever have a sprayer.
I really want to find more info about it because my fiancee and I have been trying it out for about 3 years now, but her flow and supply is pretty weak and we both want to change that. So we need to find out what we can do to get her supply and flow increased.