Sensual is a definite must. Plenty of kissing, cuddling, etc. Also must be willing to have non-penetrative sex. I am a gay man, who has never had penetrative sex, and I'm not in any particular hurry to. However, I do like getting naked and messing around, and I'll want to do that for awhile, before I trust you enough to go further. This requirement is very difficult to find. It seems like most gay men don't want to bother taking their clothes off, if they don't get to fuck.
Do you have sexual requirements for a partner?
hornypoet69
04/24/2011
They have to know how to use what they have!
04/24/2011
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I 2nd that!
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Pleasure Piratess
Definitely someone who is open... and accepting. I will never apologize for being myself.
My husband was my 1st partner, so I guess I didnt have any requirement except for having a penis (because Im straight). However, his libido is not the same as mine but we have figured it out and made it work. But I really like the fact that he is very open and is willing to try anything I suggest and he was very accepting of my love for kink. I was afraid of what he would say if I told him. So one day I got the courage up and I am SOOO glad I did
04/24/2011
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I'd prefer my partners to be kinky. Really hard to try to be with someone vanilla when I am such a kinky person.
Originally posted by
Kim!
I want to know, do you have sexual requirements for a partner? Things that if they don't happen it will not work? Feel free to elaborate on your answer in the comments.
04/24/2011
My husband and I enjoy exploring new things sexually. I also enjoy sensual and passionate sex.
05/18/2011
innovative, moderate to high sex drive, a touch of sensuality.
07/21/2011
high sex drive
07/21/2011
High sex drive, I kinda love sex a lot
07/22/2011
Just some one who matches me, my drive and someone who is willing to listen communicate and isn't sexually closed off. I'm a very sexual and physically expressive person (with who I am in love with) and to have someone who isn't would bother me.
07/22/2011
Basically all of the above
07/22/2011
A libido is nice, but I'd be with my current boyfriend no matter what!
07/22/2011
He must be clean, I can not stand smelly men!
07/23/2011
Any and all of my sexual partners need to be very considerate and willing to compromise, as there are a wide range of things I cannot do because of physical limitations.
Other than that, be willing to accept that not everyone is perfect and that if there is something you are doing that is not working for me, I might need you to learn a different way to do it. I hate people who get all huffy and offended that "their" way of having sex is not enough to bring me to heights of pleasure, even they only know two tricks and they repeat them again and again.
I'm willing to learn, adapt and compromise, I recognize I'm not perfect and I'm very creative in bed, so I dislike people who aren't.
Other than that, be willing to accept that not everyone is perfect and that if there is something you are doing that is not working for me, I might need you to learn a different way to do it. I hate people who get all huffy and offended that "their" way of having sex is not enough to bring me to heights of pleasure, even they only know two tricks and they repeat them again and again.
I'm willing to learn, adapt and compromise, I recognize I'm not perfect and I'm very creative in bed, so I dislike people who aren't.
07/23/2011
No requirements. I am pretty open and flexible. However, I did date someone who frequently flipped flopped between being sexually open and then suddenly incredibly conservative. That was a confusing relationship to say the least. So I guess I do have a requirement, some sexual consistency or at least being self-aware and being able to clearly explain your swings.
07/23/2011
I want to love my partner first of all, then I would hope they would be able to perform regularly, be loving and sensual enough to "make love" to me when it's called for but be okay with a rougher/kinky session on occasion.
09/12/2011
I would prefer someone who is sexually compatible and someone who is sensual. Some level of kink would be wonderful, but openmindedness is a must.
01/23/2012
I demand sex a lot. My ex never wanted it as much as I did and said something MUST be wrong with me.... one of the reasons he is and ex hehehe.
01/25/2012
Only requirement is to not be vanilla.
01/25/2012
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I'm not into kinky stuff but I guess I would be open to whatever my gf wanted to try as a couple
Originally posted by
Kim!
I want to know, do you have sexual requirements for a partner? Things that if they don't happen it will not work? Feel free to elaborate on your answer in the comments.
01/25/2012
Yes, I must love them first
01/25/2012
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