So, here's the deal. As long as my husband were to clean himself thoroughly with wipes or after a shower, I would have no problem doing this. It actually turns me on to think about... believe it or not. Most things like this would normally make me think "EW" immediately but that's not the case with this.

Reason? I've had someone do it to me once. It wasn't my husband, and it was long ago when I was in high school. All I can say is that it was very enjoyable and I loved it. I did it to him and he loved it as well.

Would I ever tell my husband or ask him to do it to me? NO. Why?

1) We're just getting completely comfortable with anal sex. He was never totally okay with anal sex, and I decided to ask him to play with me using some anal toys. After that I asked him if he'd like to try and it took him some thinking but eventually he did. Now we're comfortably having anal sex and playing with toys, but it's a recent thing and 3 months ago I would have told you different.

2) Things like that turn him off. For example, after anal sex or anal play with toys, he's the first to RUN to the bathroom and wash his hands, toys, and bum. He's very... germaphobic, I guess you could say. I'm okay with using a sex toy wipe and some antibacterial soap. So I'm more of a slob lol. But I do wash up when it's all done.

I've mentioned this before (not asking him to do it, or me to do it to him) but I brought up the act in a casual conversation about a friend. Asked him what he thought of it... BAD reaction. He thinks it's disgusting and he says its degrading. He would never do it.

So for me, no licky licky. Thankfully theres toys for that! less