I usually cringe when I hear "trying not to say vagina" words like "down there" or anything that has to do with fish, pink, or flowers.
I refer to my vagina as a vagina - and my vulva as a vulva. During sex it's a bit different; "pussy" and "cunt" are the most common, though the clinical vocabulary sometimes comes out (which doesn't bother me or my partner in the least).
I refer to my vagina as a vagina - and my vulva as a vulva. During sex it's a bit different; "pussy" and "cunt" are the most common, though the clinical vocabulary sometimes comes out (which doesn't bother me or my partner in the least).