What is your Oral Fixation? Both ladies and gentlemen!

Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
So, how much do you love performing oral on your partner? A lot? A little? Do you hate it? Talk about it here! If you want to, of course.
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04/24/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on Oral sex enhancers:

Trying to get past the gag of swallowing
For all you oral sex pros I need some help. I have a very bag gag reflex and damn near about puke from swallowing. Is there anything that helps? I...

Clitoral stimulation!
So does everyone here like the clitoral stimulation? Anyone find it too intense? I love the intensity.

Spontaneous Clitoral Orgasms
Ever since I was a teenager,I have had the ability to have clitoral orgasms without stimulation. If I am overly excited or angry the throbbing begins.

Is there anyplace on your love that your tongue is not welcome, even if you are willing to go there???
Where does your lover draw the line, if any?

It's STL's Fiance! Let's talk about giving our gals head!
Buddies of mine are always saying that it's gross to give a female head without some sort of whipped cream or flavouring. Is any other guy like me and
04/24/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
04/24/2010
Contributor: Elodie Elodie
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
It sure is.

I like it, but it's a lot of work for me.
04/24/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife and I both love it. We're into what ever makes our partner feel great. For a while my wife didn't seem to care for oral - so I stopped doing it - but recently she started shaving her vulva and is much more sensitive - responsive. Now when I do oral for her it's like her reward for staying smooth - get'n some in a couple hours mmmmmmmmmm
04/24/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
LOVE IT

Also, you're referencing the song "Loathing" from Wicked. Epic
04/24/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I have pretty much no gag reflex, but I have a TMJ problem where my jaw locks up and gets really sore if I keep it open very long. So that's a pretty big problem. But I really love doing oral. It just causes me pain. Haha.
04/24/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I love doin it to the wife, in fact sometimes that is all I want to do.
She has a problem with her jaw so can't do it all the time.
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
Have you tried Good Head or other products to numb the back of your throat? Also, while performing oral, if you swallow while going down it makes it a bit easier to quell the gag reflex. I found those two methods to be helpful at least.
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Elodie
It sure is.

I like it, but it's a lot of work for me.
Doesn't everything worth while take work?
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife and I both love it. We're into what ever makes our partner feel great. For a while my wife didn't seem to care for oral - so I stopped doing it - but recently she started shaving her vulva and is much more sensitive - responsive. Now ... more
You lucky dog! And rewarding for a shaved vulva...I sure wish I could shave mine! If she likes temperature play, try rubbing a bit of ice on her before going down to warm her up. That turns me on a lot and I'm not even big on temperature play!
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Andromeda
LOVE IT

Also, you're referencing the song "Loathing" from Wicked. Epic
Yes! I am! Technically, the song is called "What is This Feeling?" but you get 20,489 brownie points for that one
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I have pretty much no gag reflex, but I have a TMJ problem where my jaw locks up and gets really sore if I keep it open very long. So that's a pretty big problem. But I really love doing oral. It just causes me pain. Haha.
Just be careful with the TMJ. You don't want your jaw to lock on your partner. Yikes!
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I love doin it to the wife, in fact sometimes that is all I want to do.
She has a problem with her jaw so can't do it all the time.
That stinks for her Does she have TMJ or is it just uncomfortable for her? If it's just a factor of discomfort, try various positions until she finds one where she isn't straining her jaw so much.
04/24/2010
Contributor: GNGenie GNGenie
I enjoy it on occasion, but not if it goes on too long: nothing like that achey jawed feeling for the next day or so because someone has a fat penis.

Husband is quite happy to live down there if given the opportunity though.
04/24/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by GNGenie
I enjoy it on occasion, but not if it goes on too long: nothing like that achey jawed feeling for the next day or so because someone has a fat penis.

Husband is quite happy to live down there if given the opportunity though.
My former partner used to love to live between my legs. I sure don't complain And I feel you with the achy jaw. I have to maneuver and shift position if it's for an extended period of time. Have you tried that?
04/24/2010
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
So, how much do you love performing oral on your partner? A lot? A little? Do you hate it? Talk about it here! If you want to, of course.
You know the old saying. It is better to give than to receive. I love to go down on women. I Love making them cum. And I savor every drop (although I have never had a lady that shoots/gushes). I would love to find a lady like that. And, anything she gives me will be enjoyed. I have had a zero for two long.
04/25/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Like it love it!
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ScotchIrish
You know the old saying. It is better to give than to receive. I love to go down on women. I Love making them cum. And I savor every drop (although I have never had a lady that shoots/gushes). I would love to find a lady like that. And, anything she ... more
I have a tendency to squirt from time to time. It depends on how turned on I am at the time
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Like it love it!
I figured you would.
04/25/2010
Contributor: TacoODoom TacoODoom
i love it... i miss giving it to the ladyfolk, but my hubby has no complaints about my oral fixation..
04/25/2010
Contributor: Gardenvy Gardenvy
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
So, how much do you love performing oral on your partner? A lot? A little? Do you hate it? Talk about it here! If you want to, of course.
Absolutely LOVE it!
04/25/2010
Contributor: GNGenie GNGenie
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
My former partner used to love to live between my legs. I sure don't complain And I feel you with the achy jaw. I have to maneuver and shift position if it's for an extended period of time. Have you tried that?
I have: about the only shift that really helps is to go from straight on to me laying on my back with my head off the bed, but generally the switch takes long enough that it's like starting all over again. It's not that Husband is exceptionally long, he's just exceptionally thick, so my jaw is pretty much at max whichever way I turn.
04/25/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
You lucky dog! And rewarding for a shaved vulva...I sure wish I could shave mine! If she likes temperature play, try rubbing a bit of ice on her before going down to warm her up. That turns me on a lot and I'm not even big on temperature play!
We don't do ice - but we have many glass, steel & aluminum toys. Compared to skin temperature they feel pretty cool - especially in winter. When things heat up this summer I'll try a bit of ice - thanks for the idea.
04/25/2010
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I have a tendency to squirt from time to time. It depends on how turned on I am at the time
I have never experienced this. What does it feel like. Compared to an orgasm with out.
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by ScotchIrish
I have never experienced this. What does it feel like. Compared to an orgasm with out.
It kind of feels like you're peeing. It's weird, but it feels good
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by GNGenie
I have: about the only shift that really helps is to go from straight on to me laying on my back with my head off the bed, but generally the switch takes long enough that it's like starting all over again. It's not that Husband is ... more
Ah, I understand completely!
04/25/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I have a major oral fixation Thankfully, my husband does too.
04/25/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I like making him feel good but it's just not physically comfortable for me. I've never found a position which doesn't hurt.
04/25/2010
Contributor: Elodie Elodie
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Doesn't everything worth while take work?
Not necessarily. Sex doesn't normally take what I'd call "work", and no worthwhile thing but oral sex entails the danger of me possibly puking .
04/25/2010