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Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by TacoODoom
i love it... i miss giving it to the ladyfolk, but my hubby has no complaints about my oral fixation..
Ya know, if you ever get to Louisiana I can help you out
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Elodie
Not necessarily. Sex doesn't normally take what I'd call "work", and no worthwhile thing but oral sex entails the danger of me possibly puking .
Very true. I actually got to the point where I DID puke on my ex fiance. Then again, he shoved my head down onto him and knew that I was going to. It's his fault!

And sex isn't "work." It's exercise and recreation!
04/25/2010
Contributor: Holly (Woman Tribune) Holly (Woman Tribune)
I like it, but am currently living without it, although I wish I wasn't. I used to love going down on my partner and would do it daily--in the bed, on the couch, in the car driving, anywhere and everywhere, but I have Periodontitis, which has recently gotten a lot worse. It's an inflammatory disease that affects the tissues that support the teeth. I acquired it from my awesome genetics and it has also done a number on my jaw, so I can't open my mouth very wide at all, making giving oral pretty close to impossible.

Luckily, my partner loves going down on me and sometimes is happy to spend hours at a time down there, which of course makes me a very, very happy girl.

And to respond to a few others of you out there, I have indeed thrown up on my partner before, while positioned on my back with my head hanging off the bed. He didn't mind though and was happy to console me for the embarrassment I felt afterwards.
04/25/2010
Contributor: Elodie Elodie
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Very true. I actually got to the point where I DID puke on my ex fiance. Then again, he shoved my head down onto him and knew that I was going to. It's his fault!

And sex isn't "work." It's exercise and recreation!
He's lucky you didn't bite him, I bet that's what I would have done. (Considering I once accidentally caused a bruise that sent a guy to the doctor... he didn't complain at the time though.)
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Holly (Woman Tribune)
I like it, but am currently living without it, although I wish I wasn't. I used to love going down on my partner and would do it daily--in the bed, on the couch, in the car driving, anywhere and everywhere, but I have Periodontitis, which has ... more
I'm sorry to hear that you have Periodontitis! I hope you can find a way to work with it down the road. Have you talked to your specialist about things you can to do possibly be able to open your mouth wider? Or is it pretty much a shot in the dark to try to work with?
04/25/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Elodie
He's lucky you didn't bite him, I bet that's what I would have done. (Considering I once accidentally caused a bruise that sent a guy to the doctor... he didn't complain at the time though.)
Nah, I just withheld sex for the whole weekend
04/25/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love to get it and love to give it, orally. My partner has complained in the past that I need so much that his jaw hurts.....enter toys.... This also got him beyond his toy prejudice in that he believed that toys made him feel insecure.
04/26/2010
Contributor: Holly (Woman Tribune) Holly (Woman Tribune)
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I'm sorry to hear that you have Periodontitis! I hope you can find a way to work with it down the road. Have you talked to your specialist about things you can to do possibly be able to open your mouth wider? Or is it pretty much a shot in the ... more
I pretty much live with it, have been for a while now and it has kind of become normal, as horrible as that is. I went through a period of not being able to find a dentist or oral surgeon who would touch my mouth, being the uninsured, self-employed person that I am and finally found someone who gave me a huge break and gave me a lot of medication to help with it as well as with the pain it brings on and just like everything else, there are good days and there are bad, give me more pain medication right now or I'll rip your throat out days.

Just the other day I went down on my partner and he was all surprised and I swear he saw God or something afterward, so I'm getting better!
05/01/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Holly (Woman Tribune)
I pretty much live with it, have been for a while now and it has kind of become normal, as horrible as that is. I went through a period of not being able to find a dentist or oral surgeon who would touch my mouth, being the uninsured, self-employed ... more
That's wonderful to hear and I am glad that you found a specialist who would provide care to you. Thanks so much for your post, by the way
05/01/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Have you tried Good Head or other products to numb the back of your throat? Also, while performing oral, if you swallow while going down it makes it a bit easier to quell the gag reflex. I found those two methods to be helpful at least.
Agree, Good Head doesn't have any of the -caines to numb the throat but it does reduce the gag reflex. Love the stuff for when giving Arch a blowjob. He is more girth-y than Sigel and WAY more sensitive. Which means any dry mouth or gag reflex can actually cause him pain, not sexy. The Good Head keeps my mouth lubricated and makes my gag reflex calm down. I must try the swallowing technique...I'm sure Sigel would love to help me practice, in fact he might insist.

Arch isn't up to giving me oral yet, but he's getting there. Sigel would happily die face first in a pussy.
05/01/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Agree, Good Head doesn't have any of the -caines to numb the throat but it does reduce the gag reflex. Love the stuff for when giving Arch a blowjob. He is more girth-y than Sigel and WAY more sensitive. Which means any dry mouth or gag reflex ... more
Dying head first in a pussy...that would be one hell of a way to go
05/01/2010
Contributor: Nefarius Nefarius
I'm a natural submissive. My arousal comes from pleasing others. I love performing oral sex on my husband because when I make him moan and groan and tell me what a good little whore I am, that makes me happy. It's a bit of a shift in the way things usually are, too.. because I'm the dominant in our relationship.
06/23/2010
Contributor: Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
1. I get a brownie point for knowing that's from Wicked. And that the next part is "For your face, your voice, your clothing!"

2. I don't MIND giving oral. I used to hate it. My old boyfriend was my first oral experience, and he used to push it on me a lot, so I didn't like it. My current boy however, I like it much better with. I still don't love it. And really, the only reason why I even like it is because I like doing things for him, and giving him pleasure, and that gives me pleasure. The actual physical act of doing it, however, gives me little pleasure, but that may be partially because I'm still relatively new to 100% consensual performance of oral.
06/24/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Kissing, licking, teasing, sucking. I love it all. ALL.

My favorite way to wake up a partner? Under-the-sheets surprise! I think my last partner had to push me away more often than not because I wouldn't let up, and she was starting to pass out.

So, yeah, it's a huge thing for me.
06/24/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
We enjoy oral sex very much. We don't ever feel required to do it, or expect the other one to return the favor. We just go with the flow. We use oral sex as foreplay sometimes, other times we treat each other with an extended session of it. We play with tons of flavors, temperatures, vibrators, etc. Oral sex is so much fun!
06/29/2010
Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
We like it... love it...can't get enough of it
06/29/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I love performing on my man, and I'm confident doing it. The only thing I dislike is being left in the dust. You know, when he gets his and I don’t receive a thing in return. Its ok if that happens every once in awhile, but come on. Not something you want to happen repeatedly.
07/10/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
If my guy had a more healthy diet and didn't taste so bad I think I'd like it more since it drives him nuts, lol.
07/17/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
I like it but I could also live without it at times. It's my wife's favorite thing though so I doubt I'll ever not do it. I really enjoy using my Aneros Progasm while I do it as it really helps keep me in the mood since it can take quite a while for her to orgasm.
07/17/2010
Contributor: sandblastedskin sandblastedskin
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Very true. I actually got to the point where I DID puke on my ex fiance. Then again, he shoved my head down onto him and knew that I was going to. It's his fault!

And sex isn't "work." It's exercise and recreation!
Wow what an asshole..
07/17/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I. am. addicted. to giving blow jobs. I love everything about them.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Another poll, another song stuck in my head!

Yes, I love to give oral. It's delectable to be able to see my owner's face as I give him head. I love his facial expressions. I admit that a long jaw session becomes uncomfortable after a while, but if it happens I take a break and use just my hands.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
Like it ... MOST of the time. Sometimes, I'm just not in the mood - which happens to be exactly when he wants it the most. I give in though. He usually gets what he wants
07/26/2010
Contributor: TheSexista TheSexista
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
I had a BAD gag reflex too but I dont let it stop me! I do find myself having to pull back some and not fill my mouth so much.
07/26/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
Tell me about it, but I do my best!
07/26/2010
Contributor: Taylor Violet LXIX Taylor Violet LXIX
I have a huge oral fixation. I always have something in my mouth, lol. I love going down on particularly responsive partners. Especially women. Though sometimes, I'm not as keen on receiving as giving. Then other times I am. Is that strange?
07/26/2010
Contributor: joja joja
Love giving head unfortunately my boy is impatient and just wants to get to the sex most of the time. I've really gotta start giving him surprise head like I used to!
07/27/2010
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
It's difficult when you have a shallow gag reflex.
I find that the gag reflex is all in my head. If I think I might gag, I will and I do. If I go into it thinking that I am the champion of deep throating, I don't gag. I sometimes practice by brushing the back of my tongue when I'm brushing my teeth (good for your breath AND your sex life!). If I think I'm going to gag, I always do, but when I convince myself that I can handle it, no gagging.
07/27/2010
Contributor: 00 00
I have never had any sort of gag reflex at all. I can, and have on many occasion, swallowed a banana whole and never blinked. (It's a great party trick or bar bet.) I love oral, giving and receiving. I especially like when my husband pushes deep into my throat and holds it there for a while. I don't panic, but instead relax my throat and it gives him about another inch to push into. As for an oral fixation...yep, I've got one. I often find myself sucking or chewing on my ink pen, a straw or pretty much just about anything. And when I realize I am doing it, I usually realize I am also wet with sexual arousal.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Hopeless Romantic Hopeless Romantic
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Have you tried Good Head or other products to numb the back of your throat? Also, while performing oral, if you swallow while going down it makes it a bit easier to quell the gag reflex. I found those two methods to be helpful at least.
I'll have to get some of this, but it kind of turns me on when it gags me, is that weird? Also I feel like I do a way better job on him than he does on me, which doesn't seem to be rewarding for me. Sometimes its like he just gets lazy or side tracked when we 69, but it makes me not even want him down there! That's awefull I know, but it's true and if I tried talking to him about it I know the conversation would'nt go well


I have to add....maybe he just really needs to read a book about pleasing a woman or something to help him. How do you go about telling a macho man this who has a huge ego and you do not want to burst it???
07/27/2010