I'm holding off on earning my red wings. The thought of shed tissue just doesn't turn me on. However, my girl loves when I rub her clit when she's on her period. It's a great tease cause it makes her want it. Then when she's off her period, she gets what she's been waiting for and it's that much better. less

Wow. I wonder what determines who does this? And why? (Or why not?) My Man and I don't even think about it. I did the math earlier in this thread. It's like 84 days a year without sex if we didn't have sex during my period. THAT isn't happening. Even going 5 to 7 days a month without sex isn't happening. We fuck like rabbits no matter what time of the month it is.

He has no problem going down when I have my period. He talked ME into it decades ago, "I don't care. It's just some fluid. I want to make you come. Just let me try it." I finally consented, and it's amazing. Like most women, I get really horny during my period. (It has a lot to do with pelvic congestion during menstruation, it helps the clitoris fill with blood easier and causes many women to become very aroused. Not to mention the swollen uterus from menstruation is eased by orgasm. I can't see NOT doing it during my period. With the exception of when I had endometriosis, then if we got to it right as it started, it helped the pain.)

I mean, I guess if people really don't like it and can go a week every month with NO sex (because in our house there is NO SEX without oral. None.) And up to two and a half months a year counting all the days you are having your period.

We have sex very frequently, and neither one of us could go that long without it. Three days is a "drought" for us. Uh uh. Sex continues at it's regular pace, whether there is a little menstrual blood or not.

Taking a really warm bath before sex can help. It can help the blood stop for about an hour or so.

It's just some blood. If it gets really messy we just get in the shower after.

We have a dedicated maroon King Size sheet, and maroon and red towels, that we lay on the bed over the regular sheets. We lie on those and then those go in the wash. It isn't a big deal. Most of the fluid during menstruation is mucous and regular vaginal secretions anyway. The blood is less than most people think there is.

*shrug* For us, going without is much worse. It doesn't bother either of us. less

I'm holding off on earning my red wings. The thought of shed tissue just doesn't turn me on. However, my girl loves when I rub her clit when she's on her period. It's a great tease cause it makes her want it. Then when she's off her period, she gets what she's been waiting for and it's that much better. less

I'm confused. You play with her, while she's horny, but don't help her come to orgasm for days?

If My Man did that, I would be in so much pain, and so freaking frustrated, I would probably end up in a clock tower with an automatic weapon. Either that or zonked out on Aleve and Vicodin from the cramps.

It can be PAINFUL to be aroused and not brought to orgasm. Would you like it if she played with your cock without letting you come for days? My guess is no.

I have no problem with a little torture, or teasing, but this is over the line I'd tolerate. If My Man starts something he finishes it the same goes for my actions towards him.

Mileage, I guess. less

UM, I didn't AGREE with the terms "sick and nasty". I don't label other people's sexual choices like that.

My Man and I have oral sex while I'm having my period all the time. I used the crying emoticon because of the lack of empathy when people say other people's sexual practices are "sick and nasty."

If you read the entire thread you'll see I LOVE period sex and I am a great supporter of oral sex during menstruation.

I was CRYING (well, using the "crying" emoticon ) because people were using words like "sick and nasty" while others were saying that this is part of their regular sexual agenda. I felt labeling menstrual sex as "sick and nasty" was not nice at all. One may not like to engage in a certain sexual practice, and that's find, but people telling others what they do is "sick and nasty" makes me sad.

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I can imagine it's really amazing, P'Gell. You guys provided great supporting info.
And ways to avoid blood and other things.
I have yet to have a period around my boyfriend, but when I was away from him, I recently discovered like 2 months ago, masturbation was good for cramps. (Yeah I know I'm behind and slow, lol. I found out on EF.. LOL)

So maybe one day, I'll try it. I don't think it's sick and nasty though. Cause I've mentioned some things I like, and people will say "sick and nasty"
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Don't worry, sweetie. You're young and you are learning. My guess is you'll get to it eventually, and see if you like it or not. If you don't, no biggie, you're a sweet woman and very tolerant of other people's sex lives.

That's really my main thing I worry about on threads like this, tolerance. People may not like something or engage in it, but as long as they are tolerant of others in a consensual relationship doing it, I think, it's OK. less

Well I really don't think it's that bad. I voted for my parnter. He's all for it. That is only because I don't have odor during any time, including period time. I don't think there is really a reason to have any odor, unless something is wrong or you've just done a lot of sweating and need to clean up. Also, I do not have much of a period. I have tiny spotting here and there, but my medication stops my periods. I did have them when we were first together and he did not mind it at all. He wouldn't actually get blood in his mouth or do a lot of licking except for the clitoris, but he doesn't think I'm nasty even when I do bleed and I thank God for that. I'm so glad he's not one of those men who say "eeew! Blood! OMG!" And run. It's a freakin period! I hate when ppl are so immature that they can't even hear the word period without flipping.



I wouldn't ever ask him to do oral ever, period or not, but he's pretty into it and he knows I'm clean. Always! less