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Do men really prefer sloppy, gagging blowjobs?

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Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
After watching some porn together, I asked my guy how he felt about gagging and he doesn't want it because he doesn't think it's respectful or comfortable for me. I try to get as much of him in my mouth as possible so a gag moment is inevitable every time, but it's not a requirement or turn on for him.

As to messiness, I'll have to inquire.
06/17/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I prefer sloppy drippy bj's. Something about the messiness of it really turns me on.
06/19/2011
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
it's more intense
02/14/2013
Contributor: Fun2 Fun2
I like to be surprised.
02/23/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Sloppy yes, gagging... no, it just is not a turn on. If the gagging is unavoidable it isn't a buzz kill but it does NOT add to the sensuality at all.
02/23/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He enjoys sloppy blow jobs, but he's not into gagging.
02/23/2013
Contributor: dks210 dks210
My bf doesn't like oral that much because of this paradox. It feels good to him when it's sloppy, but he gets turned off visually by it. :/
02/24/2013
Contributor: TheWickedOne TheWickedOne
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
Absolutely...To me, it feels like a porn. The harder she gags, and the more drool, the hotter it is. I cant answer for everyone, but its simply an amazing site, even tho it appears to be a messy to the "giver"
02/25/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
The main part about "sloppy" is that it provides more lubricant, which tends to make it better. Gagging is less appealing
02/25/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Gagging is gross
02/25/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
My partner just loves when I'm into giving them -- which I usually am. He does seem to get much more excited with the messier ones, though, which is fine, because I enjoy those too from time to time. He says it has to do with the fact that it seems "dirty".
02/25/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
yea i think that they do, i think that its a big turn on for them
02/25/2013
Contributor: ihavenipples ihavenipples
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Originally posted by ScottA
I'm with LaUr3n and Alicia. Gagging is not cool for me.

Spit running everywhere is kind of gross, too, but I do like enough to let things slide.
I'm of the same opinion. Sloppy and dripping is gross. As long as everyone involved is enjoying it, I'm happy though.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
My partner (male) really does. He likes the humiliation aspect of it when he's in control and it's making a mess, apparently.
02/27/2013
Contributor: SkyySinn SkyySinn
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
men love a "dirty nasty girl" when they are getting head. and yes they love it when they think you are really going at it and loving every second of it. i have looked like complete hell and have given head to my bf and he was never so turned on. funny right? of course they love it when you look hot and sexy too but its not a must have everytime. if you can look kinda like a porn star and make tons of eye contact, let him know you are starving for his cock, he will love love love the blow job...
03/06/2013
Contributor: SkyySinn SkyySinn
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Originally posted by sweet sally
Great question. I'd like some male input on this one. I'm a neat kinda girl. I have never been able to figure out where those girls get all that spit? Sorry, I simply don't produce that much spit.
i dont either so i chew gum, lol plus if its mint or cin it gives them an extra sensation with out having to use those awful bj lubes
03/06/2013
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Enthusiasm. I don't care if it's wet and sloppy or tactical; if she enjoys doing it, I enjoy receiving it.
Well put.

Not a fan of gagging, though. I would be worried about her and worried about her throwing up on me at the same time. Big mood killer.
04/21/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I don't mind a LITTLE gagging, when I first receive head from a woman. It seems to indicate that she may not have given that many blowjobs.

But after the early days, I enjoy competence, and find persistent gagging a serious turn-OFF. Enthusiasm is a HUGE turn-on, and that often includes a good bit of saliva (which, conveniently, is also a great lube!).

A previous girlfriend could never quite deepthroat me — but she never stopped trying — and she would always end up with lots of saliva and watery eyes. Giving head was a major turn-on for her; several times, she came while giving me a blowjob! I still think about her during solo play.
04/22/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
My partner does prefer sloppy blow jobs. It works out well, I tend to drool everywhere anyways. It's a good thing he likes it. He can be a bit sadistic so he likes gagging to an extent too. I think each man is different though.
04/22/2013
Contributor: Sam Man Sam Man
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Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
Not Sloppy, just slow, deep, and very strong suctionand take your time - don't rush it! I prefer she use her tongue as much as possible to stimulate me and I like deepthroat.....If you can't deepthroat, that's OK but take me as deep as possible. I don't need you to swallow, but let me cum inside your mouth.

A good blowjob is one where the woman does it with enthusiasm and tenderness.... whether she does or not it is best if she makes me feel as if she truly enjoys giving me a blowjob.

a short note about deepthroat.... I have been deepthroated by several women (I understand that not everyone can do it) ... Most tell me that they like it better when I cum inside her throat than on her tongue because there is less taste. Yet I have also had women tell me they liked the taste of my cum....again, everyone's preferences are different and that's OK.

The important thing is to do your blowjob as something you enjoy doing for your man..... he will sense that and that's what will make him happiest.
07/31/2019
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
I have never been a fan of slurpy, messy oral work. As long as my lover is enthusiastic and is actually enjoying the experience I am happy. When it either becomes tiresome or overtly too messy, I lose interest. I love when my lover does a lot of licking and teasing, then settles down to a nice slow rhythm. I have difficulty orgasming from oral, but always enjoy it, even as foreplay.
An orgasm is the cherry on the top when it happens.
08/13/2019
Contributor: slammadew slammadew
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
I'm neutral on sloppy blowjobs in that it's not in and of itself a turn on but it doesn't turn me off either. If my wife is enjoying giving it, I'm happy.

As for gagging blowjobs, absolutely NO! I am so annoyed with the seeming increase in gagging in porn today. It is definitely a turn off for me. When the woman starts to gag while giving a blow job in porn I typically fast forward past it.
10/07/2019
Contributor: Happily Married, little sex but it's OK Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionQT
Not sloppy as in bad quality, just messy with lots of spit and drool. My partner says it turns him on more than just a neat one. Is it because I look like I'm trying harder?
Ew....not me.
10/09/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
It's all about the visual and audio of it all
11/25/2019