I've been with my partner for over three years, at this point, I just tell him what I want.

It depends who the partner is because sometimes I do not need to verbally say something when I can guide with my hands; I give positive feedback when I am enjoying oral.

I'll usually nicely make a suggestion. Sometimes it takes only a small adjustment of my body and they get the idea.

Even today, I've been with My Man for years, but he sometimes is concentrating on the place where it isn't working. I have no problem moving myself, saying something, or if he's got hands involved, guiding his hands to the right spot.

He never takes it the wrong way. He does the same thing. You want it differently sometimes depending on how you feel. My needs are important, too.

A man with self esteem and self confidence isn't going to get bent out of shape if you give a few suggestions, as long as you are nice about it.

Plus, when I have sex, I want it good for both of us. I'm not going to suffer silently through mediocre sex. SAY something. Be NICE about it. It shouldn't be a problem and can turn mediocre sex into amazing sex when you both get what you want!

I just shift my body.

Im just now starting to enjoy oral sex, but climaxing through oral sex I dont believe i can do

Conversation is key. I tell him I like it a certain way.