Is oral sex a must in your sex life

Contributor: cricket cricket
Yesss
12/23/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I think it is needed for me, but doesnt need to be that common.
12/23/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Really like it, but not an absolute must
12/23/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I need it often...not every time, but if a partner isn't into it, that could be a deal breaker.
12/23/2012
Contributor: Cynoc Cynoc
I answered yes, but objectively I guess I would just be sad if my partner wasn't into it.
12/24/2012
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by mastersonv
I'm not huge into oral being done on me and wondered how many others were.
me and my wife enjoy it
12/25/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Yes, but it doesn't need to be every time.
12/25/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I definitely love it, I would like it more but it doesn't have to happen every time.
12/25/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Not every time, but it's my favorite thing and my wife's too. Unless it's just a quickie, we do LOTS of oral and often nothing else.
12/26/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by mastersonv
I'm not huge into oral being done on me and wondered how many others were.
It is a must have for me when it comes to foreplay
12/26/2012
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
it's always involved in foreplay for us
12/26/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by Rossie
Right, if your partner knows how to please you and does everything correctly, oral sex will make you feel like you're in seventh heaven!
yes, yes, yes!
12/26/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It's really important to both of us.
12/26/2012
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Love it
01/03/2013
Contributor: mentalhealthmatters mentalhealthmatters
Quote:
Originally posted by mastersonv
I'm not huge into oral being done on me and wondered how many others were.
I really enjoy giving it, so if a partner was not big on oral (haven't experienced that yet) think it would feel like I was limited on my displays of affection. One of my exes initially said he did not really enjoy oral sex, until the first time he decided he wanted to let me try and then was asking for it all the time - so definitely think at least sometimes its just about finding the right partner.

As far as receiving oral, I haven't had anyone super spectacular at giving it - but it is still enjoyable.

Feels uneven if I give but don't receive - unless he does something else especially well that balances out how much we meet the other's needs.

So not a deal breaker -- as long as the dynamic is still balanced
04/12/2023
Contributor: JustTinMan JustTinMan
Oral sex is a huge part of our sex life. I can't imagine not including it...
06/24/2023