It's been a while since I've been in that position, 69, that is. My ex and I did it sometimes, and my current wife has agreed to it a couple times in the last 14 years, ut we did it so rarely. I like to use mostly my tongue, but do mix in some finger play as well. It's a good position for me if my back is bugging me, I can just lay down and we both get a good servicing.
Might be a good thing to mix into the repertoire again.

Being almost a foot shorter than my boyfriend seems to help us a bit in this department. I remember ex’s and being almost the same height, it was an absolute pain, I guess there’s reasons things done work out right?

I’d like to say we 69 2+ times a month, easily. Dependent on how active the kids are at night and how well we’re feeling, having a sneaky toddler has its ups and downs. The use of props and toys all works for the mood. I like just plain 69 but it typically ends up being more. Everything ranged from tongues and kisses, to bullets and dildos, heck we’ve even brought a crop and paddle the mix.

The paddle and crop are usually used on me when mouths aren't on eachother, for safety reasons.

My partner doesn’t really care which we do, or at least that’s what he says. If it where up to him I have doubts we’d ever just do solo on him. He’s all for 69 and being smothered/ going down on me. Sometimes it leaves me feeling a little guilty, though I know he gets his rocks off anyways.

A pose we very rarely use since we both really like to make each other the center of attention and really concentrate on what's going on with them. When we have though its definitely mouth and fingers involved.

Mouth only. lots of licking and kissing.

Its so different with 69 it could be perfect with one girl but not work at all with another. I depends what body they have where its performed and the situation. For me atm with my current gf i love 69 for one reson whe have mirror along the whole bedroom wall. So i love watching our bodies and see her suck my dick. I realy think its sexy af with the right partner and situation. You can also be in different positions. Liks for us for example when we in the living room i put my back against the sofa and she litteraly sits over my face and we perform oral. Somtime we do it sideways with is Nice also bc you can face fuck easier. 69 is the best.