I find that two vibrators in is very arousing, so I enjoy DP very much.

I want to try it with my partners but I don't know if I'd rather have him anally or vaginally.

I've only recently really gotten into anal. I had tried it a couple times with a couple different guys and hated it. but when I tried it with my current boyfriend I LOVED it. you might need to get used to enjoying the feeling of something going up your ass. it is a different feeling but it can be super pleasurable. I experimented with anal plugs as well and ended up having quite a nice time. my favorite is the doc johnson mood naughty medium (silicone) plug. it was my first plug. and it's just small and super comfortable to wear. really though don't feel like you need to do anything you dislike. maybe anal just isn't for you and that's okay. but if you do want to try it more, just relax and have fun with what your doing.

I have enjoyed doing it with small anal toys in place.