Blow Jobs....A man's fantasy & A woman's Tricks

Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Ladies/Men: What are your signature moves to giving an amazing Blow Job. What do you love most

Men: What was your most impressive Blow Job. Or, if you could describe the perfect BJ, how would it go down.

What I love most....his smooth and silky texture across my tongue and lips. I could play for hours but that would be torture and rude lol
02/15/2015
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Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Ladies/Men: What are your signature moves to giving an amazing Blow Job. What do you love most

Men: What was your most impressive Blow Job. Or, if you could describe the perfect BJ, how would it go down.

What I love most....his ... more
Actually, Vnessa, a guy told me that most guys would take ANY blow job!
02/15/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Ladies/Men: What are your signature moves to giving an amazing Blow Job. What do you love most

Men: What was your most impressive Blow Job. Or, if you could describe the perfect BJ, how would it go down.

What I love most....his ... more
This is also a subject that I love....b.j.s I love the feel and the look and while I am feeling, I manage to make it harder, which is what I like, and obviously he does too.
02/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin
Actually, Vnessa, a guy told me that most guys would take ANY blow job!
LOL right, as if they are going to say, nope, not that way. Lol love it.
02/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by symbiasin
This is also a subject that I love....b.j.s I love the feel and the look and while I am feeling, I manage to make it harder, which is what I like, and obviously he does too.
See, I often get distracted with how fun they are!!!! I forget I'm down there to do a job. A few sharp inhales and some twitching reminds me of my task lol. Ooopsie
02/15/2015
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
I wrap my tounge around it one in a greeat while
02/15/2015
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
From my male friends back in college (once you get older/married, you don't much talk sex with male friends), the best was not so much technique as a giver who really wanted to do it. They said it was a big turn off if the giver acted like it was a chore or something they had to do. Also a turn off was the use of teeth.
02/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Absolutely!!! I have always heard that enthusiasm is everything. Well, almost everything .
02/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
For me, long soft lips going up and down slowly for as long as I can stand it, then some deep throat followed by more soft lips. Don't stop pleeeassssse. Some head licking thrown in is appreciated too. Wrapped fingers at the right time stroking with the right pressue helps too. Not too tight please.

V, is that specific enough ? Or tmi ?
02/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
For me, long soft lips going up and down slowly for as long as I can stand it, then some deep throat followed by more soft lips. Don't stop pleeeassssse. Some head licking thrown in is appreciated too. Wrapped fingers at the right time stroking ... more
Ha! You know I like the details. My husband will thank you all later
02/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Ha! You know I like the details. My husband will thank you all later
You're welcomed V,
Remember slow goes it. Not in a race. Besides you don't want him exploding yet.

Pretend it's a big ice cream cone too.
02/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
You're welcomed V,
Remember slow goes it. Not in a race. Besides you don't want him exploding yet.

Pretend it's a big ice cream cone too.
Slow goes it . k. I will see what I can do about that. If he explodes.... Yeah...so not my fault. Lol
02/17/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Slow goes it . k. I will see what I can do about that. If he explodes.... Yeah...so not my fault. Lol
Slow is right! Although I sometimes just cannot contain myself in the heat of the moment. As far as "tips" I really like the frenulum, the underside of the head of my cock stimulated. Although I also do really like my partner to use the tip of the tongue to explore the opening to my urethra.

Oh and one thing that is really important is that some of us fellows can and do continue to spasm with orgasm for quite a long time. Few things can ruin an otherwise outstanding oral sex session like your partner stopping before you really are done with your orgasm. You might even think that I'm done when I still have a few contractions left. So please consider continuing to suck or jack that cock until your partner asks you to stop.
02/17/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Slow is right! Although I sometimes just cannot contain myself in the heat of the moment. As far as "tips" I really like the frenulum, the underside of the head of my cock stimulated. Although I also do really like my partner to use the ... more
Yaaaaaaay meeeeee then Your first 2 are a couple of my 'play techniques' and the slow finish is me as well. That's also MY play time--which I'm glad to hear is mutually enjoyable for him
02/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Slow goes it . k. I will see what I can do about that. If he explodes.... Yeah...so not my fault. Lol
I bet you already knew all of this and more. Just wanted to hear it from others.

I bet you were hoping for more females replies. Guess they're too shy. ?
02/18/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
I love the male perspective Women may be too shy or simply not on?? I guess it could be one in the same as gowing down on girls. I'm sure there's a million and one ways to make that the best experience of her life! Hmmmmm....maybe that should be discussed next!!
02/18/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Ladies/Men: What are your signature moves to giving an amazing Blow Job. What do you love most

Men: What was your most impressive Blow Job. Or, if you could describe the perfect BJ, how would it go down.

What I love most....his ... more
First of all.... The problem with most people MEN AND WOMEN is nobody wants to sit to be played with for hours.

Me personally... I would love for someone to play with me for hours. Make me cum, massage me make me cum again... so on so forth. I like feeling on the boarder of sore pain and exhausted after sex. Nothing feels better than that and a hot shower and a good glass of sweet red wine after 4-5 orgasms.

Man truth be told id love to play with a girl for hours. Same thing, tell me what you want. Pick out the toys, show me what to do... Man ill give head all day

My favorite part of a BJ is getting one in a place I shouldn't be getting one LMAO! Like in the car on a trip, in the bathroom at a party, In the woods behind a friends house (on the walk in the woods you were supposidly taking LOL!)

However... to combine the top and the bottom usually I am so excited in that situation that I cum for her right away. (and thats usually what she wants in that situation so it works pretty well anyway)She gives me that I just did something naughty smile as she swallows me then we head back out to the party WE are hosting.

Then while I am talking to some friends she loves coming up and giving me a nice wet tounge kiss to try and shake me in my conversation with the other people. Shes such a fox!
02/18/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
First of all.... The problem with most people MEN AND WOMEN is nobody wants to sit to be played with for hours.

Me personally... I would love for someone to play with me for hours. Make me cum, massage me make me cum again... so on so forth. I ... more
and also... im with Ron Lee...

Maybe its that I now know my body better now then when I was a teenager but if your going to go down on me... Take your time. Yeah Ill cum if you go to town on me but if you want to make me cum so hard my eyes roll back in my head go as slow as you can.

Same thing with sex... I may last for an hour or even more if you go as slow as you can but ill be concintrating on not cumming for you until you force my body to cum. Which you literally can do.

Your body will eventually make you cum even if you fight it off. Feels so incredible.

(Also.. I think RonLee and I touched upon this before) But after having some slow sex I found that I was also multi-orgasmic. Yeah a guy... Multi-orgasmic. I can have one full orgasm without slowing down or I can stop her and have an orgasm control her just enough to keep me stimulated then I can do it again. Its all in learning your body. The reason I bring that up is I cant wait for her to go down on me when we have an afternoon to ourselves and see how many times I can cum for her. But I can only do it if she does it slowly.

Ok ok enough from me.
02/18/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
From my male friends back in college (once you get older/married, you don't much talk sex with male friends), the best was not so much technique as a giver who really wanted to do it. They said it was a big turn off if the giver acted like it ... more
Exactly......no teeth and no 'chore' attitude. I couldn't do the chore thing anyway, it is just too much fun eliciting groans and moans of pleasure and watching the response of the cock!
02/18/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Slow is right! Although I sometimes just cannot contain myself in the heat of the moment. As far as "tips" I really like the frenulum, the underside of the head of my cock stimulated. Although I also do really like my partner to use the ... more
Thanks for the 'don't stop' advise. One thing I do already is massage in the urethra and for a longer time at the frenulum, since it seems to be more sensitive. RonLee, any tips about deep throating, besides go waaaaay deep? U all like gagging? I don't gag.

Besides blowjobs I like to throw in special penile massages with coconut oil.

One guy liked the oil so much he practically dumped a whole bottle on his cock.
02/18/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I bet you already knew all of this and more. Just wanted to hear it from others.

I bet you were hoping for more females replies. Guess they're too shy. ?
Guess again , oh
02/18/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
and also... im with Ron Lee...

Maybe its that I now know my body better now then when I was a teenager but if your going to go down on me... Take your time. Yeah Ill cum if you go to town on me but if you want to make me cum so hard my eyes ... more
and then IT Guy the said guy who liked the oil came like a dadgummed volcano! And left my house trembling from the cums and bragged about me....to like minded individuals of course.
02/18/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by symbiasin
and then IT Guy the said guy who liked the oil came like a dadgummed volcano! And left my house trembling from the cums and bragged about me....to like minded individuals of course.
symbiasin.... The Secretary is all about the coconut oil. I recommend that to everyone and anyone. Its so awesome!
02/18/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Give me hours of going down on me anyday!
02/18/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
First of all.... The problem with most people MEN AND WOMEN is nobody wants to sit to be played with for hours.

Me personally... I would love for someone to play with me for hours. Make me cum, massage me make me cum again... so on so forth. I ... more
I love her spunk! Yay you . And yay HER!!!! SERIOUSLY. I would be lying if I wasn't just envisioning a fantastic night lol.
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by symbiasin
Thanks for the 'don't stop' advise. One thing I do already is massage in the urethra and for a longer time at the frenulum, since it seems to be more sensitive. RonLee, any tips about deep throating, besides go waaaaay deep? U all like ... more
I've always just used my Eros lube but may have to try the coconut oil. How was the flavor? Any special massage techniques or tips?
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
symbiasin.... The Secretary is all about the coconut oil. I recommend that to everyone and anyone. Its so awesome!
The oil on Mrs Secretary??? Or for you... I feel like I might need a plastic sheet tonight!! Lol.
02/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
and also... im with Ron Lee...

Maybe its that I now know my body better now then when I was a teenager but if your going to go down on me... Take your time. Yeah Ill cum if you go to town on me but if you want to make me cum so hard my eyes ... more
Ummm...yeeeeaaahhhh... we totally need to master that (happy claps!!!!). He gives in waaaay too easily lol. He has no control when it comes to my vag lol. I could go incredibly slow (which is my fave) or fast and hard and it would not make a difference. I could simply blowww on it, not even have him inside me, he would only be thinking of the feeling, and he's a goner! Oy vey
02/19/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
I've always just used my Eros lube but may have to try the coconut oil. How was the flavor? Any special massage techniques or tips?
I have not hear one bad thing about coconut oil. It is good for your skin, you can justify it being there because it is good for cooking and is good for you. One guy puts a small amount in his coffee so he gets some on his lips. And the list goes on...
02/19/2015