Thanks for the 'don't stop' advise. One thing I do already is massage in the urethra and for a longer time at the frenulum, since it seems to be more sensitive. RonLee, any tips about deep throating, besides go waaaaay deep? U all like gagging? I don't gag.

Besides blowjobs I like to throw in special penile massages with coconut oil.

One guy liked the oil so much he practically dumped a whole bottle on his cock. less

Ummm...yeeeeaaahhhh... we totally need to master that (happy claps!!!!). He gives in waaaay too easily lol. He has no control when it comes to my vag lol. I could go incredibly slow (which is my fave) or fast and hard and it would not make a difference. I could simply blowww on it, not even have him inside me, he would only be thinking of the feeling, and he's a goner! Oy vey less

Mmm coconut oil has such a sexual connection in my head anymore that if I just smell it I'll start to get a boner.
I really don't get the sexual turn on that some fellows have with their partner gagging on his cock. I can only speculate that it's a porn film thing, perhaps as an indicator that the man has such a large cock that it will gag anyone sucking it.

Symbiasin, as far as any tips about going deep, I personally enjoy a lot of pressure on my shaft especially at the base on the up stroke, but some don't like that. One person I've sucked (yes I'm a versatile Bi Guy) really prefers a very light touch. And as far as what would your fellow like I'd suggest asking but for many men, he would just be so thankful that you are willing that he might not be able to even answer. I'm a very communicative fellow myself, sometimes too much so. I've been told to just shut up and enjoy... LOL

One other thing would be to simultaneously stimulate your partner's prostate while sucking. I've cum from prostate stimulation alone so combining that with being sucked, that would be heaven. However, ask first. Not every man, particularly straight men, are comfortable with receiving anal stimulation, especially the first time. less

Now see here's when I am going to have to be on the boarder of offending you.

Any guy can control his orgasm you just have to give him motivation. Now its more difficult for a guy than it is for a girl because we do seem to get to an orgasm much quicker than you ladies do.

However you need to make him control his orgasm. Make him learn about how his body feel and how close he is to having an orgasm. A great way to do that is to get on top of him to ride him and have him put his hands on your hips. As you ride him have him show you at what point of speed and stimulation he is at by having him slow down speed up or even stop you dead in your tracks. If you want the truth... This practice led to me figuring out how to have multiple orgasms without a break in between.

Truthfully I figured it out while masturbating. Then the next time we had sex I pulled out of her and came all over her stomach and she gave me that huge smile of like that was fun and she started to roll over and I put my hand oh her stomach and gently pushed her back onto the pillow and entered her again and she was shocked. I got really close down on top of her mixing my cum between our bodies and then I came for a second time inside of her then again for three times. She was shocked an hour later she was cooking in the kitchen telling me "you know... your still leaking out of me. That was like a gallon LMAO!"Trust me its completely worth taking the time to learn your body.

I am not shy at all about stopping her or pulling out if she is going to make me cum too quickly. Sure I want to cum but im in it to win it. I want to have an amazing orgasm not just a run of the mill orgasm. So I try and pleasure her while I try to use her body like my own personal sex toy to achieve the best orgasm I can.

Now that does backfire on me sometimes because she gets on top has no intention of doing anything but ripping me up (Which is awesome sometimes too, no complaints here) and I will beg her to slow down... she refuses and rides me harder then she will pin my arms to the bed (I let her which gets her off) I let her take out her anger on me and a kind of bury my head in her breasts as I cum and groan like im going to get into trouble if someone catches me. (Gets her off too)

As I said in another post... sometimes she has no intention of her having an orgasm she just wants to make me cum. Usually she will slow down but she does like to force me to cum fast when I want to take my time so I put on that "Oh dont force me to cum" production on and she loves it!

Another little trick that I use that some guys will refuse to do is that I alternate during sex from oral to penetration to slow myself down if I feel I am going to cum too soon. There has been times where we have gone for several hours by me pulling out and going down on her off and on. That varies the stimulation for her but continues the stimulation. Truth be told... I may have said this before but precum just pours out of me while I am going down on her so its not like I need more stimulation. So it all works out well for me!

Now some guys are bugged out because they have that mindset of my dick was just there I don't want to eat her out after that. I love some good thick cream from her body built up on her clit and labia and I am sure there has been a time or two I have tasted my own cum/precum on/in her. (I'm not sure if she would be into going down on her after I have had a full orgasm but I don't think id be against it. I mean its all natural LOL!)

Give it all a shot you will love it! less

Thank you, Jesus! (is it bad to mention Jesus while discussing sex lol) Anyway,I could totally Hi-5 you right now!!! You just gave me some great homework for the weekend

Oh....it takes a lot more than that to offend me lol. But, thank you, for being considerat less

If he is willing to go along he may put up a fuss for a few minutes until he understands what you are trying to help him do.

As I said in another post. Dare him not to cum while you literally slide down him as slow as you possibly can. Then grind your clit against him when your all the way down gently but firmly.

His body will literally force him to cum after a while if he can concintrate on not getting excited. He will literally have to focus on not even contracting his pc muscles.

Once you guys get that down he will cum so hard he will hurt his chest muscles. And he will fill you up to the gills. Oh yeah btw... for a guy.. if you can pull that off the prostate just builds and builds and fills and fills until he cums. You will be amazed at the volume he produces after an orgasm like that. (and the distance he can cum believe it or not. LOL.)

She did that to me rolled me over wanted me to cum on her breasts... believe it or not I actually ejaculated so far that I came on the wall behind her and the screen on the window LMAO! I was embarassed for a moment or two.. then I was like I'M FUCKING SUPERMAN LOL! less

I think that it will literally get to the point where your body cant store the fluid anymore and your body forced itself to ejaculate.

As I said before. Don't let him thrust, just extremely slow up and down and grind your clit on the bottom. (That's how I like it atleast LOL)And the dont flex your PC muscles thing is VERY IMPORTANT. And if you are not sure what they are is the muscle that you flex that makes you harder and stops you from peeing. (For a guy)

Stop if you have to then start again when hes started to drop back from his orgasm. Its all of the sudden going to go BOOM!

Have fun! less

I think that it will literally get to the point where your body cant store the fluid anymore and your body forced itself to ejaculate.

As I said before. Don't let him thrust, just extremely slow up and down and grind your clit on the bottom. (That's how I like it atleast LOL)And the dont flex your PC muscles thing is VERY IMPORTANT. And if you are not sure what they are is the muscle that you flex that makes you harder and stops you from peeing. (For a guy)

Stop if you have to then start again when hes started to drop back from his orgasm. Its all of the sudden going to go BOOM!

Have fun! less

If he is willing to go along he may put up a fuss for a few minutes until he understands what you are trying to help him do.

As I said in another post. Dare him not to cum while you literally slide down him as slow as you possibly can. Then grind your clit against him when your all the way down gently but firmly.

His body will literally force him to cum after a while if he can concintrate on not getting excited. He will literally have to focus on not even contracting his pc muscles.

Once you guys get that down he will cum so hard he will hurt his chest muscles. And he will fill you up to the gills. Oh yeah btw... for a guy.. if you can pull that off the prostate just builds and builds and fills and fills until he cums. You will be amazed at the volume he produces after an orgasm like that. (and the distance he can cum believe it or not. LOL.)

She did that to me rolled me over wanted me to cum on her breasts... believe it or not I actually ejaculated so far that I came on the wall behind her and the screen on the window LMAO! I was embarassed for a moment or two.. then I was like I'M FUCKING SUPERMAN LOL! less

It is a shame I think you would agree Ron that straight men aren't always comfortable with receiving anal stimulation.

I cant lie I am straight and I felt awkward a bit until I had my first prostate orgasm with a toy while having oral performed on me.

It felt so good it was like my body overloaded then short circuited ! I was shaking for an hour afterwords. Its like a regular orgasm times three if you get it just right.

However that's not my normal thing and its gotta be a pretty kinky night for those toys to even get considered. But when they do OH BOY! less

Mmm coconut oil has such a sexual connection in my head anymore that if I just smell it I'll start to get a boner.
I really don't get the sexual turn on that some fellows have with their partner gagging on his cock. I can only speculate that it's a porn film thing, perhaps as an indicator that the man has such a large cock that it will gag anyone sucking it.

Symbiasin, as far as any tips about going deep, I personally enjoy a lot of pressure on my shaft especially at the base on the up stroke, but some don't like that. One person I've sucked (yes I'm a versatile Bi Guy) really prefers a very light touch. And as far as what would your fellow like I'd suggest asking but for many men, he would just be so thankful that you are willing that he might not be able to even answer. I'm a very communicative fellow myself, sometimes too much so. I've been told to just shut up and enjoy... LOL

One other thing would be to simultaneously stimulate your partner's prostate while sucking. I've cum from prostate stimulation alone so combining that with being sucked, that would be heaven. However, ask first. Not every man, particularly straight men, are comfortable with receiving anal stimulation, especially the first time. less

Too bad my husband's not interested in this forum, or else I'll make him read this post!

My husband's one of those straight men; he refuses to let me finger his hole. He's okay with me massaging his perineum (and he makes those oohs and aahs noise) but will move my finger away after a minute or two. I have a question for you guys. One time while giving him a BJ and some rimming, I stuck a finger into his hole, and he cummed instantly. Afterward, he claimed he didn't like it. So, do you guys think he's in denial? Why did he cum if he didn't like it? less

Now see here's when I am going to have to be on the boarder of offending you.

Any guy can control his orgasm you just have to give him motivation. Now its more difficult for a guy than it is for a girl because we do seem to get to an orgasm much quicker than you ladies do.

However you need to make him control his orgasm. Make him learn about how his body feel and how close he is to having an orgasm. A great way to do that is to get on top of him to ride him and have him put his hands on your hips. As you ride him have him show you at what point of speed and stimulation he is at by having him slow down speed up or even stop you dead in your tracks. If you want the truth... This practice led to me figuring out how to have multiple orgasms without a break in between.

Truthfully I figured it out while masturbating. Then the next time we had sex I pulled out of her and came all over her stomach and she gave me that huge smile of like that was fun and she started to roll over and I put my hand oh her stomach and gently pushed her back onto the pillow and entered her again and she was shocked. I got really close down on top of her mixing my cum between our bodies and then I came for a second time inside of her then again for three times. She was shocked an hour later she was cooking in the kitchen telling me "you know... your still leaking out of me. That was like a gallon LMAO!"Trust me its completely worth taking the time to learn your body.

I am not shy at all about stopping her or pulling out if she is going to make me cum too quickly. Sure I want to cum but im in it to win it. I want to have an amazing orgasm not just a run of the mill orgasm. So I try and pleasure her while I try to use her body like my own personal sex toy to achieve the best orgasm I can.

Now that does backfire on me sometimes because she gets on top has no intention of doing anything but ripping me up (Which is awesome sometimes too, no complaints here) and I will beg her to slow down... she refuses and rides me harder then she will pin my arms to the bed (I let her which gets her off) I let her take out her anger on me and a kind of bury my head in her breasts as I cum and groan like im going to get into trouble if someone catches me. (Gets her off too)

As I said in another post... sometimes she has no intention of her having an orgasm she just wants to make me cum. Usually she will slow down but she does like to force me to cum fast when I want to take my time so I put on that "Oh dont force me to cum" production on and she loves it!

Another little trick that I use that some guys will refuse to do is that I alternate during sex from oral to penetration to slow myself down if I feel I am going to cum too soon. There has been times where we have gone for several hours by me pulling out and going down on her off and on. That varies the stimulation for her but continues the stimulation. Truth be told... I may have said this before but precum just pours out of me while I am going down on her so its not like I need more stimulation. So it all works out well for me!

Now some guys are bugged out because they have that mindset of my dick was just there I don't want to eat her out after that. I love some good thick cream from her body built up on her clit and labia and I am sure there has been a time or two I have tasted my own cum/precum on/in her. (I'm not sure if she would be into going down on her after I have had a full orgasm but I don't think id be against it. I mean its all natural LOL!)

Give it all a shot you will love it! less

Vnessa, along with that thought of communication. (pst I know that you were joking about "blindfold him, lube up the plug really good, just go for it, and hope for the best?")
Even an experienced anal player like me needs warm up and going really slow for the first penetration of a session. So Please get CONSENT First. But Vnessa, your man just doesn't know how lucky he is... less

It is a shame I think you would agree Ron that straight men aren't always comfortable with receiving anal stimulation.

I cant lie I am straight and I felt awkward a bit until I had my first prostate orgasm with a toy while having oral performed on me.

It felt so good it was like my body overloaded then short circuited ! I was shaking for an hour afterwords. Its like a regular orgasm times three if you get it just right.

However that's not my normal thing and its gotta be a pretty kinky night for those toys to even get considered. But when they do OH BOY! less

My pleasure !

See the obstacle isn't getting him to try and control his orgasm once he wants to do it, the obstacle is to get him to want to try and control his orgasm.

I was kidding with a friend the other day that if we had known about these techniques in college or high school we would have been gods!!!

Back then it was YAY I am gonna have sex and cum! If she enjoys it that's cool too but YAY FOR ME! Now I know that its so much better to have her cumming while I am.

Once you understand that sex is so much better when she is getting off your off to the races.

I was saying if only we had a time machine to go back and tell ourselves things like this! LMAO! less

Ladies say what you want to say but I think you will agree.

Its easy to make a guy cum... his challenge is not cumming.

Its difficult to make a woman cum... her challenge is relaxing and getting in the right state of mind enough to allow herself to cum.

You can play with her clit and g-spot all you want, if she isn't feeling it its just not going to happen. less

And I am just going to throw it in there....

I made her cum twice in a row last night just from straight up sex nothing else! I felt like a fucking superhero!

(It has happened before but I always relish it for a while afterwords LOL!!!)

I have found how to have multiples, but I want her to start having the same fun I have. (Got in trouble with that yesterday, I pulled out of her the first time I came and kinda came on her sweat shirt she was planning to wear later on because I didnt want to cum inside her and make her sticky before we were done. Before kids I could get her every time we had sex. After kids it isn't that easy and now we are getting back to before we had kids and I want to kick her up to having multiples as well if it takes oral, penetration and toys combined!

Im a man on a mission!

My problem is I obsessed about two. Now that I have gotten two a few times... the goal is of course three. I like cumming until I literally cant ejaculate anymore during sex and you have that exhausted raw sore feeling inside that feels great for a day or so. I want her to experience that feeling of I came so many times I just cant cum anymore until I have had some gatorade and some steak LMAO! less