The New Intimacy

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Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I don't do anything while I masturbate, per say.

I might watch something hot, then feel like masturbating afterward, but as I'm masturbating I just like fantasizing and often closing my eyes while doing it. (I'm imagining I close my eyes? I'm not sure if I do; it's not something I'm conscious of, but I think I do.)

And then I just repeat, lol
01/30/2013
Contributor: brevado brevado
Porn works well
01/30/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I like reading about sex, but usually I just think about my boyfriend.
02/09/2013
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Eyes open, just enjoy the feelings.
02/09/2013
Contributor: DigitalSweety DigitalSweety
I spend a lot of time in my own head. Pics might turn me on, but it's hard for me to actually get off without fantasizing.
02/13/2013
Contributor: xscorpiox xscorpiox
any of the above
02/13/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
My girlfriend watches porn or focuses on feelings that she has.

I usually focus on scenarios in my head, porn never does it for me.
02/15/2013
Contributor: big b big b
it all works
02/15/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I like porn, but it does have to be specific. I like hearing guys enjoying the sexual act. It cant feel overly forced or faked, I hate when the guys are quiet and the chick is just screaming away annoyingly. I also can and do enjoy just using my thoughts.
02/15/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
Quote:
Originally posted by Elaira
I've never tried to read erotica, but maybe I should.

I'm super picky about my porn, too. Sometimes it takes me longer to find the right video than it does to get off.
I have the same problem about being picky. Most porn just doesn't do it for me and. Lot of it is just terrible in general. It takes me so long to find a decent video that I'd rather not bother.

Reading kinky erotica is my absolute favorite. Obviously just like there's bad visual porn, there's also bad writing, but it's either to weed through the crap and there are a lot of good authors on the Internet. And no buffering time if you have a slow Internet connection like I do which is also a bonus! Haha. Visually, there are a lot of things that I hate (annoyingly fake porno moans, anyone?) but in writing things can be more vague and can be substituted with imagination.

Some writers take existing kinks of mine and write them well and it gives me new ideas for play. Or I read something that I normally wouldn't think about just for the hell of it and end up with brand new fantasies.

Idk I am just really passionate about erotica LOL
02/18/2013
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
One of my favorite things about solo is just being able to feel the sensations and not worrying about anything else. It makes my orgasms very intense.
02/21/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
Pictures and videos are usually what I use though I've done it with text sometimes when there's a really hot erotic story.
03/04/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
It takes me a while to do it with just my fingers. Maybe something else would help, but I usually just think and concentrate on the feelings.

With a toy (like my Hitachi) I'm gone in less than a minute JUST focusing on the WONDERFUL feelings.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
I like reading erotica while I get off... works so much better for me than porn.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Evgeny Kravtsov Evgeny Kravtsov
An combination of things above or other
03/26/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
I usually either just watch whatever kind of porn I feel like watching that day or I just close my eyes and go at it.
03/26/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Combination, it really depends on the mood I'm in.
05/15/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
An combination of things above or other like watching a beautiful women ride a dick or toy
05/15/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
There isn't one specific thing that gets me off, I do a combo of things!
05/15/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I close my eyes and imagine things.. Porn videos don't help.. neither do photos.
05/16/2013
Contributor: Clock Chime Clock Chime
Usually imagination
05/16/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
What do you like best or do most often? (please explain in detail below if you feel like sharing)
i like to find a video of two or three people doing what i would want to be doing, then i kind of stop watching, imagine myself doing that and listen to the sounds.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Gorky Gorky
I like to read erotica to get in the mood, but during the act, I prefer videos
10/09/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
What do you like best or do most often? (please explain in detail below if you feel like sharing)
I'm a porn type of person
10/28/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
Anything the turns us on
11/25/2019
Contributor: nikywolfe nikywolfe
It varies and I multi task quite a bit. Sometimes I'll start by dressing up in lingerie and take pics/vids of myself, usually gets me turned on an wet as a start. I'll jump in a chat room and find someone who wants to sext and share. There is something to be said about having that dirty talk dialog even if done from behind the screen. They get turned on and want you and that turns me on to do more and please them. When you watch porn there is no feedback, its just visual. By chance, if no one is avail I'll watch porn while taping myself masturbate. I'll use that as stimulation for the next chat session
07/31/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
What do you like best or do most often? (please explain in detail below if you feel like sharing)
Most of the time I simply use my imagination
07/31/2020
Contributor: Zeta Zeta
1, 2 knockout!!!!
Jul 12, 5:17 pm
Contributor: abee abee
Erotica and imagination Porn is usually too ... awkward? ... to get me in the mood. I end up thinking about the logistics and "is she even having a good time?" "Does it get boring to fake-moan for that long?" and stuff like that. The written word is much better for immersion in my opinion.
Aug 18, 8:27 pm
Contributor: Helen31 Helen31
Reading erotica helps but I'm visual as well I have a huge voyeur thing so watching a guy stroke and get off pushes me over.
Aug 25, 2:38 pm