take it longer and slow it´s better for me and him
Orgasms : Slow it down or Get there quick?
12/07/2011
I'll take it either way. (That sounds desperate!) I can come in many different ways, so it's no big deal how I get there, as long as the journey was fun!
12/07/2011
I was going to say slower because the buildup adds to the climax for me.
But then all the depends on my mood posts got me think, and I pretty much agree. Every once in a while I just want to get it out asap.
But then all the depends on my mood posts got me think, and I pretty much agree. Every once in a while I just want to get it out asap.
12/07/2011
i've never really taken it slow. i like to get to it quickly..haha.
12/08/2011
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i like to take my time :3
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
12/09/2011
I usually go for the quick release. Though I do wish I could slow it down and take my time.
03/11/2012
icyqueen
Both,depending on my mood.
03/11/2012
Both depends on my mood how much time I have if I'm having sex with my hubby ect...
03/11/2012
definitely slow
03/12/2012
That's a mood based thing but usually fast
03/13/2012
What is slow and what is quick? Heh. I tend to come quite quick doing nothing, so even if I want to take it slowly it doesnt work all the time. But then again I like fighting it and then giving in at the last minute.
03/30/2012
Kind of depends.
03/30/2012
Depends on the time of day and how frisky he is.
04/01/2012
Depends on my mood
09/08/2012
Depends on my mood
09/08/2012
All depends on the moment
09/08/2012
slow
09/08/2012
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Definately slow build, foreplay produces better results.
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
09/08/2012
I voted for both because depends on how I'm feeling at the time and any other circumstances, like if I don't have much time to spare.
09/08/2012
Megan McClure
Teasing is the way to go!! Take it slow, stop & start...get closer, stop & start, get closer...STOP!!
09/09/2012
Abovetheclouds
I've always been into having extended foreplay so I like it slow but I can do fast if necessary.
09/09/2012
I usually opt to have one quick orgasm when I play alone or have sex with my SO....and then if I have time/energy I can take my time for a second or more Orgasm. Nice!
09/10/2012
love it nice and slow sometimes, especially with oral.
But sometimes if i am already pretty turned on, i like to get off quick
But sometimes if i am already pretty turned on, i like to get off quick
09/10/2012
depends...usually slow but sometimes fast.
09/10/2012
Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Maybe guys are a numerical minority on the site, could explain lower posting volumes.
Originally posted by
teachmetouchme
Do any of you notice that almost NO men respond to these sex related polls unless they specifically have to do with their dicks? Can you spell "selfish"?
Here only 2 out of 27 respondants are male (identified). That is less than 4% ... more
Here only 2 out of 27 respondants are male (identified). That is less than 4% ... more
Do any of you notice that almost NO men respond to these sex related polls unless they specifically have to do with their dicks? Can you spell "selfish"?
Here only 2 out of 27 respondants are male (identified). That is less than 4% of those answering this question.
VERY SAD. less
Here only 2 out of 27 respondants are male (identified). That is less than 4% of those answering this question.
VERY SAD. less
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be multi-orgasmic just is fuel to make me want to give her all the pleasure she wants. Many times I don’t even get off at all, and I’m fine with that. I know she loves me and will be sure I get my time too.
Indeed, the very first time we were physical romantically, I just gave her some nice slow oral, and let that be the that. She had not had a lover in several years at that point. I did not want to push things that early, I knew we had time to catch up later.
06/12/2019
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Gr8pumpkin - I'm with you 110%. As a guy who struggles to have even 1 orgasm (age related issues) I relish the ability to provide my wife with multiples. Luckily for me, she's more than happy for my attentiveness to her needs.
Originally posted by
Gr8pumpkin
Maybe guys are a numerical minority on the site, could explain lower posting volumes.
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be ... more
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be ... more
Maybe guys are a numerical minority on the site, could explain lower posting volumes.
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be multi-orgasmic just is fuel to make me want to give her all the pleasure she wants. Many times I don’t even get off at all, and I’m fine with that. I know she loves me and will be sure I get my time too.
Indeed, the very first time we were physical romantically, I just gave her some nice slow oral, and let that be the that. She had not had a lover in several years at that point. I did not want to push things that early, I knew we had time to catch up later. less
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be multi-orgasmic just is fuel to make me want to give her all the pleasure she wants. Many times I don’t even get off at all, and I’m fine with that. I know she loves me and will be sure I get my time too.
Indeed, the very first time we were physical romantically, I just gave her some nice slow oral, and let that be the that. She had not had a lover in several years at that point. I did not want to push things that early, I knew we had time to catch up later. less
06/12/2019
Quote:
this is a depends on my mood and how much time I have for solo play.
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
10/31/2019
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I like both, I get off multiple times during sex, or using a vibrator. If I'm playing with myself I'll take it slow, then after that I'll get off a few times rather quick. During sex I like to get off quick, then maybe take the next one or two slower
Originally posted by
Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
11/01/2019
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