A year or so by choice. I stopped counting time after awhile
How long have you ABSTAINED from SEX?
08/19/2012
Oh but I used toys often in that time lol
08/19/2012
I am guessing the longest I have abstained from mastubation, might have been like 6 days. I lose interest about one week a year occasionally.
08/19/2012
Female, about a month at a time, long distance relationship
08/19/2012
I've gone months without sex, but only a week or so without masturbation.
08/19/2012
It depends on whether or not I was with someone. The longest while with someone was just over a week. While not with someone, about a month or two.
08/19/2012
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with my husband being deployed 3mo at a time 2x a year, i dont have much of a choice, im so stressed out and busy i dont even have time to play w myself, so about 90 days 2x a year.. sad, huh?
Originally posted by
PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained
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I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained from SEX and MASTURBATION? It seems to me that after a period of abstinence (including self-masturbation), that the sex is even more intense and erotic.
There was a movie call "40 Days and 40 Nights" (2002) about a San Francisco dot-com web designer Matt Sullivan (Josh Hartnett) who vowed to abstain from sexual activity and contact (including self-gratification) for 40 days and nights for Lent. As his friend said, "The male was biologically designed to spread his seed, Matt. You're gonna piss off the seeds, man! You're gonna... It goes against science! You wanna be the guy who goes against science?"
When he became involved with dream girl Erica Sutton (Shannyn Sossamon), whom he had met in a laundromat, he had to find other means to avoid violating his vow by, blowing white flower petals across Erica's naked body (down her stomach and then across her panties) as she was lying on her back - it caused her to writhe with pleasure and experience an "immaculate" orgasm without being touched. In other scenes during his abstinence period, he imagined various women semi-nude (on a bus and in a street scene), as he became more and more obsessed about sex ("I'm seeing things! I swear to God, everywhere I look I'm seeing tits and ass")!
With this illustration in mind, I would like to ask again, what has been YOUR personal experience as to the length of ‘time’ in which you have abstained from SEX (including masturbation) and what your experience was like when reengaging again in sexual activity? Let us all honor that person who had the perseverance to hold out the longest!!! less
There was a movie call "40 Days and 40 Nights" (2002) about a San Francisco dot-com web designer Matt Sullivan (Josh Hartnett) who vowed to abstain from sexual activity and contact (including self-gratification) for 40 days and nights for Lent. As his friend said, "The male was biologically designed to spread his seed, Matt. You're gonna piss off the seeds, man! You're gonna... It goes against science! You wanna be the guy who goes against science?"
When he became involved with dream girl Erica Sutton (Shannyn Sossamon), whom he had met in a laundromat, he had to find other means to avoid violating his vow by, blowing white flower petals across Erica's naked body (down her stomach and then across her panties) as she was lying on her back - it caused her to writhe with pleasure and experience an "immaculate" orgasm without being touched. In other scenes during his abstinence period, he imagined various women semi-nude (on a bus and in a street scene), as he became more and more obsessed about sex ("I'm seeing things! I swear to God, everywhere I look I'm seeing tits and ass")!
With this illustration in mind, I would like to ask again, what has been YOUR personal experience as to the length of ‘time’ in which you have abstained from SEX (including masturbation) and what your experience was like when reengaging again in sexual activity? Let us all honor that person who had the perseverance to hold out the longest!!! less
08/19/2012
Megan McClure
I can go a long time without sex but not so long without masturbating. I mean I need to have an orgasm at some point, somehow!
08/22/2012
months when she was recovering from surgery.
08/22/2012
Since I began having sex, the longest I've gone between partners is a year and a half. As for not touching myself at all, I friend tried to get me to not touch for a week. At all. I made it two days. I could not do it. I love touching myself.
08/27/2012
I've never intentionally abstained, but there have been times when I've been single that I've gone for a year. Now that I'm in a long distance relationship, I tend to go 4 or 5 months at a time. It doesn't bother me much.
08/30/2012
7 months
08/30/2012
The longest I've gone without sex was almost three months. Not fun for me xD
09/12/2012
When in a relationship the longest we've gone is 6 months, during the last trimester of my wife's pregnancy and for about 3 months after the baby was born. But I definitely masturbated, a lot.
09/12/2012
um about 4 days for masturbation but for human contact so far its been 3 months
09/12/2012
A few weeks after birth. For the hubs and I, anything past a couple of days makes us snippy.
09/12/2012
sometimes I go so long I forget my gender, sometimes every day. its a toss up.
11/05/2012
I have gone months without either sex or masturbation before.
11/06/2012
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Since I have been married I haven't gone less than a day if I can help it! My husband was gone for 2 months for military training, but I don't really count that as abstaining from sex. I was a virgin until I got married however. It was hard to wait until I was married but I made it!
Originally posted by
PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained
...
more
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained from SEX and MASTURBATION? It seems to me that after a period of abstinence (including self-masturbation), that the sex is even more intense and erotic.
There was a movie call "40 Days and 40 Nights" (2002) about a San Francisco dot-com web designer Matt Sullivan (Josh Hartnett) who vowed to abstain from sexual activity and contact (including self-gratification) for 40 days and nights for Lent. As his friend said, "The male was biologically designed to spread his seed, Matt. You're gonna piss off the seeds, man! You're gonna... It goes against science! You wanna be the guy who goes against science?"
When he became involved with dream girl Erica Sutton (Shannyn Sossamon), whom he had met in a laundromat, he had to find other means to avoid violating his vow by, blowing white flower petals across Erica's naked body (down her stomach and then across her panties) as she was lying on her back - it caused her to writhe with pleasure and experience an "immaculate" orgasm without being touched. In other scenes during his abstinence period, he imagined various women semi-nude (on a bus and in a street scene), as he became more and more obsessed about sex ("I'm seeing things! I swear to God, everywhere I look I'm seeing tits and ass")!
With this illustration in mind, I would like to ask again, what has been YOUR personal experience as to the length of ‘time’ in which you have abstained from SEX (including masturbation) and what your experience was like when reengaging again in sexual activity? Let us all honor that person who had the perseverance to hold out the longest!!! less
There was a movie call "40 Days and 40 Nights" (2002) about a San Francisco dot-com web designer Matt Sullivan (Josh Hartnett) who vowed to abstain from sexual activity and contact (including self-gratification) for 40 days and nights for Lent. As his friend said, "The male was biologically designed to spread his seed, Matt. You're gonna piss off the seeds, man! You're gonna... It goes against science! You wanna be the guy who goes against science?"
When he became involved with dream girl Erica Sutton (Shannyn Sossamon), whom he had met in a laundromat, he had to find other means to avoid violating his vow by, blowing white flower petals across Erica's naked body (down her stomach and then across her panties) as she was lying on her back - it caused her to writhe with pleasure and experience an "immaculate" orgasm without being touched. In other scenes during his abstinence period, he imagined various women semi-nude (on a bus and in a street scene), as he became more and more obsessed about sex ("I'm seeing things! I swear to God, everywhere I look I'm seeing tits and ass")!
With this illustration in mind, I would like to ask again, what has been YOUR personal experience as to the length of ‘time’ in which you have abstained from SEX (including masturbation) and what your experience was like when reengaging again in sexual activity? Let us all honor that person who had the perseverance to hold out the longest!!! less
11/09/2012
The longest time I've gone without masturbating... Maybe a few weeks. Without sex, right now I'm going on 5 1/2 months.
11/09/2012
i was once in a LTR of 10yrs. my partner was not as sexual as I. talking a couple of times a year. and when i don't get it i stop wanting it. so hardly ever had solo play either. (and yes i tried everything i knew of to rectify the situation)
11/09/2012
I've gone without anything for well over a month. Unfortunately, once I stop doing things, I have a difficult time getting off, and spend most of my time horny and frustrated. >.<
11/09/2012
When my husband is deployed, we have gone as long as 8 months without sex. I do have toy time, but the frequency depends on my mood. Sometimes it will be several times a day/week or a few weeks between sessions.
11/09/2012
5 months
11/09/2012
11 months was the longest period i went without. But when i engaged in sexual activity after that period, it was magical.
11/12/2012
hmm good question! I have easily gone over 3 months without partner sex (but only because I was in a long distance relationship). I wish I could say with certainty regarding masturbation but I am guessing never more than a few weeks. I can get distracted from it, but not for too long!
11/12/2012
I have gone for months at a time
11/12/2012
Maybe a week? I masturbate, uh, a lot. So when I've gone without even that, I've either been sick or exhausted from being too busy.
11/12/2012
I've gone quite a while between boyfriends or in long distance relationships. I masturbated a lot, but no sex for over a year and a half at one point!
11/12/2012
Since being married, it would be about 5 weeks (after my surgery) but other than that, I think maybe 1 week? sounds about right
11/12/2012