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Help me decide which one I want next? Which would you get? NJoy/LELO/Jimmyjane/Vi xSkin

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Contributor: Alegria Alegria
So I'm personally deciding between the Pure Wand, the VixSkin Johnny and the Ina or Siri.

I was hoping all of you could give me an idea which toy I should invest in next; but I also want to know which toy you would choose if you could have it, for free, right now. Or, if you already own a few of these and your toybox was on fire, which would you save?

I included Jimmyjane because even though I'm not too interested I know the Form 3 is a very popular item right now.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
NJoy!
Miss Cinnamon , Gunsmoke , Envy , sumie , SydVicious , Liz2 , Owl Identified , CaptainBunnyKilla , Kayla , JustYourAverageGuy , fromazoo , MaryExy , potstickers
13
LELO!
Airen Wolf , cherryredhead88 , Waterfall , DeliciousSurprise , TitsMcScandal , Love Buzz , VieuxCarre , Liz2 , Lady Venus , Jenn (aka kissmykitty) , Alan & Michele , Andromeda , bzzingbee , rumordavis , buzzvibe , OhMy! , Cecebee , sexysweetieshan , Hannah Savage , nolongerhere , usmcwife99 , Kayla , mllebeauty , Spring , Sohotdinosaur , mrs.mckrakn , Madeira , null , meganthomas , lamira , danellejohns , sbon , Lummox , Shellz31 , Mlee , napalmbutterfly , loveshocks , gothikstars , LavenderSkies , BadassFatass , Kaltir , SapphirexIce , tigerkate , zeebot , sexyk515 , yes yes yes , lesbianlesbian , fromazoo , charcat , ichigostrawberry , MaryExy , Judas Iscars , WhoopieDoo , Miss Morphine , Apirka , ninja250 , leelee , fufucat , reddead , Lano4ka , All His , pepperjack , Sexy Desire , karenm , Martiniman , steelaster , sungmee , pokefan15 , ForUs , sunflower
70
Jimmyjane!
Pleasure Piratess , EndlessFrost , Luvasaurus , sfpd2010 , looksy lou , *Huxley* , fromazoo , liilii080 , charcat , chicmichiw
10
Vixskin!
kck , VieuxCarre , Liz2 , byteme97 , Tuesday , Andromeda , Hannah Savage , Adriana Ravenlust , softcoeur , Selective Sensualist , MaryExy , potstickers , GONE! , captainsgirl
14
Other! Of course =)
cherryredhead88 , shelly8791 , domsub1993
3
Total votes: 110 (97 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I think Ina is on the top of my list but I really want to try Vixskin+Siri. I imagine it'd be phenomenal.
09/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
I am so obsessed with VixSkin, it's not even funny. DO IT. You won't regret it!!!!
09/13/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by kck
I am so obsessed with VixSkin, it's not even funny. DO IT. You won't regret it!!!!
See, I have Raquel and loooove the material, hence me really wanting another one haha
09/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by Alegria
See, I have Raquel and loooove the material, hence me really wanting another one haha
I have the Bandit, the glorious Bandit! I say go for it! I'm saving up to start a VixSkin colony of my own
09/13/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
I have the Bandit, the glorious Bandit! I say go for it! I'm saving up to start a VixSkin colony of my own
Awww I don't think EF has the Bandit. I think they should carry all of the Vixskin line. That way we could use our points on them haha

I'm honestly unsure which one I'd choose if I could get any one for free but something about Johnny's shape looks so appealing to me! Kinda odd because I normally hate realistic shapes and colors...
09/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Alegria
Awww I don't think EF has the Bandit. I think they should carry all of the Vixskin line. That way we could use our points on them haha

I'm honestly unsure which one I'd choose if I could get any one for free but something about ... more
No, they don't, which is a shame. I'm with you--the entire VixSkin line is EF-worthy!

And yeah, I'm not one for realistic-looking toys either, but I most definitely make exceptions for all things VixSkin. They're made with such class... they don't look creepy AT ALL. It's almost like art.
09/13/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I am a fan of Lelo products. I also love FunFactory now. If I could have any of the above mentioned it would be... ALL of them! Lol but really I have been hearing a lot of good things about the Pure Wand.
09/13/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
I am a fan of Lelo products. I also love FunFactory now. If I could have any of the above mentioned it would be... ALL of them! Lol but really I have been hearing a lot of good things about the Pure Wand.
You're right; I should've included Fun Factory. They are a major player in the Quality Sex Toy League =P
09/13/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
No, they don't, which is a shame. I'm with you--the entire VixSkin line is EF-worthy!

And yeah, I'm not one for realistic-looking toys either, but I most definitely make exceptions for all things VixSkin. They're made with such ... more
Agreed. Maybe they're not creepy because the silicone is a solid color and doesn't have blue veins, etc. Or hair. Hair is the creepiest thing possible (on a dildo) to me, haha
09/13/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Alegria
Agreed. Maybe they're not creepy because the silicone is a solid color and doesn't have blue veins, etc. Or hair. Hair is the creepiest thing possible (on a dildo) to me, haha
Totally agree with you!!! The other day, I was browsing and almost cried when I saw this: Kong the KREEP!
09/14/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Oh geez -- a poll asking me to decide between my four of my top five favorite toys! Oh, agony of indecision . . .

I have the Pure Wand, VixSkin Johnny, the Ina, and the Siri. They are all fantastic toys, but they are all completely different from each other.

Out of all four of those toys, I probably use my Johnny the most. I also have the Raquel and absolutely love it, but Johnny's my favorite, favorite dildo. (@kck: I would totally love to have an entire colony of VixSkin cocks, too! They are AMAZING!)

I very rarely use my Pure Wand, but that is only because I have acquired so many toys in a fairly short length of time and I just forget to use it. (I keep it in a separate place from my other toys -- stored in its original jewelry-style box on my dresser and I just don't think to use it when making my selection). It was the Pure Wand that helped me to FINALLY discover my G-Spot. And it found it automatically, as though my G-spot was a magnet drawing the Pure Wand toward it.

And the LELO Ina, oh Ina . . . Ina can deliver knee-bucking orgasms like I have never experienced from any other vibrator. I love pressure on my clit and Ina definitely delivers this. The deep rumbly vibrations travel throughout the entire shaft and arm of the toy so that the vulva, vaginal entrance, clitoris, and G-spot are all deliciously stimulated. The vibration patterns are awesome, too. There is one pattern that cycles in what feels like a circular motion that makes it feel as if the toy is moving inside you.

The Siri is wonderful, too. It has rumbly vibrations that are similar to Ina.

Sorry if I just made deciding between these toys that much more difficult. I would hate to lose any of those four toys and I strongly believe all these incredible toys belong in everyone's toy box!

But . . . since you're twisting my arm about this, I think I would prioritize the VixSkin Johnny and the LELO Ina (if you are certain that you love clitoral pressure). And I would definitely keep the Pure Wand and the Siri on your wish list though and get them as soon as possible!

By the way, the Form 3 is definitely on MY wish list! I have the Form 2 and the vibrations on that thing are very strong. I am fascinated how the Form 3 is so thin and flexible -- and thus follows the form of your fingers. I think the the little nub on the underside of it would be great for clitoral stimulation. Since it is so thin, it should fit nicely between two partners' bodies during partner sex. I have had a terribly hard time finding a clit vibrator that works well for me during partner sex. Every vibe I've tried just gets in the way. So, I am pretty excited about the Form 3.

Just my $0.02!
09/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Oh geez -- a poll asking me to decide between my four of my top five favorite toys! Oh, agony of indecision . . .

I have the Pure Wand, VixSkin Johnny, the Ina, and the Siri. They are all fantastic toys, but they are all completely ... more
VixSkin FTW!!!

I'm serious about that colony. Damned serious.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
VixSkin FTW!!!

I'm serious about that colony. Damned serious.
Yep, I'm damned serious, too! Can you imagine us one day sitting in a room surrounded by shelves on every wall that are packed with realistic VixSkin penises? (Sadly, this actually sounds appealing to me . . . ).
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Oh geez -- a poll asking me to decide between my four of my top five favorite toys! Oh, agony of indecision . . .

I have the Pure Wand, VixSkin Johnny, the Ina, and the Siri. They are all fantastic toys, but they are all completely ... more
Awesome, this was the kind of answer I was looking for. Thanks so much for all the explanations and elaborations!
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
Totally agree with you!!! The other day, I was browsing and almost cried when I saw this: Kong the KREEP!
This was exactly what I was thinking of!!!

Yep. Way creepy.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Yep, I'm damned serious, too! Can you imagine us one day sitting in a room surrounded by shelves on every wall that are packed with realistic VixSkin penises? (Sadly, this actually sounds appealing to me . . . ).
Like a sex toy gallery? Or library, maybe? That does sound very appealing
09/14/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted for the PureWand - the last time I used this to help my wife gush - she laid there panting until she finally said - 'You are one talented man!'

Any toy that can get me that kind of compliment must have something going for it!

It's great for double duty as well! When she was done I had use the small end of the Pure Wand to give me a prostate massage with her signature BJ.
09/14/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Yep, I'm damned serious, too! Can you imagine us one day sitting in a room surrounded by shelves on every wall that are packed with realistic VixSkin penises? (Sadly, this actually sounds appealing to me . . . ).
What are you talking about?!

That. sounds. AMAZING.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I voted for the PureWand - the last time I used this to help my wife gush - she laid there panting until she finally said - 'You are one talented man!'

Any toy that can get me that kind of compliment must have something going for ... more
Wow sounds like ya'll have good times with it!

I'd be worried my boyfriend would slam it against my cervix. I guess there's a learning curve for everyone though...
09/14/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Alegria
Wow sounds like ya'll have good times with it!

I'd be worried my boyfriend would slam it against my cervix. I guess there's a learning curve for everyone though...
Oh, don't thrust with Pure Wand! Insert one end, let it touch your G-spot (this most likely will not be hard -- the Pure Wand seems to magically find mine on its own) and then have your boyfriend rock it from side to side. My husband calls this motion the "windshield washer" -- and it is astoundingly effective. Another movement he did that was effective was to simply let the wand sit in place with the non-inserted portion of the curve resting on the bed, while simply tapping the other end in a motion that he describes as "jigging for crappie" (a fishing term -- guys!). Another effective move is to make a circular motion. Of the three, I like the first two motions I described the best.

You shouldn't have a problem with it hitting your cervix if he does those motions. Thrusting in and out might not be a great idea though. The curve would actually make in-out thrusting a bit difficult.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I have the Pure Wand and I looove it. Great stimulation, excellent pressure, and i'm hoping to learn to squirt with it. Plus being made of metal, it'll last a reeeeaaaally long time.

Just don't thrust. You rock it side to side or up and down with it and it's really effective. Think of it as a gspot massager....
09/14/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Alegria
Wow sounds like ya'll have good times with it!

I'd be worried my boyfriend would slam it against my cervix. I guess there's a learning curve for everyone though...
I notice a lot of people talking about side-to-side motions with the Pure Wand. I've actually tried that a few times but it doesn't seem to work for my wife. But as the others have said, the shape of the Pure Wand makes the rocking motion a natural and pleasure able way to start out.

I actually do thrust the Pure Wand - but very carefully and in relatively short strokes. People who have one know that you can cause discomfort if you go too deeply. Through experience I've learned just how far in-to-out she likes.

Sometimes I do it in such a way as to mimic a vibrator! Very short - fast strokes - well as fast as my hands can go! She loves it.

I'm seriously considering trying the Eleven - she loves the Pure Wand so much - I just wonder if the ripples on the shaft of the Eleven would be too much - it's a lot of money to spend if it doesn't work out!

Any thoughts?
09/14/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I notice a lot of people talking about side-to-side motions with the Pure Wand. I've actually tried that a few times but it doesn't seem to work for my wife. But as the others have said, the shape of the Pure Wand makes the rocking motion a ... more
I actually bought the Eleven and have found it to be disappointing. I can't feel the ripples and because of the shape there's no extreme pressure on my gspot. The S shape is something I find to work against me as to push it down to get the pressure, I lose gripe or the bed is there and it can't go down, not to mention I don't have uberly long arms. I think it depends on the person, might be better if someone else holds and uses the toy, but i was sadly disappointed on my end. Now I just don't know what to do with the thing, I could maybe sterilize it and resell it to a friend or so as I have done with some of my silicone toys, but I haven't quite yet decided....

I was lucky though, I didn't pay the full price and had free shipping on it, so it's not like I'm out a HUGE amount of money. But again, it all depends on the body type using it, I was just very unlucky.
09/14/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Oh, don't thrust with Pure Wand! Insert one end, let it touch your G-spot (this most likely will not be hard -- the Pure Wand seems to magically find mine on its own) and then have your boyfriend rock it from side to side. My husband calls this ... more
Yeah, um no thrusting with the Pure Wand. Rocking motions instead.
09/14/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
I actually bought the Eleven and have found it to be disappointing. I can't feel the ripples and because of the shape there's no extreme pressure on my gspot. The S shape is something I find to work against me as to push it down to get the ... more
See that worries me. I want the Eleven sooooo bad, but I would be so upset if I spent that much money and it didn't work out
09/14/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
I actually bought the Eleven and have found it to be disappointing. I can't feel the ripples and because of the shape there's no extreme pressure on my gspot. The S shape is something I find to work against me as to push it down to get the ... more
Goth, I would be willing to consider buying it - if you're interested send me a message. Thanks, Gunsmoke
09/14/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
For this girl,no one toy does it all. So much also depends on my mood, tiredness and time. With that said, I will also mention the NJoy Pure Wand, yes there is a learning curve but it is an awesome toy for me. The Pure Wand is the toy that enabled be to ejaculate for the first time and still does frequently. I do not use the Pure Wand as a thrusting toy nor am I comfortable with a partner being the driver. I have a shallow cervix and I don't want to feel as if I am getting impaled. Both the Pure Wand and the Eleven both seem to dive for my g spot giving awesome pleasure!
I love Lelo toys, their motors are top notch, relatively quiet and consistently perform for me.
VixSkin dils, I think I have about, seven, all feel and look so sexy and they are easy to clean. Mine are harness compatible, comfortable and feel great in a harness, both for the receiver as well as the giver. Variety helps as I have various shapes and sizes; realistic to kinda nondescript.
Also my b/f uses the Pure Wand as well, sometimes during masturbation or as prep for being pegged.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Goth, I would be willing to consider buying it - if you're interested send me a message. Thanks, Gunsmoke
Message sent.

@Liz2: i want to learn to squirt so bad. I get that feeling from the Pure Wand, the needing to pee feeling, but so far, still nothing. Perhaps I need to try other positions. What position works best for you?
09/14/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Message sent.

@Liz2: i want to learn to squirt so bad. I get that feeling from the Pure Wand, the needing to pee feeling, but so far, still nothing. Perhaps I need to try other positions. What position works best for you?
Once you feel that sensation, you have to keep rubbing that same spot. For me I have to kind of hook around my pubic bone and once I get the spot it doesn't take long.
09/14/2010