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Help me decide which one I want next? Which would you get? NJoy/LELO/Jimmyjane/Vi xSkin

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Contributor: Envy Envy
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Originally posted by SydVicious
Once you feel that sensation, you have to keep rubbing that same spot. For me I have to kind of hook around my pubic bone and once I get the spot it doesn't take long.
Same here, I have to hook around the bone as well. No other toy I have has that great of a curve to be able to hit the spot, so extremely curved toys are <3 to me. I just wonder if I should try it on my knees or something rather than on my back like I always do.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Envy
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@Liz2: i want to learn to squirt so bad. I get that feeling from the Pure Wand, the needing to pee feeling, but so far, still nothing. Perhaps I need to try other positions. What position works best for you?
I lie on my back and do switch from end to end of the Pure Wand; smaller to larger end and back again. I knda get some rhythm going.....and pee first and forget about the pee feeling.
It might work on your knees, but I find that position too uncomfortable for me.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
LELO is where it's at.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
LELO is where it's at.
I'm always confident I'll get a quality toy when I get a LELO =)
09/14/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
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Originally posted by Liz2
I lie on my back and do switch from end to end of the Pure Wand; smaller to larger end and back again. I knda get some rhythm going.....and pee first and forget about the pee feeling.
It might work on your knees, but I find that position too ... more
I agree with Liz. Pee before you start and that will enable you to relax a bit more when the time comes. Put a towel down so you arn't worried. The relaxation is key.

On your knees works great too, but on my back is more comfortable, and I have had greater success.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Envy
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@Liz2: i want to learn to squirt so bad. I get that feeling from the Pure Wand, the needing to pee feeling, but so far, still nothing. Perhaps I need to try other positions. What position works best for you?
The key for you might be not worrying about it if you do pee. If you hold back to make sure you don't pee, squirting is less likely to happen. You can try on the edge of the bathtub so that it doesn't matter even if it is pee.

I like to be propped up - not on my back - and with my knees bent and at least one of them near my chest.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Having at least one of each of these, I vote for Vixskin hands down.
09/14/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It depends on what you want to do. VixSkin is an incredibly realistic dildo, the Pure Wand is great for focussed pressure and smooth toy G-spot stimulation, and the Lelos are great vibrators.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by ScottA
It depends on what you want to do. VixSkin is an incredibly realistic dildo, the Pure Wand is great for focussed pressure and smooth toy G-spot stimulation, and the Lelos are great vibrators.
Agreed that VixSkin is incredible but the head on Raquel wasn't quite enough to give me the g-spot stimulation I needed so I was hoping for some more insight to the Pure Wand and overall opinions from everyone on everything.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I own Siri and Johnny, and Siri is the one I'd keep if I had to choose only one (and what a horrible thought!)
09/14/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Liz2
I lie on my back and do switch from end to end of the Pure Wand; smaller to larger end and back again. I knda get some rhythm going.....and pee first and forget about the pee feeling.
It might work on your knees, but I find that position too ... more
so how do we know if we are peeing or squirting? i have seen a thread somewhere about this before, and when i get that sensation i just keep going. not sure though, i am pretty sure i have squirted before, but maybe i havent...
09/14/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
so how do we know if we are peeing or squirting? i have seen a thread somewhere about this before, and when i get that sensation i just keep going. not sure though, i am pretty sure i have squirted before, but maybe i havent...
I've wondered this myself. I think one way to tell is by going to the bathroom before you start playing.
09/14/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Alegria
I've wondered this myself. I think one way to tell is by going to the bathroom before you start playing.
Give it a sniff - that'll tell you. F.E. doesn't smell like urine at all.
09/15/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by ScottA
Give it a sniff - that'll tell you. F.E. doesn't smell like urine at all.
True. It does have a smell of its own (but it's not a urine smell). It's also clear, not yellow.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by kck
True. It does have a smell of its own (but it's not a urine smell). It's also clear, not yellow.
But by that point it's already too late and you may have peed yourself haha

I have done the sniff test once. I've only squirted twice, ever. No peeing yet either so I guess I'm doing pretty good =D

I'm still looking for that magic toy that'll make me gush; hence one major reason I'm considering the Pure Wand.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Me too, wish I could squirt. I pee before toying, but... my bladder always seems to fill quickly as I pee a lot after toying as well.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
so how do we know if we are peeing or squirting? i have seen a thread somewhere about this before, and when i get that sensation i just keep going. not sure though, i am pretty sure i have squirted before, but maybe i havent...
The ejaculate from squirting is colorless, no odor and feels like a light lube. It feels like you are going to flood the bed but it really isn't all that much volume.But any liquid in bed feels like a lot. Pee first, make sure you are hydrated...coffee, tea and alcohol don't count for hydration. A towel or better yet a throe relieves anxiety about "wetting the bed". Good luck!!!
09/15/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
I voted Lelo because they vibrate. If you don't need something that vibrates, then I say go for the Pure Wand.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Envy
Me too, wish I could squirt. I pee before toying, but... my bladder always seems to fill quickly as I pee a lot after toying as well.
Honestly i think the porn on 'ejaculation' has exaggerated what is possible for most women. My wife calls her experience 'gushing' - because its more of a copious rush of lubrication than a male-esque ejaculation.

The mental picture she gets is that she's going to soak the bed. What actually happens depends on position. If she's on her back - most stays inside until we're done and she gets up - with the feeling of it running down her legs. Sounds a little gross - but remember she's just had a great series of orgasms and isn't about to little wetness ruin her glow.

If she's on top - cowgirl - the gushing will run down over me - eventually ending on our Liberator Throe - we never make love without it.

when I read these posts - I think many women are doing just fine - but they may be expecting too much. Just a thought!
09/15/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by buzzvibe
I voted Lelo because they vibrate. If you don't need something that vibrates, then I say go for the Pure Wand.
That's a good way to break it down =). I'm honestly not sure what's more important to me right now haha
09/15/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Honestly i think the porn on 'ejaculation' has exaggerated what is possible for most women. My wife calls her experience 'gushing' - because its more of a copious rush of lubrication than a male-esque ejaculation.

The mental ... more
I seriously want a Throe too! Does it make a good blanket or it mostly for sexy time?
09/15/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Alegria
I seriously want a Throe too! Does it make a good blanket or it mostly for sexy time?
Haven't tried if for a blanket. One side is satin-like and feels nice and cool for hat days. The other side has the traditional fabric feel that we use most of the time. After we're done we just fold it up and put it aside - generally we wash it once a week.

There are better blankets out there - but it's good for it's intended purpose.
09/15/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The Throes will keep you warm, but there is an odd crinklyness about them that keeps it from being an ideal blanket.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Thanks Gunsmoke and ScottA. I've always wondered about it.

And thanks to everyone else for their input! It helped me quite a bit =) So I think I've decided to get the LELO Ina first. Have to replace my recently damaged Gigi.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Alegria
Thanks Gunsmoke and ScottA. I've always wondered about it.

And thanks to everyone else for their input! It helped me quite a bit =) So I think I've decided to get the LELO Ina first. Have to replace my recently damaged Gigi.
Oh, so sorry about your Gigi! I hope you love your new Ina, though. Definitely report back and let us know how it works for you! I love mine so much . . . What color are you getting?
09/21/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Oh, so sorry about your Gigi! I hope you love your new Ina, though. Definitely report back and let us know how it works for you! I love mine so much . . . What color are you getting?
I'm deciding between green and purple. Leaning towards purple =)
09/21/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
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Originally posted by Alegria
I'm deciding between green and purple. Leaning towards purple =)
Congrats on your choice. I'd have picked green because, well, since when do you see a lot of green toys around?
09/21/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by Envy
Congrats on your choice. I'd have picked green because, well, since when do you see a lot of green toys around?
Green is a kick-ass color! I'd love to see more toys available in that option
09/21/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Haha the green is awesome but for some reason the purple just looks more attractive to me. Although, I always thought if I got the Liv I'd get it in green.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Alegria
I'm deciding between green and purple. Leaning towards purple =)
I bought it in purple myself because I LOVE the contrast between the deep color and the white handle!

If I could do it over, I would probably get the orange because the Ina is the only style that LELO makes in orange. I bought the Liv in green.

But if you don't plan on buying more LELO toys (at the time I didn't know I was going to be buying several others from that line, like the Siri), then I most definitely understand the attraction to purple. It IS a such nice shade of purple and so pretty!

I hope you love yours!
09/25/2010