external stimulation only

For me it's all about thrusting and stretching. Once I'm warmed up, I want it fast and deep. My wife is all about stretching.

I think it’s a combination of thrusting, grinding and stretching.... added to the tabooness of analytics

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My wife considers anal sex the ultimate in intimacy - savoring a slight stretch (I'm not girthy). After adapting to my presence she'll give me the green light to thrust. Early on it was slow and easy, but she can now orgasm from fast-paced thrusting. She also occasionally enjoys being on top - when she controls the depth and pace she will often squirt rather copiously - quite fun actually!

As for me - I like the stretch. Although I haven't been fisted, she does get all her fingers up to the knuckles. Once she has me ready she will either with the Njoy Eleven or put on a harness. I love it any way she chooses