The New Intimacy

For those ladies who allow anal penetration as a regular part of your sex life, how much do you enjoy this activity?

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Contributor: KittiezToyz KittiezToyz
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Does he like any anal play at all? That would be the first step. Can't get to 3nd base or a home run without reaching 1st and then 2nd base.
No he doesn't like it at all for himself. He's more than willing to give me a go.
11/25/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by KittiezToyz
No he doesn't like it at all for himself. He's more than willing to give me a go.
If/when you are giving him oral, ask permission to try something new and exciting. Lube a finger and massage his prostate while giving him oral. Many men find this super simulating. Be sure it is a finger with a very trimmed nail. If he likes that, it's his introduction to anal pleasure. If he enjoys it and wants it more often, then next step might be prostate massage with butt plugs (start small) or link. Do some research on prostate massage to get to 2nd base.

We are getting off topic on this thread. perhaps pm some of the members for advice. There are members that are into pegging here.
11/26/2014
Contributor: KittiezToyz KittiezToyz
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
If/when you are giving him oral, ask permission to try something new and exciting. Lube a finger and massage his prostate while giving him oral. Many men find this super simulating. Be sure it is a finger with a very trimmed nail. If he likes that, ... more
OH&W I have made several attempts, verbally and non. I'm not looking for any advice, thanks though.
11/26/2014
Contributor: Momo girl Momo girl
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Originally posted by RonLee
I absolutely concur about finding the right person to do it with. So many factors enter into that of course. Trust being paramount to any sexual relationship but even more so with anal sex. Your partner needs to have the self control to not only ... more
Mwow this was great to hear. I have grown to love anal. I love everything about this erotic act. I've used my fingers on my partner to make him cum. He seems to love it and even asked me to continue to fuck his ass with my fingers but I would like to use a toy.I don't think he'll let me. Any suggestions ?
05/29/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Momo girl
Mwow this was great to hear. I have grown to love anal. I love everything about this erotic act. I've used my fingers on my partner to make him cum. He seems to love it and even asked me to continue to fuck his ass with my fingers but I would ... more
If he likes the fingers, suggest a very small dildo or something similar. Offer to give him so oral at the same time. A double treat ! btdt and more than once
05/30/2016
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
I enjoy it for variety, but will always prefer vaginal. Anal isn't typically something I enjoy as a solo act. So, I need a lot going on to obliterate my senses. I prefer some sort of double play going on. Whether it be plug, dildo, or what have you. That's when I get my full enjoyment
05/30/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
If he likes the fingers, suggest a very small dildo or something similar. Offer to give him so oral at the same time. A double treat ! btdt and more than once
Will second OH&W, oral w/ a toy is super enjoyable as a guy.

Also, shared this thread with my girlfriend as was curious how she'd respond, she had indicated enjoying it previously; however, her comment was when she's in the mood and has been warmed up to it that she finds it very enjoyable. That it's at least as good as vaginal sex but different so hard to compare.
05/31/2016
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
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Originally posted by Momo girl
Mwow this was great to hear. I have grown to love anal. I love everything about this erotic act. I've used my fingers on my partner to make him cum. He seems to love it and even asked me to continue to fuck his ass with my fingers but I would ... more
OH&W has the right idea. Start with oral and finger and then oral and a toy. If you're both really lucky you may be shopping for a strap-on at some point. That was the progression with my wife and I and it's been a great adventure for both of us.
06/06/2016
Contributor: LuvMyMan LuvMyMan
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Wow...I thought I was an anal gal, but 95% vs 5%? She has me beat by a mile. We still are about 50:50. Maybe 60% anal, 40% vaginal on a "major tush weekend". Our play sessions usually involve both (as well as oral and clit play), so ... more
Oh WOW That's crazy amazing! I do anal more as an addition and/or alternative. I am multiorgasmic vaginally so of course it is my go to, but anal stimulation is wonderful to add for a different feeling and extra boost. As for anal penetration the four of you - WOW! I can't imagine 95-5 and 60-40 much less 50-50. I do not know how you all manage that. I wouldn't be able to walk correctly after that much. How is that possible? Have you all build up a tolerance??? Resistance??? Not sure how to word that. I do enjoy anal immensely but - WOW! You all blow my mind!
04/20/2024
Contributor: nikywolfe nikywolfe
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Originally posted by Bignuf
One of our wonderful EF "moderators" brought up a point about many woman here saying "Anal is okay, but sure not as good as vaginal sex" or other such statements. I think I have seen a lot of real anal enthusiasts here. Help us ... more
It feels just as good but I enjoy it most as DP. By that I mean vibrator in one and dick in the other. My man enjoys the vib as well. However to get started I need quite a bit of foreplay to open up and in some cases he is already soft and cant get it in (ED issues) so its rare. Mentally it is such a turn on to know he's giving it to my a@@. I also enjoy when he plays with a plug or finger. I'd tell anyone to try it a few times, not just once cause the first time it will hurt till you get the hang of it. I was one who was totally against it for years than when my hormones went crazy I tried it and ended up enjoying it.
04/25/2024