Virginity is a state of mind, not a physical status. If a person feels that anal sex isn't virginity-seizing, then it's not. If a person feels that vaginal sex isn't virginity-seizing, then it's not as well.

As a child, I was anally violated, and still considered myself a virgin until I had sex with my first partner (who was female), despite there being no penetration. less

Oh my! Bless you're heart. I was in a similar situation at 15, but it was not stolen anally. Still any kind of rape (or molestation which ever one happens.) is traumatic and I'm sorry you went through that. I think you were right to still be a virgin. You were. You didn't ask for that to happen. You know, I don't count my rapist on my "list of sex partners." Once my partner had brought up how many we'd slept with and it hit me that my number was wrong. It was actually one more than I'd ever counted and it was very upsetting to have to add him to my list. My partner told me it doesn't count. He said women like us should not HAVE to count it whether it's in your type of situation or mine (adding one more to my list when I wasn't willing.) I agreed with him and I've never counted my rapist as a sex partner. Most people would totally shit on me and say it's wrong, I should count him, but I will never. I don't think you should count that as taking your virginity. I've always felt that you are a virgin until you've had PIV penetration and/or had your hymen broken whichever comes first. Now if you have anal sex, but never vaginally, you're still a virgin vaginally. If you've only had oral sex, but no other types, your still a virgin except for your mouth or genitals if you were recieving. Anyways, you get the pic. You were still a virgin. It didn't change because the person had stolen it anally. I don't think any person should ever have to count it in any way when it was taken, violated, etc. I really feel that way. less