I guess I have been lucky that I have never bled from anal...and it's always been consensual. I'm sorry to hear of all the stories where people have had bad experiences. :-( I can understand how being forced to participate in it might make you never want to try it again. Sending thoughts of healing your way. ()
Have you ever bled due to anal sex?
04/27/2012
sometimes for bigger stuff theres a little blood... but than again what do except after getting ass fisted?
04/27/2012
I'm sorry to hear that, hon!
I still bleed from anal play. Mostly, it's because my guy is pretty big. We take it slow and use a lot of lube. But, I still end up getting a tear almost every time.
I still bleed from anal play. Mostly, it's because my guy is pretty big. We take it slow and use a lot of lube. But, I still end up getting a tear almost every time.
04/27/2012
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It happens from time to time!
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
08/17/2012
I have anal sex all the time but I have never bled from it.
08/19/2012
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No, and thank goodness!
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
08/24/2012
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GET CHECKED OUT. Could be anal fissure or hemorrhoids. DO admit to the doctor you do anal play.....it is NOT that rare, really. It will help him or her know what to look for and maybe even offer some USEFUL advice. Bleeding should never be ignored.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
08/24/2012
Luckily, no. I am always very careful and we go slow when we do.
08/28/2012
I have bled, and from consensual anal. Sometimes it gets a little rough or we don't prep enough - still feels good.
08/28/2012
It's only happened to me once, and it was scary, but stopped after a day.
08/28/2012
I've had bleeding for various times but it was never a big issue. But one time I had it bad. I was using a fuck machine and really in the throws of passion (I had it running full throttle) and didn't notice I tore. I know it looked worse than it was because the blood sprayed around but when I dismounted the dildo and turned around it looked like 1 Guy + 1 Cup. I was terrified.
I do have an anal fissure. I've had it for over a year now even though I remained chaste for 6 months. It's not painful. Most of the time I don't even know it's there. But now I'm on nytro glycerine cream. Hopefully it will clear this thing up once and for all.
As for continuing anal? I love it too much to quit. I recently ordered a new toy and it's going to be hard to resist riding it for a while. When I finally get to I'm going to make sure I take things super easy.
I do have an anal fissure. I've had it for over a year now even though I remained chaste for 6 months. It's not painful. Most of the time I don't even know it's there. But now I'm on nytro glycerine cream. Hopefully it will clear this thing up once and for all.
As for continuing anal? I love it too much to quit. I recently ordered a new toy and it's going to be hard to resist riding it for a while. When I finally get to I'm going to make sure I take things super easy.
09/01/2012
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It is possible that you have veins very close to the surface of your intestinal walls and even some internal hemorrhoids that are irritated by being brushed up against. My Doc has assured me that as long as the blood isn't tarry and black it is probably a perfectly natural occurrence.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
09/01/2012
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I cant imagine something like that being forced, so sorry that happened to you
Originally posted by
Antipova
(possible trigger warning)
There's not an option for my experience, which is "never for consensual anal." The only time I've ever bled was not similar to what you described (warmed up, lubed, consenting). Perhaps mine was ... more
There's not an option for my experience, which is "never for consensual anal." The only time I've ever bled was not similar to what you described (warmed up, lubed, consenting). Perhaps mine was ... more
(possible trigger warning)
There's not an option for my experience, which is "never for consensual anal." The only time I've ever bled was not similar to what you described (warmed up, lubed, consenting). Perhaps mine was worse than you describe, too, it took several weeks' treatment with ointment to stop bleeding.
Dear everybody---no means no. Always. less
There's not an option for my experience, which is "never for consensual anal." The only time I've ever bled was not similar to what you described (warmed up, lubed, consenting). Perhaps mine was worse than you describe, too, it took several weeks' treatment with ointment to stop bleeding.
Dear everybody---no means no. Always. less
09/01/2012
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AHH! That sounds really scary, and I probably would have passed out from panic.
Originally posted by
Istanbull
I've had bleeding for various times but it was never a big issue. But one time I had it bad. I was using a fuck machine and really in the throws of passion (I had it running full throttle) and didn't notice I tore. I know it looked worse than
...
more
I've had bleeding for various times but it was never a big issue. But one time I had it bad. I was using a fuck machine and really in the throws of passion (I had it running full throttle) and didn't notice I tore. I know it looked worse than it was because the blood sprayed around but when I dismounted the dildo and turned around it looked like 1 Guy + 1 Cup. I was terrified.
I do have an anal fissure. I've had it for over a year now even though I remained chaste for 6 months. It's not painful. Most of the time I don't even know it's there. But now I'm on nytro glycerine cream. Hopefully it will clear this thing up once and for all.
As for continuing anal? I love it too much to quit. I recently ordered a new toy and it's going to be hard to resist riding it for a while. When I finally get to I'm going to make sure I take things super easy. less
I do have an anal fissure. I've had it for over a year now even though I remained chaste for 6 months. It's not painful. Most of the time I don't even know it's there. But now I'm on nytro glycerine cream. Hopefully it will clear this thing up once and for all.
As for continuing anal? I love it too much to quit. I recently ordered a new toy and it's going to be hard to resist riding it for a while. When I finally get to I'm going to make sure I take things super easy. less
10/07/2012
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Sad that I never got a reply to this.
Originally posted by
mistressg
I actually just found this post because of an incident I had a moment ago. I've recently found myself wanting to get more into anal play, and considering anal sex with my current partner.
The other night we had sex, reverse cowgirl. He ... more
The other night we had sex, reverse cowgirl. He ... more
I actually just found this post because of an incident I had a moment ago. I've recently found myself wanting to get more into anal play, and considering anal sex with my current partner.
The other night we had sex, reverse cowgirl. He put in a finger or two, and even moved them in and out and it felt fine for me. Today, I tried practicing with my champlette again and was playing with a bullet on my clit and it all felt really good. I ended up pushing the champlette a little bit further, then a little bit further, until I realized the whole thing was inserted to the base! I was surprised, and it didn't hurt at all. In fact, I came in less than a minute. I used a lot of lube, but maybe should have used a little bit more (I would like to invest in a more anal-friendly thicker lube). I could even move the dildo in and out without feeling any pain. However, once play time was over, and I took out the dildo and set it down to remove the condom I had put over it I noticed a tiny red spot on the tip of the condom. I got nervous! When I took the condom off, and wiped myself off I noticed a very tiny bit or red. Being [pretty new to anal play, this was and is disconcerting. When I went to the bathroom after, I noticed that there was some red and lube in my stool. It's not like there was blood everywhere, not even like dripping or anything, but more like spotting just tiny bits. Still. I'm worried! Should I hold off on anal play for a while? What could go wrong if I try anal with my partner tonight? less
The other night we had sex, reverse cowgirl. He put in a finger or two, and even moved them in and out and it felt fine for me. Today, I tried practicing with my champlette again and was playing with a bullet on my clit and it all felt really good. I ended up pushing the champlette a little bit further, then a little bit further, until I realized the whole thing was inserted to the base! I was surprised, and it didn't hurt at all. In fact, I came in less than a minute. I used a lot of lube, but maybe should have used a little bit more (I would like to invest in a more anal-friendly thicker lube). I could even move the dildo in and out without feeling any pain. However, once play time was over, and I took out the dildo and set it down to remove the condom I had put over it I noticed a tiny red spot on the tip of the condom. I got nervous! When I took the condom off, and wiped myself off I noticed a very tiny bit or red. Being [pretty new to anal play, this was and is disconcerting. When I went to the bathroom after, I noticed that there was some red and lube in my stool. It's not like there was blood everywhere, not even like dripping or anything, but more like spotting just tiny bits. Still. I'm worried! Should I hold off on anal play for a while? What could go wrong if I try anal with my partner tonight? less
10/07/2012
I had it a few times after a rough play night. However it was really minor caused by really big toys like the Randy which has a tendency to absorb all the lube... However ScottA mentioned it heals fast
10/08/2012
Anal tissue is quite delicate. You can get an anal fissure (a very small tear) even with warm up. I have had this happen to me. If it is small and you barely notice it. And you do not notice it the next day when you go to the bathroom (or in 2 days) it is not a problem. Obviously it is best not to have this, but it is not an issue. Actually a large number of people get anal fissures from just normal day to day life (bowel movements typically).
So nothing really to worry about. Just try going a little bit slower and that may help.
So nothing really to worry about. Just try going a little bit slower and that may help.
11/02/2012
Quote:
Im sure a little bleeding is common back there but i have never had this happen before.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
11/03/2012
Quote:
I almost always bleed a little
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe
...
more
So my boy and I always always use lots of lube when he goes back there, and I'm always quite turned on and already opened up from foreplay before he goes there. But today for about the 4th time in our 10 months of anal play (I'll say maybe about 10% of our anal sessions) I've had a bit of bleeding. Kind of like spotting when on my period. Not incredibly light, but enough to make you go...
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
Has this ever happened to you? Any ideas why exactly this would be happening? Any potential risks involved?
For the record, as I said, we DO use plenty of lube.
We ARE fluid bonded, and we don't use condoms.
We DO play rough back there sometimes. So I'm sure tearing can occur but... it's still a little unnerving. less
11/05/2012
It's a combination of being too tight and not enough lube.
11/08/2012
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