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For those who have anal partner sex, what is the frequency based on vaginal sex.

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Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
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Originally posted by pineapplekatie
I agree. I dated a guy once where for around 8 months it was strictly anal, around seven times a day.
Marry me?
03/10/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
1:4 maybe
03/14/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
Anal (giving or receiving) happens in about 20% of the frequency of vaginal.
05/01/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
hmmm, it really just happens. One weekend, we did anal twice and vaginal twice. It has not been several weeks since we have done anal...I think it is time to change that!
05/05/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I would say it is close to 50/50 or 60/40. It really just happens, but my partner really enjoys it, so it happens quite regularly. I have never had exclusively anal sex, but very often we go from vaginal to anal in the same session.
05/06/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
Vaginal usually leads to anal or oral for me. We sometimes only do anal but rarely only vaginal.
06/06/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I are working our way up to anal sex, but we usually incorporate some form of butt play every time we have sex.
06/06/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
It depends. Sometimes it's 1 in 6ish, but lately we haven't had anal sex in a month or two. I just haven't been feelin' it. I think we'll pick it up again soon, though
06/20/2011
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
4:1 ratio.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
I'd say 1:6, because it's something I feel I have to prepare for, as well as desire.
05/29/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Depending on how one's partner is equipped, anal may be the only game in town.
05/29/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
It's about half & half for my husband and me, but we go in phases. If we're trying out a lot of new toys it tends to be more because we will DP, toy and him. Yum.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Liz2
Anal partner sex is an additional source of sexual satisfaction beyond vaginal intercourse so how often do you engage in anal partner sex?
You don't have an "Other" and your poll does not give us the option we need. We have anal play at least every time we have vaginal play. On top of that, we tend to have anal play alone. In my case, honestly, I have probably 1 1/2 anal penetration sex sessions for every vaginal sex session. Sometimes more, sometimes less, but when we "counted", he is indeed in my rear end more frequently then my front end and while I love all kinds of sex, I am fine with it this way. My anal orgasms are an 11 on a scale of one to ten.
06/02/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyShay
I didn't vote since I have anal sex just as often, if not more often than vaginal sex.
Glad I am not alone.
06/02/2013
Contributor: CE CE
I'm not sure how to vote because rarely is a session singly focused. If we're talking about intercourse, its pretty rare that we ONLY have vaginal. More than that we will play with her first and then we'll have anal sex. And much more than that we will start with some vaginal and then switch to anal where I will finish inside her. So maybe 90% of the time we have intercourse, anal is involved.

Of course there are other times we have only oral, or manual or toy fun as well.
06/04/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When this thread was posted we did not engage in anal sex at all - now we do it more than PIV - go figure!
06/11/2013