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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I guess toenails would be included.
Now that's an interesting turn. Toes and anal play? That's a new one for me.
11/03/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
Now that's an interesting turn. Toes and anal play? That's a new one for me.
Really never seen or heard of that?
11/03/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I like fingers for early anal - my wife does not - so we accommodate each other's preferences.
11/06/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I like fingers for early anal - my wife does not - so we accommodate each other's preferences.
Sounds cool. How do you go with fingernails?
11/08/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Really never seen or heard of that?
Only in porn, but then again, porn isn't a necessarily representative of what consenting people do in real life. I mean I've never met a male or female who has answered the door naked and banged the pizza delivery (a complete stranger) guy because she didn't have any money to pay for the pizza. You might know someone who might have done that Toy Guy but I don't.

I also don't know anyone who can take a larger penis, penis shaped toy or phallus in the ass without any prep before hand, yet this seems to happen all the time in the "movies".
11/09/2015
Contributor: magicmac magicmac
Usually I start out with fingers before anal sex.
01/05/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
Only in porn, but then again, porn isn't a necessarily representative of what consenting people do in real life. I mean I've never met a male or female who has answered the door naked and banged the pizza delivery (a complete stranger) guy ... more
Well I have a question as far as the movies go. Are the males and females half cracked out of their minds when they are having sex? My wife and i enjoy watching them but do they really last that long at 1 time?
01/05/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
Well I have a question as far as the movies go. Are the males and females half cracked out of their minds when they are having sex? My wife and i enjoy watching them but do they really last that long at 1 time?
Lol. So true.
01/08/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Sounds cool. How do you go with fingernails?
Sorry I didn't see your note before. For what its worth my fingernails are nearly non-existent - I've always kept them very short. My wife's nails a relatively small for a woman - but long enough to paintable - and long enough to be a pain in the ass if she's not careful!
02/27/2017
Contributor: Devz Devz
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Sorry I didn't see your note before. For what its worth my fingernails are nearly non-existent - I've always kept them very short. My wife's nails a relatively small for a woman - but long enough to paintable - and long enough to be a ... more
hihi pain in the ass

I don't mind poking around or be poked. Do mind the fingernail
02/27/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Devz
hihi pain in the ass

I don't mind poking around or be poked. Do mind the fingernail
Yeah, strange, how sexier women have longer nails.
03/03/2017
Contributor: Jmo2280 Jmo2280
Love it all, mouth, fingers, toys!!
03/15/2017
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
I don't like fingers being involved in anal play.
03/20/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Jmo2280
Love it all, mouth, fingers, toys!!
So you done toes too?
04/20/2017
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
I always try to keep my nails trimmed/well filed as anal fingers during sex w/ my partner is something we both enjoy. I'm very rarely on the receiving end but can definitely add something extra... just harder to really hit my p-spot while she fingers me during sex; however, my fingering her is usually warm up to some more anal play/sex.
04/21/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Yes, I like fingers being used during anal play but preferably not my own.
05/31/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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I find nothing wrong with using fingers during anal play. It can turn on the mood for some "bigger pleasure"
11/03/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
As long as it's clean back there Shower first and make sure to clean every nook and ........
11/03/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Cleanliness is most important.
10/15/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Cleanliness is most important.
Hygiene is number one priority, especially when you later plan on switching between the orifices - just DON'T. Anal and vaginal floras don't mix together very well and may cause discomfort, to say the least. A common scenario would be classical intercourse (vagina+penis) with anal fingering, moving on later to a switch - anal penetration with vaginal fingering. In multiple moments of that switch at least an antibacterial tissue should be involved, a quick rinse is better, and a separate condom would be the best.
10/15/2018
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Hmmm
12/19/2018
Contributor: kissHIGH kissHIGH
Should be an interesting combination!
02/14/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by kissHIGH
Should be an interesting combination!
Dear kissHIGH, fingers in anal can come not as a part of a combination, but rather as an entree. Since any anal scene requires A LOT of warm-up, fingers are the best starting point before moving on to anything girthier.
02/19/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
Dear kissHIGH, fingers in anal can come not as a part of a combination, but rather as an entree. Since any anal scene requires A LOT of warm-up, fingers are the best starting point before moving on to anything girthier.
This is absolutely true. A finger massage is the best way to stimulate and relax the exterior anal sphincter - and short of a lube shooter the best way to get the lube inside and past the secondary sphincter.

From there a second finger may or may not be the best choice. My wife much prefers a smallish (1.25") vibrating silicone butt plug. The vibrations are important for helping relax things.

We may go on from there to vaginal play and some g-spot gushing because the plug adds upward pressure on anything inserted vaginally - including yours truly.

If we are going to progress to full on anal penetration then I will work the plug in-and-out - reapplying lube frequently - until I am confident that she is relaxed enough for penetration by me. Of course I check with her to confirm her readiness.
02/22/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is absolutely true. A finger massage is the best way to stimulate and relax the exterior anal sphincter - and short of a lube shooter the best way to get the lube inside and past the secondary sphincter.

From there a second finger may or ... more
All wonderful points made by Gunsmoke here.

Although I do have one little note - before progressing to full anal penetration, working it with a plug might not be the best and the most comfortable way. Plugs are not meant for thrusting - at least the majority of them - so they're often awkward to hold on to during the thrusting motion, and the gradual size-up/size-down with the neck might prove ineffective after a couple of thrusts.

My bet is anal probes - much more convenient for thrusting. I especially love those probes that are shaped like anal beads, but with no spaces between the beads. Magnificent for a warm-up!
02/26/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
All wonderful points made by Gunsmoke here.

Although I do have one little note - before progressing to full anal penetration, working it with a plug might not be the best and the most comfortable way. Plugs are not meant for thrusting - at ... more
GingerAnn is right - butt plugs can be awkward - however, we use the Tantus B-Bomb which is made with a very smooth silicone finish and has a hole in it for inserting a vibe. I use a very inexpensive 'pencil' type vibe that uses 2-AA batteries and is about 6" long. The part that extends away from the plug makes a great handle!

You are also correct that tapered dildos or vibrators are great choices - and for anal play slippery smooth silicone is preferable to the matte finish options that have too much drag - even when copious amounts of lube are used.
02/28/2019
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Everything in moderation.
03/17/2019
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
My fiancee has always loved her anus massaged. Many, many times she'll position her butt while to make her anus easily accessible to me. It's her way to telling me that she wants her anus massaged. I have absolutely no problem massaging her anus.

My fiancee experiences explosive orgasms after a lot of foreplay, and a lot of finger massaging her clit. When she sexual tension has risen to the point that she's thrusting her hips into me, I know she wants to cum right now. That's when I'll lick her clit with a well lubricated finger inside of her butt as far as I can get it inside of her butt and another finger massaging the inner ridges of her vagina. He orgasms are so intensive that it takes minutes of her to recover. She has a mystical glow emanating from her beautiful face after each intensive orgasm.
12/29/2019