Can men enjoy anal and still be heterosexual?

Contributor: BP addictive BP addictive
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
YES!
You've made the right choice, BP, and you will never look back.

It's absolutely natural for a man to enjoy anal stimulation and be as straight as they get. To imply that a man is gay because he enjoys prostate spur is just as ... more
You are so right GingerAnn. The only sad part is I wish I had known this a lot early in my life because I'm so happy now??
03/05/2019
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
Most definitely...it doesn't have anything to do with sexual preference! I'm straight and nothing else ratchets up the horniness more than some anal play!
03/13/2019
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
Regardless of any stigma with pegging, prostate stimulation helps with the over health of the receiver. I think prostate stimulation helps reduce the risk of cancer and other prostate issues.
08/11/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
So many replies here and other forums, Reddit, FL, BD, etc . We know men enjoy anal plugs.
So, anyone any idea how many couples engage in pegging on a regular basis?
From the conversations and vast number of harnesses on the market worldwide, there's gotta be a lot more than realized.

I also heard when some couples split up they ask new acquaintances if they're interested. Usually the answer is yes.

Does anyone know if friends or relatives doing it?
10/09/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
So many replies here and other forums, Reddit, FL, BD, etc . We know men enjoy anal plugs.
So, anyone any idea how many couples engage in pegging on a regular basis?
From the conversations and vast number of harnesses on the market worldwide, ... more
I heard the opposite thing, that it is uneasy to find a partner who is into pegging. Despite more and more people realize if a man enjoys anal, it doesn't mean he is gay and to be a homosexual involves many more aspects then taking pleasure in prostate and anus nerve endings stimulation, not every man and not every woman understand and see why the pegging is fun.
10/09/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I tend to agree with Liel@ - in the general population it's probably difficult to find men who would admit to being open to pegging. The stigma is still just too high - in spite of both the pleasures involved and the prostate health benefits as pointed out by Mrs. R.

However as OH&W pointed out a ton of products are on the market with many more introduced almost daily. This reminds me a little of the chastity market - a big increase in videos and product offerings/sales - does not mean wide spread adoption of the practice.

If 2-3% of the population is engaged in an activity - then sees a doubling of activity - that just leaves 4-6% of the population - still quite small. But if you are marketing to this demographic, your market just doubled.

Asking people on sex-oriented sites can only give you a skewed perspective - which is why like-minded people flock to 'affirming' sites like EF, when they would be roundly condemned or ridiculed in the mainstream.

Anyway - that's my take
10/09/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Kinky T
Personally, I believe that they can. However, I've had a many friends that just don't understand pegging for straight men and think it's either unnatural or that men who enjoy anal cannot be straight. I'm just curious about what everyone else thinks.
Gosh, I really hope so because I'm trying to convince my really, really, really straight husband into trying pegging at some point. No pressure though. I don't think it will magically turn him homosexual on me...
10/10/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
This is one of those questions that keeps coming up and the answer is always no. Men have more of a reason to enjoy anal sex than women due to the prostate being a sensitive and pleasurable area to be stimulated. That being said women have tons a nerve endings there too so all can enjoy it. I love anal stimulation but I have zero attraction to the same sex.
10/10/2019
Contributor: Happily Married, little sex but it's OK Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
There is the theory that...

IS this 1950? Is McCarthy'ism still a thing?

Who cares about being called hetero or homo - if I'm attracted only to women but enjoy anal play, which feels awesome, why would this even be something to resolve?
10/11/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
There is the theory that...

IS this 1950? Is McCarthy'ism still a thing?

Who cares about being called hetero or homo - if I'm attracted only to women but enjoy anal play, which feels awesome, why would this even be something to resolve?
If nothing bothers you, you feel confident in your orientation, and common stereotypes don't matter to you, then there is nothing to resolve indeed.

But many people, men and women as well, anal sex is still a sort of taboo.
10/11/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
My husband is living proof. He enjoys anal plugs and pegging from yours truly. And he's definitely heterosexual.
10/11/2019
Contributor: AllensSexSlave85 AllensSexSlave85
Me and My husband recently started experimenting with Anal, He isn't the least bit gay we've been together 20+ yrs... Ive secretly always wanted to use toys on him and never mentioned it Not sure why I finally did But Now he loves it And has Some amazing orgasms.... I encourage more ladies To ask their spouses Theyll be amazed how Intense the orgasms are...
02/18/2021
Contributor: Loveslace Loveslace
I certainly love it!
02/20/2021
Contributor: Yo Daddy Yo Daddy
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Originally posted by AllensSexSlave85
Me and My husband recently started experimenting with Anal, He isn't the least bit gay we've been together 20+ yrs... Ive secretly always wanted to use toys on him and never mentioned it Not sure why I finally did But Now he loves it And has ... more
You get the wife of the year award
02/24/2021
Contributor: Bigdaddy 5150 Bigdaddy 5150
Why hell yeah I have a girlfriend and I enjoy it but I'm also bi
08/21/2021
Contributor: godot godot
It makes me sad how many people think this style of stimulation will make one gay, honestly, it seems really bigoted. Most of the people who say this are probably just insecure about their sexualities.

Being gay isn't all about anal sex, it's about loving men.. So if a woman is playing with your ass, why would it mean you're gay/bi?
Many gay men don't even enjoy anal anyways, and just do oral, handies, frotting, etc.
11/02/2021
Contributor: foolishsk8er foolishsk8er
Nate
11/07/2021