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Butt Secks.???? Ever heard this term?

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Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
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Originally posted by Bignuf
A friend of ours has a daughter who is a freshman at college. Her TWIN goes to a college over 1000 miles away. The one daughter said something about some girls at a party wanting to keep their "virginity" but being okay with "BUTT ... more
iv never heard that one befor but i guess
05/16/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
ive heard it ive said it but i normally say anal
05/16/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ciao.
It's a term that I've seen around before. I do think the whole anal sex =/= "real sex" thing is completely stupid, and I can't say I'm really a fan of the "butt secks" as a term.
A lot of college kids...and indeed high school kids, seem to say "okay, I ONLY have oral or anal...so I am NOT having sex and am still a virgin too". Not sure all that is a great idea.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ms. N
I do have one girlfriend - closer to 30 than college aged - who uses this term all the time.
I am hearing from all kinds of folks at work and friends who agree. WOW..learn something new every day around here.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I've heard the term, but always used in a mocking, derogatory sense, never as slang for the actual act.
These kids are definitely using it as a term for the act.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gone (LD29)
I've only heard that one out of X-rated LOLcats.
Too funny. That MIGHT indeed be the origin and it caught on.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Tork48309
Interesting....I guess I'm out of the loop at 45 yrs old. Butt Secks it is! Hey, it does sound better.
Hey. We are in our 50's...so.....some of this stuff has us WAY out of the loop.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by meezerosity
I thought it was just a silly way of spelling it when you were referring to it in a goofy way. I've never heard of it any other way...I'm in the younger crowd- early 20s.
We have now seen where some "teens" are writing it that way, consistently.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by JackRaiden
I'm so glad I'm out of HS/college...
In a way, yes, in another, are they doing all the wild stuff we WISH we could have??? Mixed bag there.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Buttsecks is actually a kind of 'retro' term that was popular in the early 2000-2004 times - it was also mostly an internet thing. I didn't know it was still being used unironically...
INTERESTING. Thanks for a historical context. I guess we were not in the loop on that internet trend, even though with work and play we LIVE on the computer. THANK YOU. SO many "in the know" people here...what an amazing group. We LOVE EF.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by pootpootpoot
Yeah, I thought it was just an internet thing. Some people like to take that stuff to the real world I guess
All the time!!!
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by dv8
According to Know Your Meme, buttsecks started in 2005. I've only ever encountered the term online.

Please tell me this was NOT in the Sunday Papers...right????
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ahatmadeofshoes12
Yes I've heard it, welcome to the internet.
Sad thing is we LIVE on the Internet..and have so since it was developed. In fact, without going into detail, Mrs. Bignuf was VERY early computer adapter and was using Internet and developing Internet content and capability LONG before most folks here on EF were alive!!!!! There is just SO much "out there" that being on the Internet is like "being on earth"...you will NEVER see it all.
05/19/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My (young) adult daughters call it this, followed by the requisite "EW!" in front of their mother. (If only they knew..... )
05/19/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I've heard of this in conversations and online - it's fairly common. I am also in college
As we now have come to find out.
05/19/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
My friends and I joked around about "surprise! Butt secks!" a couple years ago.
Yeah, my middle daughter and her friends have "surprise! butt secks!" stuff all over their Facebook pages... usually accompanied by one guy coming up behind an other and humping him... It's funny...
05/19/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
Yeah I've heard the term around work. A number of young girls in highschool are thinking that it sounds like a great idea. Have anal and still be a virgin, then they come to us because they are bleeding and have trauma from doing it wrong. It's really sad.
05/19/2012
Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
We hear it here a lot.
07/14/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
The slang originated in fandom, in reference to slash fanfiction. There's some sarcasm to the term, because in slash fanfiction, the males involved seem to be always be magically prepared for anal sex at all times, regardless of the situation, and they never ever seem to do anything else sexually.

A combination of fandom folks who have noted this obsession with that one sex act in slash have come to use that term -- gay men who know that anal penetration isn't the only form of sex enjoyed by gay men, people who prefer their fanfic to involve heterosexual or lesbian sex scenes, and people who are just plain annoyed that a certain segment of the population chooses to ignore all female characters, all plot development, and all other factors to go straight for teh Butt Secks!!1!

(It's often spelled with several exclamation points and a stray 1 to illustrate the hyperactive disregard for proper typing that's so often employed by certain squeeing fans who only care about hot guys screwing, and absolutely nothing else, so why are they bothering to watch a show that has a plot at all.)
07/15/2012
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
I've only ever heard the term used in the fanfiction community online. I think it's a strange but funny way of expressing things. Definitely not a serious term though.
07/15/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A friend of ours has a daughter who is a freshman at college. Her TWIN goes to a college over 1000 miles away. The one daughter said something about some girls at a party wanting to keep their "virginity" but being okay with "BUTT ... more
Haha yup heard of it. It's used often here.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by GenderSexplorations
I've only ever heard the term used in the fanfiction community online. I think it's a strange but funny way of expressing things. Definitely not a serious term though.
Sure not serious, but hearing it more, on a college campus.
07/30/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
I've heard this used before. As a college student myself, I think it is a stupid and immature way to refer to anal sex. Honestly, if my partner ever called it that, it would be a MAJOR turnoff.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I have ever since I was 15. I'm 22 now and the girls who would just randomly shout it out at the most worst times would get me laughing because they would actually try to reenact butt secks with their butts grinding against each other. I would be on the floor laughing so hard I wouldn't be able to breath because the face of the group home staff would just be unbelievable. I think one woman turned purple in the face before able to shout XD.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
To be honest the first time I heard this term was in a book, I think one by Stephen King, but I can't remember which one. I don't really like the term and never use it myself. Not really sure about how common it is.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Buttsecks is actually a kind of 'retro' term that was popular in the early 2000-2004 times - it was also mostly an internet thing. I didn't know it was still being used unironically...
I was just thinking something a long the lines of this. I saw this term many years ago get popular on the internet. Most of the time people used it in joking terms because there was more humor behind it vs saying anal sex.

But I guess I didn't realize people are now starting to refer to it on a more serious level and meaning they want anal sex. I'm kind of indifferent to it, but if I was dating someone and they said "lets have butt secks" I would see it more of an immature term.
08/03/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Yeah, I've heard this term before but only in a comical manner. I can't believe that some younger folks are taking it seriously.

Also: I feel like anal sex is still sex, sorry.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Experiment Experiment
I'm right in the perfect college age that I hear this all the time.

Although in the groups I hang out with, anal is actually perceived as being kinkier than vaginal, and therefore is actually LESS common.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
The slang originated in fandom, in reference to slash fanfiction. There's some sarcasm to the term, because in slash fanfiction, the males involved seem to be always be magically prepared for anal sex at all times, regardless of the situation, ... more


As someone who adores certain slash fiction (when done right), may I just say I love your interpretation of some of the fanfic that is out there?
08/03/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
Ya this is pretty common. I never hear anyone say anal anymore.
08/03/2012