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Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
If we're talking huge, long, girthy and monstrous size I say definitely no anus lol.
Now I do have to say again that if you use toys and gently use them over time to stretch you out that wont be as much of a problem and that part of your body is so elastic that it will go right back after you are done playing with it.

Remember that glass toy I was talking about...

Also check out some of the metal ones... both the glass and the metal are awesome for temperature play.
04/12/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Now I do have to say again that if you use toys and gently use them over time to stretch you out that wont be as much of a problem and that part of your body is so elastic that it will go right back after you are done playing with it.

Remember ... more
I really do wish E would bring something similar to that glass one in stock. I looked but didn't find anything really.

I'm still new to that 'department 'lol. I did find a nice deal on an Enjoy so we'll be trying that out. I'm a little hesitant about anything more in size than the med. It intimidates me a little since its all so new.

I trust you with what you say though.
04/13/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
I really do wish E would bring something similar to that glass one in stock. I looked but didn't find anything really.

I'm still new to that 'department 'lol. I did find a nice deal on an Enjoy so we'll be trying that ... more
Good call on taking it slow. You have the rest of your life to size up should you want to. Remember, this is not a contest. Move at your own pace, take your time and use lots of lube.
04/13/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Good call on taking it slow. You have the rest of your life to size up should you want to. Remember, this is not a contest. Move at your own pace, take your time and use lots of lube.
Speaking of 'slippery' stuff. What's a good brand? I was going to try some of the Sliquid but there are a bazillion types and it was overwhelming. I ended up shutting down the site. I was looking for a big neon Sign flashing...."Use this one for THIS" LOL. No such luck .
04/13/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Bigger is not always better. Not only is it the skill of the man, but also your feelings for him that make sex better. Why are men are so preoccupied with their size? Unless a man is tiny or enormous, he should worry about other things than his ... more
Big doesn't always ensure that they think they are big enough.....they always have this worry.
04/14/2015
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Speaking of 'slippery' stuff. What's a good brand? I was going to try some of the Sliquid but there are a bazillion types and it was overwhelming. I ended up shutting down the site. I was looking for a big neon Sign flashing...."Use ... more
We are a fan of maximus
04/14/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
We are a fan of maximus
Sweetness! Thanks
04/15/2015
Contributor: Livia Drew Livia Drew
Oh gosh no! I have issues with vaginal tightness (not uncommon for women with certain medical problems), so smaller is actually much more comfortable for me.
04/17/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Speaking of 'slippery' stuff. What's a good brand? I was going to try some of the Sliquid but there are a bazillion types and it was overwhelming. I ended up shutting down the site. I was looking for a big neon Sign flashing...."Use ... more
We've tried almost every lube - even the premium brands, but nothing beats coconut oil for effective any-where, any-time, any-toy lubrication. It's a nice benefit that it's the lowest cost and you can cook with it!
04/19/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We've tried almost every lube - even the premium brands, but nothing beats coconut oil for effective any-where, any-time, any-toy lubrication. It's a nice benefit that it's the lowest cost and you can cook with it!
Gotta love a good multipurpose 'spread' . Thanks!! We've used it before so I will give it a shot with 'rear' play this time!
04/20/2015
Contributor: Amber1319 Amber1319
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Not in my opinion, depends on a lot more.
06/01/2015
Contributor: gagehale gagehale
Nope
08/07/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Big is fine if your a size queen.

But I'm just happy with a comfortable fullness.
09/14/2015
Contributor: magicmac magicmac
Maybe if I were a guy bigger would be better because then I would have prostate. However, since I don't have one, bigger definitely (in my opinion) is not better when it comes to anal sex.
01/05/2016
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Sometimes bigger is just too much..
01/05/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by magicmac
Maybe if I were a guy bigger would be better because then I would have prostate. However, since I don't have one, bigger definitely (in my opinion) is not better when it comes to anal sex.
Gotta try at least once.
01/08/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
When I was younger I inserted larger and larger things anally as was curious if it was actually possible or was just creative video editing in porn. Larger toys didn't really do anything for me; however, what I enjoy is prostate engagement and the best toys for this have actually been small to medium size toys with shapes designed for prostate massage. So my experience has definitely been that bigger isn't always better... also some of the larger prostate toys I've tried are more uncomfortable than enjoyable as well.
07/23/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by MrClark
When I was younger I inserted larger and larger things anally as was curious if it was actually possible or was just creative video editing in porn. Larger toys didn't really do anything for me; however, what I enjoy is prostate engagement and ... more
Hit and miss that way, everyone is different.
08/03/2016
Contributor: RogueElement1972 RogueElement1972
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Now I do have to say again that if you use toys and gently use them over time to stretch you out that wont be as much of a problem and that part of your body is so elastic that it will go right back after you are done playing with it.

Remember ... more
Hello
New here. Great site. Anyway, I enjoy pegging and have progressed in width and length over the years, the dildos I mean. I currently enjoy 2 inches thick and 9 long but am ready to move up in at least width. For me, bigger is better, but gradually.
12/22/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by RogueElement1972
Hello
New here. Great site. Anyway, I enjoy pegging and have progressed in width and length over the years, the dildos I mean. I currently enjoy 2 inches thick and 9 long but am ready to move up in at least width. For me, bigger is better, but ... more
Is that a hard peg or a soft peg?
01/05/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Since this is the anal sex forum, I'm all for bigger and think it is better. My hubby is kinda wide and I like him. I prefer it in the butt because there's no cervix to hit! Also I love how he feels going in and out. I've gotten dildos wider than him and it just makes the sensations more intense. I didn't expect to be in the minority on this though. Ah well. I LOVE MY ANAL SEX!
02/20/2017
Contributor: Devz Devz
Nope, it all depends on how you use it
02/22/2017
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Don't get me wrong: I LOVE GIRTH!!! I LOVE THE FEELING so I would never wish for a smaller dick. But I can't say that bigger is ALWAYS better because if the man does not know what to do with that large dick-- or does not know how to pleasure his SO (or even is not concerned about it), then having girth doesn't matter. I have had men with smaller dicks that were better lovers because they knew what they were doing, and were first and foremost concerned about my orgasms and pleasure during sex.
05/06/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Bigger is not always better. Since I have such a petite frame, it can become uncomfortable to accommodate bigger sizes. I actually prefer average sided guys.
08/07/2020
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
Don't get me wrong: I LOVE GIRTH!!! I LOVE THE FEELING so I would never wish for a smaller dick. But I can't say that bigger is ALWAYS better because if the man does not know what to do with that large dick-- or does not know how to pleasure ... more
Right on sister!

Actually I just noticed this Bigger is better? thread is in "Anal section of the forum - everyday sex old"

So bigger is NoT better.
02/11/2021