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At first to hard to get in?

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Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
same with me and my husband...he actually hurt himself the first time we tried.
06/03/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
wait what are we talking about??....
06/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by cobiffle
My girl and I struggled at first with it because she was to tight for me to go in so it took some time to get it to happen. Did anybody else have this problem?
Been enjoying anal for over 30 years, and she is always very tight.
BOTTOM LINE...(joke) is that it is ALWAYS "slow, careful finger stretch first...with TONS and TONS of lube" and then penis follows...with TONS and TONS of lube. Then add extra lube and STILL go slow. Once that is accomplished, I let HER make the call about how fast or how hard. HOWEVER, with anal, we NEVER do "pounding fast" moves. Just too dangerous and sensitive an area. If you love her butt...then treat it like the gift it is to you and treat it GENTLE. Don't break it and it will always be there for your and her enjoyment!!!!
06/08/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I did you have no idea! It took a few tries for it to happen.
06/11/2011
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
Lube makes the world go round.
10/08/2011
Contributor: colors colors
without lube?!-- why? why would you do that?
02/15/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
I had a very small amount of experiance before my husband and it hurt so bad i was afraid to try it again. Luckily my husband was gentle and used a good amount of lube so he wouldnt hurt me. Now we need less lube but we still use it to be safe and comfortable.
02/15/2012
Contributor: AnotherPrettyFace AnotherPrettyFace
Oh crap, I wasn't paying attention... my vote should have been for lube!
02/15/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
When I was "new" to anal sex it was often hard for my boyfriend to "get in" because I just wasn't relaxed enough. A little foreplay, an orgasm, and some lube later everything went fine!
02/15/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Are you even kidding me? Who are these people who try anal without lube?!
02/15/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Are you even kidding me? Who are these people who try anal without lube?!
i agree! always use a TON of lube with anal. it's so dangerous without. you can easily tear those delicate tissues and lead to bleeding, scars, fissures and risk of infection. ALWAYS use lube and be very gentle to start.
02/15/2012