The "Thanks" comments

Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I am getting so so sick of hearing about the thanks comments, that anyone at all that has complained over and over about it; I have either unfollowed or do not rate their reviews any longer. You are perfectly able to fix it where you will never ever have to see these "thank you" remarks that you hate so much, but do not do it! That's what gets me. Believe me --your reviews are so thorough and brilliant, and spectacular that no one will be asking you any questions, so why don't you?

BecaUse you are snobs who have nothing better to do than whine about someone thanking you, thats why. Just write your reviews and then disable comments for those same reviews. You all sound like a bunch of spoiled brats!

I do have to say a noticeable improvement on comments because of your tedious whinning--so you got your point across! I am sick of seeing your whinning not just on this thread but 20 others. PleaSE CEASE this glorified whinning! You are not that special!!! RANT OVER
06/25/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
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Originally posted by wetone123
I am getting so so sick of hearing about the thanks comments, that anyone at all that has complained over and over about it; I have either unfollowed or do not rate their reviews any longer. You are perfectly able to fix it where you will never ever ... more
I hope I wasn't unfollowed. *sniffle sniff* Haha. I honestly forgot you can change your alerts for review comments and that kind of thing, though. I do find some comments frustrating, but it's not bad enough for me to change my alerts at this point. I mean, I really don't even have that many reviews (and the first ten or so are crap that I wish I could delete, so nobody comments on those anyway), so it's not a problem. And...now I'm rambling. Haha. Sorry. It's late and I'm tired. I guess I'm saying that I understand where you're coming from. The comments can be a little annoying, but I really think most people do it with good intentions.
06/26/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I hope I wasn't unfollowed. *sniffle sniff* Haha. I honestly forgot you can change your alerts for review comments and that kind of thing, though. I do find some comments frustrating, but it's not bad enough for me to change my alerts at this ... more
Of course you were not unfollowed Zen! I do not see you whinning and complaining about being thanked. Also, you always leave great comments, so no one can whine about your comments.
I for one am not bothered by being thanked for a job well done and can't for the life of me understand all this complaining about a thank you comment.
Like I said tho' , some good has come out of all this snobbishness. all this whinning has made people come up with better comments, but can we drop it now? Isn't enough enough?

I guess not since there are more newbies coming everyday who do not know that certain reviewers do not want to be thanked.

To me, the people complaining sound like prima donnas who do not want to be bothered, so I think everyone should leave them alone if thats what they want. But instead of complaining constantly, why do they not unset comment alerts? Thats the bottom line really.
Sorry if I sounded harsh on my last post on this thread, after reading 20 other threads with this subject not even the subject being the point of the thread at hand I just had had enough.
06/26/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by wetone123
I thank people for their review (if it is good) out of courtesy and respect for the review and the writer. Sometimes, the review needs no questions asked, it is just that good. I think people need and deserve a thank you for work well done. There is ... more
That is very true! I always smile (very big!) when I get ANY comment, even a "thank you." I take my thank you's very seriously. Lol If it encourages people and if it's sincere, I think it's ok to do. I always appreciate any time taken out to thank, ask a question, or even say Hi.
06/26/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by wetone123
I am getting so so sick of hearing about the thanks comments, that anyone at all that has complained over and over about it; I have either unfollowed or do not rate their reviews any longer. You are perfectly able to fix it where you will never ever ... more
Go WET ONE! Lol. I'm right here with ya!
06/26/2011
Contributor: meitman meitman
I actually feel pretty bad about leaving thanks now as I have contributed to that problem. It's a little confusing honestly. I'm pretty new to EF and have been trying to fit in and be apart of the community so when I saw how nice people are in this community and how most of the reviews I looked at had "Thanks" comments I thought that was the appreciated practice. It was never about point farming for me. I just thought it was encouraged. I will have to try to come up with more meaningful responses or none at all. Unfortunately I don't have many toys yet so I don't have personal experiences or things like that to share in comments.
07/22/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It doesn't bother me to see someone thank me for my reviews. Maybe they had nothing else to say, maybe they just wanted me to know they really appreciated the review.

Sometimes I'll get a comment on an older review that someone was looking for just the information that I gave as part of the review. I'm glad I can help someone find a toy that they would like, I LIKE getting comments on older reviews, too, because that means someone sought out the product and the review. I appreciate that.

So, no it doesn't bother me at all. I do like when someone addresses something I specifically did in the review, but maybe it was just the entire review they liked. I'm not going to judge them. If someone reads my reviews the day they are written or months or years later, that's fine with me.

It doesn't take up that much of my time to go and read a comment. I actually like when people appreciate my hard work.

07/22/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Thanks comments do not bother me at all. At least that way I know someone is reading them! I do wish there was some sort of counter to let us know how many times a review has been read (sorta like the videos).
07/24/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
This is a good idea, kind of like the kudos button on Ao3.
07/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I actually really like getting any comment on my reviews. I like knowing someone read it and appreciated what I wrote. It's a lot of work to write a review, and I always appreciate a word of thanks. I would certainly never complain about someone telling me "thank you".
07/24/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
While I do typically thank someone for posting a review I try to add something else as well, either a suggestion if needed, a question if there is one, or some sort of a comment so that they know it's not just a generic response, but sometimes that's all there really is to it, is a response. I really don't mind the "thank you"s on reviews, although I do agree to a certain degree that it seems like a way of point farming, but sometimes, it is just someone genuinely happy that you posted a review that helped to inform them more on the product
09/07/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
The thanks comments themselves don't bother me at all. What does bother me is receiving multiple e-mails for them i wish that the E-mail system would either 1) work like alerts for forums do i.e. that you can see the comment in the E-mail and not have to click over to see, if it was a question or just a thanks. 2) that we could set the E-mail alerts to only be sent out once a day (or even week) so you would revive one E-mail notifying you of all the new comments for the day and not multiple E-mails. 3) Both of the above
09/08/2011
Contributor: Red Red
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Originally posted by wetone123
I am getting so so sick of hearing about the thanks comments, that anyone at all that has complained over and over about it; I have either unfollowed or do not rate their reviews any longer. You are perfectly able to fix it where you will never ever ... more
Is the name calling in this post really necessary? Calling it at rant at the end doesn't excuse this behavior!

I tried very hard to word my thread opener carefully so that I was suggesting a positive solution instead of simply complaining. I suggested the addition of a thank button, which would hopefully kill off the thanks comments and leave the actual comments open for real questions or suggestions. This is constructive criticism, not complaining. I find your tone in this comment pretty offensive, actually. Aren't these forums supposed to be a respectful, friendly place?

I personally LOVE responding to questions I get on reviews, and yes, some comments on old reviews are in fact, actual questions. You say that this is the fault of the people "complaining" about thank you comments for not disabling notifications on comments...but tell me, how does one filter out the "thanks" comments from the actual questions with some function on this site? There is no way that they are differentiated, so there's no option other than just turning off all comment alerts. When I write a review I believe it is my responsibility to answer follow up questions about the review or product while I am still an active reviewer on this site, even if the review is years old.

Next time, please, take a moment to check your negativity and decide if its really necessary.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I accept all comments whether it is a simple "thank you" or a super-duper long novel : ) I love knowing that people took the time to leave me a little comment of "thanks" when they really didn't have to.. especially on products that have quite a few reviews already! It makes me feel important. I never look at my comments and think "how rude, just a thank you?" lol... I think that is a really sad way of thinking. A lot of the times, it is a newer user who says "thank you" instead of more established members. Threads like these will most likely discourage participation from the newer members.

I personally try to say a bit more on a comment, but sometimes I feel a "thank you" is enough.

As for wetone's comment.. I think the delivery may not have been the most appropriate, but I do see what they are saying and I do agree. If I commented on a person's review with a "thank you very much for the review" and then seen a thread like this posted by them, I would be turned off of reading/rating/comment ing on their reviews again. There are plenty of reviews on most products, so choosing other reviews to read instead of someone who views comments in such a way is very easy.

I have also seen many threads on this subject in the short amount of time I've been here. A lot of people have this same mind-frame and it's sad to me because we should be looking at every comment on our reviews and saying "yay, they chose MY review to read and comment on! "

I am not trying to offend anyone by the above stuff I mentioned. I just think we could all look at comments placed on our reviews in a more appreciative, positive way. : )
09/10/2011
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
I usually try to make a comment alongside the thanks. Something specific to the review so my comment isn' totally useless. If I find a review to be awesome, I want to let the person know
09/10/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I personally really appreciate it when someone leaves a "thanks" comment on one of my reviews. I do the same for others when I find their review to be helpful. Though I can see how the constant email notifications may bother some people.
09/11/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Red
These days I don't have many chances to come by EF, but I always pop by when I get an inbox alert that someone left a comment on a review. Getting a comment on an old review used to mean there was a relevant question being posed - but now? ... more
You know, I think I might've already posted in this discussion a while back, but I saw it on the forums again and have kind of different feelings.

A while back, I'm not sure if it was this exact discussion or not, but I remember posting that it did not bother me and that I appreciated their efforts... Yea well.... Now that I have been here longer, I feel a bit differently.

I never got emails letting me know when I got a comment until recently. They finally started coming in. Now I can really see where you guys were coming from!

While I truly appreciate anytime people take their time to read my reviews, I also see the regular "thanks" or a damn smiley face and nothing else as comments. Everday, I click every email that says I have a comment and go read it. It does get time consuming having to do that when the person is only point farming. I didn't realize before that people would do this for points. It makes it tough to weed out those comments from the ones who truly read the review and had something to say.

It feels almost like the ones who always do that are just using your reviews for their own points. It's obvious they didn't read a single word.

The thing that bugs me most about it is 1. most of us work very hard on our reviews so it can feel like they're going unappreciated when someone uses the review for points. 2. When someone comments on my reviews, I do my best to go message them and tell them thanks for reading and sometimes chat a little more about the product I had reviewed. So when those same people just leave meaningless "thanks" comments, it makes it even tougher to weed through and get to the ones who really took the time to read and leave a kind or helpful comment.
01/16/2012
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by tokensgirl
Thanks.

Lol. jkjkjk. Yeah, that is pretty lame
yeah lol. i get a lot of thanks for review or just "thanks". gets annoying
01/17/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
The thanks button/box is a great idea! We definitely need something like that here.
01/17/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
I forgot about this thread, but I see that I replied to it four months ago....after reading my response that I wrote 4 months ago, I still feel the same. I appreciate all comments, even the little "thank you" ones : ) I get email notifications too for all comments but I don't get zillions of comments a day so it's not a bother at all.
01/17/2012
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
Totally guilty, but I try to give useful feedback along with the thanks. I KNEW I wasn't the only one caught offguard by 'thanks' posts!
01/28/2012