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Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
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Originally posted by Curvy
Worst Valentines Day ever.... Without dating myself I have to ask... Which one?

One Valentines Day, was my court appearance for a divorce.

Another, my dog given to me by my sexiest and best male FWB, died.

The Creme de le ... more
Ouch, ouch and oouuch!! You win!

A single one worst doesn't stick out to me, but any ones that I spent away from my fiance while we were still in school (while I had friends and roommates out with their SOs) sucked pretty bad.
01/31/2013
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
The worst was when I had my first boyfriend in junior high... He didn't get me anything but expected something from me. Then when I brought the whole I give you give thing to his attention he sighed and ended up buying me a box of chocolates. It was sweet, coming from him, but he ended up eating almost the whole box without me... It was one of those times when you ask yourself why he was even worth the time.
01/31/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Mine was last year hubby and I got into a huge fight on the day of and it was horrible
01/31/2013
Contributor: befree09 befree09
I got dumped the day before, and on valentines day got credit card fraud of over 300 bucks for valentines day shit for someone else!!! Charges from flowers. Com and edible arrangements and some other crap!! Bullshit!
01/31/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I don't celebrate Valentine's Day. But I happen to remember a dreadful thing that happened to me just because it happened to fall on that day.

I got my first period on Valentine's Day, 2002, and my uterus was Cramp Central Station.
01/31/2013
Contributor: Linda Bass Linda Bass
25 YEARS OF MY SOUSE FORGETTING
01/31/2013
Contributor: nynekats nynekats
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
The worst Valentines I ever had was in 1992. My fiance and I had broken up the previous December and I was still mad at him and in love with him and trying really hard to forget him. The dummy sent me a HUGE package to my dorm room full of Valentines stuff with a note about being friends. I was furious. Here I was trying to get over him and he went and reopened the wound. I called him and chewed him a new one. We were married in 1993. LOL We will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary this coming August.
01/31/2013
Contributor: KayYJelly KayYJelly
Worst Valentine's day I had was probably back when I was in high school and dating my now ex girlfriend.
I had planned a really nice romantic night for us- reservations at a restaurant in Philly for dinner, tickets to a movie, and then a hotel room for the night (My parents thought I was sleeping at her house and vice versa). I'd even bought her some sexy lingerie that she had wanted and some chocolate body pens for later in the evening.

Well... the week before Valentine's day we had had off from school and I hadn't been able to get in contact with her since she didn't have a phone, so the first day of school I tried to find her in the morning and make sure our plans were still on. We went to Catholic school though and everything had been a secret, so when I went up to her she instantly tried to pull me away from her friends and I knew something was wrong, when I asked her what was up she just looked at me and went "No one told you ?"

Apparently the week I hadn't talked to her, her best friend had told her he was in love with her and since she could publicly be with him, she said yes. So I was supposed to hear from someone else we were done, and when I asked her she said "Well we weren't REALLY together since we weren't official".

She did still have the nerve to have him ask me the day before Valentine's day if I would be okay with having a threesome with them on Valentine's day as a present to her...
01/31/2013
Contributor: LuckyLady LuckyLady
I don't think I've had a worst V-day they all were generally not celebrated or celebrated minimally. This one might the be the worst since my hubby is working ALL dayyyyy.
01/31/2013
Contributor: EmCose EmCose
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
In high school I had a boyfriend that I cooked a dinner for and he called me last minute and said he was going hunting with his friend instead. I think I broke it off two weeks later
01/31/2013
Contributor: CaseyDeuce CaseyDeuce
My worst Valentines day was when I was being sweet and fun with my ex husband and sent him "secret admirer" flowers at work. Silly for me, a girl, to send my (then) husband flowers at work... Then he brought them home, had discarded the card, and tried to give them to me as if he purchased them himself for me. HOW RUDE!!!?? Needless to say (not due to this) we aren't married anymore!!
01/31/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
My worst Valentine's Day, my kitten Roy died and I got really sick and was throwing up all day because of a UTI. X_X
02/01/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
I can't think of any particularly bad Valentine's Days...
02/01/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
the day & I were totally forgotten by my ex.
02/01/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
My worst was the day I found out that my best friend canceled our 6 month in the making v-day plans to hang out with her boyfriend WITH US. It was awkward and I was the biggest third wheel alive and it ruined out friendship because she never told me about him and just invited him along. My valentines days have never been great. My boyfriend never goes out of his way to do anything special and he most likely wont this year, either.
02/01/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
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Originally posted by KayYJelly
Worst Valentine's day I had was probably back when I was in high school and dating my now ex girlfriend.
I had planned a really nice romantic night for us- reservations at a restaurant in Philly for dinner, tickets to a movie, and then a hotel ... more
Oh my god....just....T_T
02/01/2013
Contributor: joycep61 joycep61
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
When I was dating my bf actually gave me a bottle of expired chocolate body paint. I thought hmmm, is this stuff from a past relationship. Needless to say I was really mad and threw it out ~ and him.
02/01/2013
Contributor: urcnstarz urcnstarz
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
My worst was...well I never really had a "good" Valentine's Dy so its hard to pick out the worst lol. But I think my worst would be when I was 15 I was to go skiing with my boyfriend and his family, I did go with them but ended up with a fever by the time we got there. I would've been much happier at home in the bed.
02/01/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Try: Finding out your girlfriend is banging someone else.
02/01/2013
Contributor: Mollydo2 Mollydo2
My husband had a Emotional Affair on Valentine's Day, talk about the WORST!!!
02/01/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Worst was probably my first valentines day with a girlfriend, where she stood me up on our planned date.
02/01/2013
Contributor: JamesAlexander JamesAlexander
My worst valentines day was last year. I had to break up with my girlfriend days before because the relationship was stressing me out.
02/02/2013
Contributor: Lisa M Peterson Lisa M Peterson
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Originally posted by Ansley
Valentine's Day. Either you love it, or you don't but we've all gone through the rituals of this day at least once. We covered good Vday memories last week, so let's move on to the worst Valentine's ... more
Can't say any have been horrible, single on a few occasions but nothing ever horrible has happened.
02/02/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
Nothing bad had happened. Even being single want so bad. One year my college did princess Bride for vday. I fell asleep. This year though I have to do vday Japanese style. But I told my bf he at least has to take me out for dinner.
02/02/2013
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
My worse Valentine date was when I was dressed up and ready and the person flaked out with a lame excuse. D:
02/02/2013
Contributor: MissManners MissManners
Not worst but very awkward. When I was a teen a guy I was polite to once thought that meant I liked him . So I find a big chocolate heart on my table with everyone in my class giggling and staring. It was like that ralph wiggum episode in the simpsons LOL
02/02/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
First Valentine's Day that my husband and I were married. I swear I already wrote about this here, but I guess I didn't.
02/02/2013
Contributor: rjdoghouse rjdoghouse
My worst was back in the 90's- about 1991? It was all planned to go out for a really nice dinner and an evening together. Mother Nature intervened and brought in a snowstorm. Living in two different cities, we were stuck at home, alone. not at all what I'd been planning for.
02/03/2013
Contributor: markj0917 markj0917
my worst was when i had to be out of town and couldn't spend it with my wife
02/03/2013
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I got broken up with a few days before.
02/03/2013