#SexyResolutions - New Year, New Chances for Steamy Sex!

Contributor: secdoover secdoover
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Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Do that one thing he wants me to do that I want to do but haven't been able to actually do due to insecurities and my past experiences. lol
2. Bondage. The boy & I haven't gotten into it nearly enough.
3. More kegels. I've been doing them but I often forget. :|
4. Find my damn g-spot.
5. Do that other thing the boy wants me to do that I can do alone but haven't been able to with him.
01/12/2013
Contributor: anonymous1298304 anonymous1298304
1. Try a rabbit vibe
2. be open to bringing my vibe into the bedroom as opposed to only using alone
3.save up for another rechargeable vibe
4.put together a dominatrix type costume to wear for my bf
5. learn more about what types of things he'd like to try
01/12/2013
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Mine is to just be a better contributor on EF. Ohhh! And a better speller, and just ahve a better grasp on the english language.
01/12/2013
Contributor: Kristi :) Kristi :)
1. Kegels, push out not just squeeze
2. Exercise with ben wa balls
3. Squirt instead of leak X-)
4. Very creative phone sex
5. More Aspot orgasms
01/12/2013
Contributor: Lynx Lynx
1. Be more open/adventurous
2. Be rougher
3. Play around more, it's no rush
4. Add in some toys/props
5. Cuddle time!

Uh... Probably five would be the most likely to be kept lol
01/13/2013
Contributor: Sweetandsour142 Sweetandsour142
1. Have a sexual encounter with my husband at least once a day. I'm pretty sure we won't keep that due to our conflicting work schedules
2. Get him to be more adventurous but not an extremist. This can be accomplished.
3. Take more time to be romantic and not just rush things. I know this can be accomplished.
4. Have a date nite once a week. We used to make time for this and I'm sure we can do it again.
5. Take a romantic/sexually investing vacation. Will be accomplished.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Tolroe Tolroe
1. Be more spontaneous
2. More Foreplay (bring in more toys)
3. Sex 2+ times per week
4. Get into better shape
5. Explore more together (use our straps and lelo tiani more)
01/13/2013
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
To have every encounter with my partner be orgasmic.

Convince him to try some toys in the bedroom.


Take care of myself when we are apart
01/13/2013
Contributor: Ask-Krysta Ask-Krysta
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Find time to be intimate everyday, this done not include making love. (This one we are more then likely able to keep up on)

2. Make love with my partner at least 1-2 times a week, if more thats great. (the 1-2 times a week, we kinda changed to at least once a night)

3. Try a new position at least every Saturday or Sunday. (this one is will be hard but we will try to keep up with this one, but certain positions we'd like to try we can't because of certain problems, ex. bad shoulder.)

4. Cuddle at least 3-4 times a week. (this one may be hard since sometimes its hard for me to cuddle, I am frigidity, but i love to cuddle when i am able to.)

5. Talk to my partner about my sexual fantasy's and worries as well as, maybe trying to roleplay. (this one might not work since i am not good on talking about these things and would most likely have to write them to my partner.)
01/13/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
1. I need to slow down and take a breath.
2. tell my hubby that I love him daily.
3. Have patience with my husband as far as trying new things.
4. Enjoy what I have
5. Take better care of myself.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
1. Learn some rope bondage
2. Add more romance to our lives
3. Meet someone new for me and my BF to play with
4. Explore my sexual boundaries
5. open up/communicate better

I think the hardest one for me will be meeting someone new. I'm a little shy and insecure...
01/13/2013
Contributor: Ask-Krysta Ask-Krysta
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Originally posted by Ask-Krysta
1. Find time to be intimate everyday, this done not include making love. (This one we are more then likely able to keep up on)

2. Make love with my partner at least 1-2 times a week, if more thats great. (the 1-2 times a week, we kinda changed ... more
So far so good. the only one we seem to have issues on it #3. we are looking at positions and researching to find what will work for us.
01/17/2013
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
My resolutions for this year have been to exercise more and to try to eat better, and so far I've been keeping on track with them.
01/17/2013
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
I am terrible at making and keeping New Years resolutions so I dont make them. After reading others resolutions I have some new ideas on improving our relationship.
01/17/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I've been running a lot more, have made small progress in Hip Hop, have made small progress regarding eating habits and saving money. I've played some. I think I've made a dent in my new year's resolutions, but that my "ideal amount of resolution accomplished" is super ideal/ unattainable that I'm satisfied with keeping this amount of progress going throughout the year at the rate it is
01/17/2013
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I just want to fuck more dudes.
01/17/2013
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
My number one sexual resolution is to have sex!!!
01/18/2013
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
1. Improve on how I see my body. I have problems with my body image and how I perceive myself. So to work on this my new year's resolution is to eat better, exercise regularly, and just overall take better care of myself. So far it's going great!
2. Dress up pretty now and then even if I don't feel like it. It makes me feel more sexy and confident.
3. Try to work on my anxiety about sex. Instead of focusing on the negative thoughts clouding my mind I'll try to focus on the positive.
4. Try something new and sexy!
5. Have sex often.
01/18/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
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Originally posted by LoooveMonkey
1. Lose weight so I can feel great about myself again. It may not sound like it, but this has a LOT to do with sex. :\ I am so feisty and passionate and awesome when I'm happy with my body. I know my boyfriend is happy with it, but that means ... more
"How are you doing with your resolutions? Have you experienced sweet satisfaction as a result of following through on your goal? If not, what's stopping you?"

Mostly I've been focusing on losing weight. I have not been experiencing sweet satisfaction because I want sugar so bad and I can't have it if I want to lose weight. D: lol But jokes aside, I guess I have. I've been feeling better about myself just by trying to do this.

I haven't had much of a chance to work on my other resolutions, but I'll do my best when the opportunities arise. Valentine's Day is coming up. . .
01/18/2013
Contributor: mzyummy69 mzyummy69
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Originally posted by LoooveMonkey
"How are you doing with your resolutions? Have you experienced sweet satisfaction as a result of following through on your goal? If not, what's stopping you?"

Mostly I've been focusing on losing weight. I have not been ... more
Well I can say I have definitely been getting sweet satisfaction : ) like this must of been our year lol but I must also work on my others as well .
01/18/2013
Contributor: nynekats nynekats
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
How are you doing with your resolutions? meh
Have you experienced sweet satisfaction as a result of following through on your goal? not yet
If not, what's stopping you? my father died on Christmas Day, so I have not been feeling very sexy lately...bit of a dry spell to be honest.
01/18/2013
Contributor: Candide Candide
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Continue to grow my repertoire of topping skills.
2. Experiment and find new things that make my partner happy.
3. Try to remember that I have needs that should be met too.
4. Buy/research more toys.
01/18/2013
Contributor: Lynx Lynx
I'm doing really well with following my resolutions through so far, and am having a blast.
01/18/2013
Contributor: Vickie Brown Vickie Brown
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
I would say trying more new things.
Self initiation
talk
fitness for better sex
More foreplay
01/18/2013
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
Give more massages!
01/18/2013
Contributor: befree09 befree09
1) love my body
2) have a g-spot orgasm
3) be more adventurous with sex, try to introduce toys for foreplay etc..
4) buy and try things from the karma sutra!
5) start doing kegels
I don't think i'l lose focus on any of these goals, I feel pretty focused and excited for this new year!
01/18/2013
Contributor: Nishaswirl Nishaswirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
Well, since I'm pretty open in every way imaginable, I think my sexual resolution would be to get more toys. I'm bored with my old ones. I've had my eye on that Jopen Vanity Vr12 and some bondage and fetish toys.
01/18/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
im failing horribly besides reading more lol
01/18/2013
Contributor: C Lee Siennasai C Lee Siennasai
So far, so good. n.n Haven't bought any new toys yet, but I've written more erotica.
01/18/2013
Contributor: MissManners MissManners
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
mine are

1.More butt training so I can finally give anal sex a go
2.Cut down on the hitachi (I'm an addict lol)
3.See if I can squirt
4.cut down on impulse buys
5.use my kegal balls more
01/19/2013