#SexyResolutions - New Year, New Chances for Steamy Sex!

Contributor: Mistress82 Mistress82
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Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
Make more time for my husband

Try to be more adventurous with anal sex

be more confident in myself

have more date nights

never let our sex life get stale
01/10/2013
Contributor: Bushdog Bushdog
Get more exercise so I can realy work hard to please my woman
let her us a strap-on on me
make her clit cum and g-spot cum and squirt at the same time
let her sexual needs be my guide so I do not pass her comfort zone
save more cum for her
01/10/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Make time for lovemaking regularly (life is SO busy with kids, jobs, household responsibilities... But it's so worth it to set time aside)

Set time aside and get a babysitter to go out for date nights

Make extra time to try new things & experiences

Pamper myself (bath, relaxing time for myself, pedicure, etc) so I feel more sexy when I'm with my husband, or even just alone.

Make it a point to really spoil my husband sometimes to let him know how special he is to me.
01/10/2013
Contributor: LilithStorm LilithStorm
At least one orgasm a week!
01/10/2013
Contributor: little miss kinky little miss kinky
My sexual resolutions are not going to be kept just like all my other resolutions lol
01/10/2013
Contributor: nynekats nynekats
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1) If you had to make a list of five sexual resolutions for the New Year, what would they be?
claim my orgasm
do not fear my orgasm
do not fret during sex
do not think during sex
do not obsess during sex
2) and which do you think you are least likely to keep?
do not fret during sex
do not think during sex
do not obsess during sex
3) Which ones are you most likely to keep?
claim my orgasm
do not fear my orgasm
01/10/2013
Contributor: AKsTreasure AKsTreasure
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Have sexual activity at least three times a week, I'm not sure if this one can be keep but I want it to, badly.
2. Buy more toys (this will happen)
3. Be more expressive, in what i want/need/desire for U/us (this is a 50/50 shot)
4. Do kegel exercises 5 days a week.(50/50 on this one, have to remember to do them)
5. Expand my toy collection(ie: floggers, paddles, clamps ect.)
01/10/2013
Contributor: ~Minty~ ~Minty~
1. Find my G-spot
2. Use toys that I haven't used in a while
3. Try more positions
4. Get some vaginal balls and use them
5. Try new toys
01/10/2013
Contributor: Petite Cannibal Petite Cannibal
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
My sexual resolutions will be as followed:


1) Try something new and exciting... I think I could keep up with it if it's every once in a while.

2) Do a sexual activity everyday with my partner... I'm definitely keeping up with this.

3) Exert myself in intercourse. I will do this definitely, since I love my man.

4) Try new positions more often, like once a week or two weeks? I'll do this if there is one to try after a while.

5) Be more dominating in the sex with my partner. I'll keep up with this definitely, considering my man likes this.
01/10/2013
Contributor: Yuukir Yuukir
1. Explore more
2. Get a man
3. Cuddle more
4. More sex
5. Be adventurous c:
01/10/2013
Contributor: ToyQuest ToyQuest
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Be more vocal during sex, instructing him on where to go during oral, teach him how to get me off manually, dirty talk, maybe?
2. Buy more toys.
3. Try letting him come in my mouth.
4. Try swallowing.
5. Try to get rid of the gag reflex.

I think the whole buying of more toys and getting rid of the gag reflex will be the hardest. Buying new toys is expensive!
01/10/2013
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
1. Make more time for foreplay
2. Cum atleast once a day
3. Don't buy toys you are not gonna use
4. Practice Burlesque strip tease
5. Cam more
01/10/2013
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
1. Be less nervous about trying new things - it's not like a single mistake will ruin sex forever!
2. Figure out where the heck my G-spot is in a way that I can find consistently. I KNOW you're in there!
3. Get myself some more cool toys!
4. For that matter, pick out some toys for ME - all of the ones we have right now are ones my GF picked.
5. Be more adventurous!

I don't know if any of these are easy, but I feel like 1 is probably going to be the hardest... that and 4. I like giving gifts too much.
01/10/2013
Contributor: Venus A Venus A
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Give myself more opportunity to have pleasurable experiences on my own.
This one I KNOW I can do more of.
2. Learn to explore, accept, and celebrate my physical qualities.
This one will be hard, but with time, I can do anything.
3. Think outside of the "vanilla" box.
Hard to do, challenge accepted!
4. Accept my sexuality as a part of me.
Shame is one of the more frequent emotions felt when it comes to sexuality. This will be the hardest of all.
5. Flirt with my mirror, so I am more comfortable with flirting with people. A small thing to blow a kiss in the mirror or a wink , it will be good for my self-esteem.
01/10/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
1. Get some fun new toys
2. Try them out
3. Find a nice semi-soundproof room to have a lot of fun
4. Encourage my girlfriend to learn more techniques so she can explain what she wants.
5. Have fun
01/10/2013
Contributor: Sieglinde Sieglinde
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Think of more new things to try in bed. Especially things that don't involve being dominated. (My sex life is either really vanilla or really kinky d/s stuff, almost always with me being submissive. I love it, but variety is good and I don't want to get into a rut!)

2. Take up yoga or something of the sort for the purpose of becoming more flexible

3. Start taking prepping myself for anal more seriously. Anal is something my boyfriend really wants to try that I'm indifferent to (but certainly not opposed to, though I confess to being a bit nervous...I'm also quite curious, though), and he's indulged me in quite a few of my kinks, so I really should return the favor already. <3

4. Find a willing woman for a threesome

5. As odd as it may sound, have less sex. I have a bad habit of ignoring that my back pain is giving me trouble when I'm in the mood and I really should stop doing that.

I'm least likely to keep the last 2. In #4's case it's because it's dependent on someone else, though, to be fair!
01/10/2013
Contributor: knitty Gritty knitty Gritty
If you had to make a list of five sexual resolutions for the New Year, what would they be and which do you think you are least likely to keep? Which ones are you most likely to keep?

my sexual resolutions i would like to uphold:

1. tell husband what i really want

2. try new things

3. try to have sex at least once a week (unless one of us is sick)

4. kiss every night before bed

5. communicate better, get some 'sex' cards to open up pathways of converstation
01/10/2013
Contributor: mattthebrat1970 mattthebrat1970
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
My top 5 sexuality goals for 2013:

1. Master the art of male, non-ejaculatory/multip le, orgasm.
2. I've just reliably found the G-spot (It exists dammit) on my wife twice in a row. Now I need to give her the preparation and stimulation she needs to squirt, so I can swallow.
3. Convince my wife to try pegging, either with a strap-on (such as the Fetish Fantasy Elite hollow) , or with the Fun Factory Share.
4. Convince my wife to do a threesome, with the other partner's sex of her choice.
5. Go to a swinger's club for soft swing
An honorable mention goes to going to a nude beach in Tybee this summer. Does anyone know where one is that is close to Tybee, GA?
01/10/2013
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
1. Learn more about my body
2. Learn more about my girlfriend's body
3. Get my girlfriend to have multiple orgasms
4. Upgrade our harness dildo
5. Have sex outside
01/11/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
1. Practice flogging technique
2. Learn more bondage ties
3. Successfully fist my SO
4. Help my SO to squirt for the first time
5. Remember. To. Breathe.
01/11/2013
Contributor: mzyummy69 mzyummy69
1. Be more submissive
2. Role play
3. Wear more sexy lingerie
4. Have sex more often
5. Be open to try new things

I might not stick to the submissive part though lol
01/11/2013
Contributor: Ashley N. Ashley N.
1. More Roleplaying
2. Dressing Up
3. More Kinky
4. Explore with toys
01/11/2013
Contributor: MissManners MissManners
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Worry less about what other people think
2. Stop biting my nails
3. Find a new hobby
4. Cut down on the junk food
5. Finally learn how to squirt LOL
01/11/2013
Contributor: Lunacatt Lunacatt
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
I have never though of making my resolutions something that I would ENJOY!!!!
01/11/2013
Contributor: Catherine Elizabeth Catherine Elizabeth
My Sexual Resolutions:

1. Have more sex (it was hard not to list this five times)
2. Focus on pleasing myself. There is nothing hotter to both partners than making sure you getting off.
3. Learn how to masturbate in new ways. Sure, I have my old tricks but why not add some new skills to sexytimes with myself?
4. Get out of control. Yep, despite my sub fantasies, I find myself controlling sex so much. It's time to let someone else take over and enjoy the ride. Who's in?
5. Use more sex toys with my partner! So many men I meet think toys replace their junk. No, it adds to the pile!

I'm most likely to keep #2 as a resolution, because it's a skill I can consistently practice. My other resolutions need more of a push, but they're on my list for a reason!

Thank you!
01/11/2013
Contributor: Livia Drew Livia Drew
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
Sexual Resolutions:
1) To develop a greater awareness of my own turn-ons and what works for me sexually
2) To experiment with at least one new toy a month (I'll create a calendar and everything!) -- perhaps the hardest for financial reasons
3) To be more open with myself about my sexual wants and needs
4) To be more sexually imaginative
5) To more thoroughly incorporate sex and sexuality into my day-to-day life (sex is not just a sometimes food... to semi-quote Cookie Monster)
01/11/2013
Contributor: mconley13 mconley13
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1) sticking to a routine for more then a few months to lose weight.
2) be comfortable with the body i have instead of the body i envision.
3) work into having a sexual date on the weekends no matter what.
4) use toys to keep open for new and exciting play.
5) relax and have fun.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
1. Stop postponing living as fully a sexual life as I am capable
2. Accept that I have body dysmorphia & learn to work around it more effectively
3. Increase my physical fitness so I'm willing to pursue a relationship with someone
4. Find opportunities to connect & socialize to find a sexual partner
5. Explore & expand the different aspects of my sexuality

Least likely to keep:#4
Most likely to keep:#5
01/11/2013
Contributor: C Lee Siennasai C Lee Siennasai
My five resolutions are:

Toywise, at least buy, 1, a Hitachi (I've curious about this "classic"), and
2, a Vixen Mustang (I'm lacking a solid toy like this, of quality material).
3 Do more toy reviews; upgrade blog design
4 Breathe more deeply during sex
5 Write more erotica <3

I intend to keep all these resolutions, but I guess I'm most motivated to buy the toys, LOL.
01/11/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
1. Do my kegel exercises every day
2. Try new positions
3. Cuddle more after sex
4. Give my partner more oral and try new techniques
5. Expand my toy collection!
01/11/2013