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Me and my fiancé are still beginners on bdsm. And I live it. I live to be controlled and I love to be tied up. We r still learning new things but this is my favorite
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EdenU – Let's Sexperiment!When it comes to sex, we all start off as beginners. Some of us have turned to erotica, adult films, friends or the internet for more information on how to be a better lover or the best way to get our feet wet in a
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EdenU – Let's Sexperiment!When it comes to sex, we all start off as beginners. Some of us have turned to erotica, adult films, friends or the internet for more information on how to be a better lover or the best way to get our feet wet in a fetish of interest; even more still have taken the traditional route: sexperiments. (We just so love how that word flows off the tongue, don't you?)It's as simple as it sounds; you see, hear, or think of something which might be fun to try and you see if you like it. Whether it's anal sex, double penetration, BDSM, forced and/or denial of orgasms, sex in public...the list of possibilities for getting off are endless and everyone does things just a little bit differently. It takes time and patience to learn how you like things done.By experimenting, we learn more about ourselves and can become more honest and real about what we want in the bedroom. Yet, so many of us are still afraid to speak up and ask for what we crave. Are you one of them?The sex toy industry is really trying to change the reputation of toys - things that were once scary are now mainstream and now you can purchase toys in drug stores and the shelves of big box stores. This is quite the positive outlook while faced with the idea that we're actually in an era of sexual repression. But, which toy is right for me?. That's a really good question, and one that is answered by experimenting. In order to make deciding easier, we've put together a number of kits based on our most popular toy categories. Each kit can be customized and contains essential products guaranteed for a great first time! Or, provide a great bargain for those who already know exactly what they desire. You may find additional information on each genre of toy here, Tips and Guides. Vroomy Vibe KitsG Marks the Spot - G-spot KitsBack Door Adventures - Anal KitsRomantic Couples KitsBoys Love Toys, Too - Men's KitsPleasure Perfection - Prostate KitsOver at Eden Cafe we're giving away kits for three winners Click the link to find out how to enter!1st Prize: Winners choice of any THREE kits2nd Prize: Winners choice of any TWO kits3rd Prize: Winners choice of kitYour Assignment:For those who would consider themselves advanced or intermediate players in the acts of your choice, do you remember your aha! moment where you felt like you were finally getting into a consistent groove and could perform the act with your "eyes closed", so to speak? Did you have help from your partner, books/videos, friends...? For those who still consider themselves beginners in their desired areas of play, how did you figure out this was something you were interested in doing? For all who play outside of the world of stereotypical missionary sex, can you recall a particular mishap which had you thinking twice about participating in said act again?Annnd...last but not least, what is something you haven't tried yet that you really, really want to try? What is something that is a hard "no" for you or your partner?
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