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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: Please, Ma'am (June 28, 8-10 PM EST)

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Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
This book will give you ALL kinds of ideas.
Now, I'm really looking forward to getting it! Thanks again! And I'm sure my husband will thank you as well if things work out.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Ohh... so glad you're enjoying it! (And reading it so early!)
I owe you an Amazon review

Should be done by the end of the week hopefully
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Jul!a
He'd probably like it then. This month and last month had books about female dominance
Mine will talk about it sometimes but he just can't let go of the reigns (literally!)
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I owe you an Amazon review

Should be done by the end of the week hopefully
Same here. I'm about 2/3 of the way through the book. Then review!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jul!a
That would be awesome! I think he might eventually come around to that idea. Problem is that as much as he loves to be dominated, I love to spoil him and can't do anything dominate-y lol
This is me all over. I feel much more natural making people comfortable than I ever would being dominant... which is silly, because I know how comfortable I feel when being dominated... oh well. Maybe my brain will stretch over time.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Ivy said "I am certainly willing to give it a try. Maybe I just haven't read the right lesbian sex scene, yet."

Clearly we should be discussing more lesbian anthologies here.
ooh yes please!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Top Kat Top Kat
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Given that he stole She's On Top, he probably loved that force thing. You probably have a pedicure slave right there living with you!
That would be an amazing service - worth a good training!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
All this talk of pedicure slaves is exciting me.

Q. Are all of the upcoming book selections anthologies?
06/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Antipova
This is me all over. I feel much more natural making people comfortable than I ever would being dominant... which is silly, because I know how comfortable I feel when being dominated... oh well. Maybe my brain will stretch over time.
Quite possibly. I'm hoping that mine will too. I'll get into being dominant, then I start to feel silly and lose the moment. He has the same problem.
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
How is Please Ma'am different than She's on Top? Or are they not that different?
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Actually, Carnal Machines is next month, but we've got Dreamlover — Paranormal Tales of Erotic Romance coming up in October (edited by our own Kristina Wright!)... I've already got that one and have read a couple stories out of it —it's ... more
Thanks, Laurel!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
Mine will talk about it sometimes but he just can't let go of the reigns (literally!)
My husband and I both ride horses, so that made me giggle. Although, with horses it's spelled reins. And it's generally a very bad idea to let go of them unless you have a very well trained horse.
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
All this talk of pedicure slaves is exciting me.

Q. Are all of the upcoming book selections anthologies?
You can see a list of all the books from the beginning of the club through to October here> link
06/28/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by Antipova
This is me all over. I feel much more natural making people comfortable than I ever would being dominant... which is silly, because I know how comfortable I feel when being dominated... oh well. Maybe my brain will stretch over time.
I absolutely cannot stand being dominated. Which is probably why I am so hesitant to dominate him even though he says that he would like it. Maybe reading this book will help me figure out how to manage things.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
My husband and I both ride horses, so that made me giggle. Although, with horses it's spelled reins. And it's generally a very bad idea to let go of them unless you have a very well trained horse.
<---pretty well trained, but bucks from time to time
06/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by removedacnt
How is Please Ma'am different than She's on Top? Or are they not that different?
To me, they weren't all that different really.
06/28/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Hi guys. I didnt even know there was a meeting!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Top Kat Top Kat
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Originally posted by removedacnt
How is Please Ma'am different than She's on Top? Or are they not that different?
She's on Top is her point of view and Please Ma'm is his.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I owe you an Amazon review

Should be done by the end of the week hopefully
No worries! And thanks!
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by clp
Hi guys. I didnt even know there was a meeting!
Hi CLP! Welcome!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
<---pretty well trained, but bucks from time to time
LOL!
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Top Kat
She's on Top is her point of view and Please Ma'm is his.
Oh ok. Interesting.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by removedacnt
You can see a list of all the books from the beginning of the club through to October here> link
Can't wait for Safe Word!
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by clp
Hi guys. I didnt even know there was a meeting!
Hi and welcome!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
In my introduction to tonight's discussion, I asked a few questions. I'll throw this one out that anyone can answer since it's not specifically about Please, Ma'am:

Do you like/appreciate stories that don't necessarily mesh with your own personal kinks? (In other words: if you're a submissive woman, can you enjoy stories about dominant women?)
06/28/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
In my introduction to tonight's discussion, I asked a few questions. I'll throw this one out that anyone can answer since it's not specifically about Please, Ma'am:

Do you like/appreciate stories that don't necessarily mesh ... more
I do because reading things I think I don't like usually open my mind and sometimes help me find something I didn't know I liked
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
Also, Rachel Kramer Bussel graciously answered some questions for me and they're posted on the NRBC blog. (Apologies if someone has already posted the link-- I can't keep up with ya'll sometimes!)

Interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel
06/28/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
I absolutely cannot stand being dominated. Which is probably why I am so hesitant to dominate him even though he says that he would like it. Maybe reading this book will help me figure out how to manage things.
With me, it's extremely relaxing to be able to know that my partner is completely pleased---or telling me exactly what I can do to make him feel good (mentally or physically). I just naturally like to see my partner happy, and it's a really wonderful thing to feel like *I'm* capable of making that happen.

I hope the book helps a bit! I actually learned a lot about myself by reading Please, Sir---and I assume this can have the same effect.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
No worries! And thanks!
Cool beans!

Oh! And that brownie was delicious, lol.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Ivy said "I am certainly willing to give it a try. Maybe I just haven't read the right lesbian sex scene, yet."

Clearly we should be discussing more lesbian anthologies here.
I'm game if we can also discuss more ménage à trois stories. (Can anyone recommend erotica with ménage à trois as the focal point?)
06/28/2011