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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: Please, Ma'am (June 28, 8-10 PM EST)

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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Sacchi
One thing about being a writer is that you learn to understand different points of view and preferences. You have to in order to write convincing characters, unless you stay within a narrower niche.
That's interesting, and makes perfect sense.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Don't be embarassed! Chalk it up to something kinky that you did and it was fun and a great memory.
Hey, at least nobody ever complained! As a matter of fact, most people in high school had the (very mistaken!) impression that my boyfriend and I were super-chaste.

Honestly, though, what do you think's going on when a young couple makes a tent out of their warmup jackets?
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by bluekaren
I really liked this book dispite it being a bit out of my comfort zone. I liked I'll Do It, For Her the best
Hi Karen! What about that particular story did you like most? And we were just discussing whether we can enjoy stories that aren't necessarily about our particular kinks.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by removedacnt
I'll bet! There was a story in another book where the husband tied his wife down in the back of a movie theatre that really got my imagination going. And another in the back of a limo while they were being chauffeured, which I REALLY hope to do ... more
Yummy stories!!!
06/28/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Sacchi
One thing about being a writer is that you learn to understand different points of view and preferences. You have to in order to write convincing characters, unless you stay within a narrower niche.
Most of my erotica is in first person and there are no names involved. I need to expand
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Antipova
Oh gawd , I did this all the time in high school... I'm so embarrassed about it now, but back then I'd just forget that anybody but me and my boyfriend were on the team bus... *headdesk* youth.
Hahaha!!!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
There was a story in Please Sir called Knot Here about a Dom tying his subs hands in a truck stop diner that really got me. My Mr is a truck driver and from time to time (when the kids are away) I will travel with him. This really peaked my ... more
Oooh... nice! I do love when a writer taps into something familiar and spins an erotic story around it. Yummy!
06/28/2011
Contributor: bluekaren bluekaren
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Hi Karen! What about that particular story did you like most? And we were just discussing whether we can enjoy stories that aren't necessarily about our particular kinks.
I liked the one about the guy who was dominant and then let his wife take the lead. I also liked It's not me, it's you. I loved the idea of a stranger giving orders
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Antipova
Hey, at least nobody ever complained! As a matter of fact, most people in high school had the (very mistaken!) impression that my boyfriend and I were super-chaste.

Honestly, though, what do you think's going on when a young couple makes ... more
Lol, now that my oldest has a car...and a girlfriend, it makes my stomach cramp every time they go anywhere
06/28/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Sacchi
One thing about being a writer is that you learn to understand different points of view and preferences. You have to in order to write convincing characters, unless you stay within a narrower niche.
I was actually just talking to someone about this last week. He read something I wrote and pointed out that it was very much written for straight women, in terms of where the details where: my descriptions of men were very specific and my descriptions of women very vague. But I am so glad he said something because I clearly wasn't thinking of my audience when I wrote.
06/28/2011
Contributor: bluekaren bluekaren
I also liked Paypig, it is so interesting that someone would be that way...just ask any Dom on the net and she will tell you that some people need that.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Oooh... nice! I do love when a writer taps into something familiar and spins an erotic story around it. Yummy!
It is on our to do list, I mean really who pays attention at truck stop diners anyway lol!!!!!
06/28/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Way too much to read to catch up! Sorry I never made it. I've been chatting with Mr and having dinner and chatting with my kiddo who's out of town.
Better late than never!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
Well, hubby is now home and wants to spend some time with me. So I need to get going. It's been fun and I look forward to the next meeting. Thanks again for the free book!
Thanks for stopping by, Ivy!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by removedacnt
I'll bet! There was a story in another book where the husband tied his wife down in the back of a movie theatre that really got my imagination going. And another in the back of a limo while they were being chauffeured, which I REALLY hope to do ... more
Lol... I've written a limo story (one woman, three men) and I've never even been in a limo!
06/28/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
While in my marriage, I identify as a top, I had a hard time (since it's all from the male perspective) putting myself into the stories that I did read. While I found parts of it very hot, I felt uncomfortable for parts of the stories.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Lol... I've written a limo story (one woman, three men) and I've never even been in a limo!
Mmm...that sounds intriguing....Damn! I wish he was home. I sit in bed and read some of the better short stories to him and he will lay with his eyes closed and continue them..
06/28/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Better late than never!
Yep!
06/28/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Lol... I've written a limo story (one woman, three men) and I've never even been in a limo!
Omg! What book is that in? I would love to read it!!!

Actually my husband used to be a limo driver. And while we've done it in the back of a limo many many times, it's never been while someone else was driving. And it's been a fantasy of mine for ages. Though I've never told hubby. lol
06/28/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
We haven't re-created anything yet and probably won't from this book. maybe a few things from please sir.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Omg! What book is that in? I would love to read it!!!

Actually my husband used to be a limo driver. And while we've done it in the back of a limo many many times, it's never been while someone else was driving. And it's been a ... more
You should tell him....maybe he will hire a car...
06/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
You should tell him....maybe he will hire a car...
Agreed!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Most of my erotica is in first person and there are no names involved. I need to expand
If you're writing, you're off to a great start!
06/28/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
If you're writing, you're off to a great start!
Thanks. I thought about submitting for Sacchi's new anthology, but I don't know if I've missed the deadline.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I've thought about trying to write. There are just so many interuptions here that I don't think it would be possible to stay in the zone.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
While in my marriage, I identify as a top, I had a hard time (since it's all from the male perspective) putting myself into the stories that I did read. While I found parts of it very hot, I felt uncomfortable for parts of the stories.
That's interesting-- and an important point, I think. While I can write an erotic story from the male point of view, sometimes I find it difficult to read a story from the male perspective.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Thanks. I thought about submitting for Sacchi's new anthology, but I don't know if I've missed the deadline.
My deadline for Girl Fever is July 15, so there's plenty of time. Go for it!
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Omg! What book is that in? I would love to read it!!!

Actually my husband used to be a limo driver. And while we've done it in the back of a limo many many times, it's never been while someone else was driving. And it's been a ... more
The Mammoth Book of Threesomes and Moresomes. It was so much fun to write with a couple of different plot lines packed into one story.
06/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
The Mammoth Book of Threesomes and Moresomes. It was so much fun to write with a couple of different plot lines packed into one story.
Awesome, another one to check out for sure.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
Awesome, another one to check out for sure.
I agree!
06/28/2011